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Chapter 74

Although grades cannot represent everything, children's grades can indeed affect the lives of every family.If they do well in the exam, they will make the family happy, but if they do poorly in the exam, the family will be gloomy.Many people say that grades are not the most important thing, but for students in the third or third year of junior high school, such words are no longer suitable.

There are many paths in life, but changing one's destiny through learning is the easiest and fairest one.As long as you choose the path of learning, you should stop complaining about hard work, because when you go to a place other than school, when others ask you for grades, it will not be as fair as it is now. Now that you know the rules of survival, Don't lie to your ears anymore, because if you really don't need to go to school to get the life you and your parents expect, you won't be sitting here at all.

Sure enough, after the results of the third monthly exam were announced, Shang Xuehai appeared again.

He probably knew something about what happened to the Pan family recently.This made him doubt the educational ability of his father-in-law, mother-in-law and even his wife.He had heard before that children from Kochi families had a high probability of suffering from mental illness, and sure enough, the children of his sister-in-law and brother-in-law had problems.He used to agree with the concept of producing filial sons under the stick, and if you want to become a talent, you have to learn from the dead, but after hearing about Chang Xiaoxiao's situation and Shang Yan's test scores dropped again this time, he completely changed his mind.

The second son-in-law hadn't made a fuss yet, and the eldest son-in-law came to the door again today. Pan Guanlin felt extremely nervous when he saw that the other party was no longer in a discussing tone.

Pan Guanlin said: "Business language has improved. If you are not a teacher, you don't know. It is normal for children to go through some repetitions in the process of improving their grades. You can't rush it. It takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to cultivate people. Education must be patient. This is not an assembly line. As a piecework worker, you can produce as many parts as you want. The grades are related to various factors, and children will be at a loss for a while.”

Shang Xuehai said: "I will also participate in our company's overseas business next year, and there will be more opportunities to go abroad. If Shang Yan goes to study, I can often visit him. And my concept is different now from before. Children, the main thing is physical and mental health. Our education in Southeast Asia is too heavy. Instead of being under this pressure, it is better to study abroad. And Shang Yan has received so much quality education since he was a child, and his English is also good. Maybe that side of education is more suitable for him .”

Song Jiahui said: "Although studying abroad is not a bad thing, it's not like leaving at such a young age!"

Shang Xuehai said: "Since you want to go abroad, the smaller the better. I still have that point of view. If his grades are particularly outstanding in China, that's all. In the current situation, it's better to study happily abroad."

Song Jiahui said: "I don't know if I can be happy studying, but how can I guarantee my life. The child of one of my students went to the UK before graduating from junior high school. I live in school all the year round, and my child relies on himself for illness and other problems. Gradually, the relationship with his parents is also weak. Later, I completely became a British person. I didn’t care about my own country. I found an English girl and got married. My parents went there and treated me like guests. I’m basically a stranger. If this is the life you want, I don't understand."

Pan Guanlin said: "This is an old view of yours. I can't explain it to you, but Shangyan can understand what I mean."

The old couple suddenly turned pale with shock, Qi Qi asked: "Shang Yan, you also agreed to go abroad? Aren't you determined not to go abroad by yourself?"

Shang Yan said: "I didn't want to go out before, but now I really have a different idea. Ren Fei came to Xingang to study since she was a child, just to have a good future. Zheng Xiaoyun went to an international school since she was a child, and her parents also wanted to give her A good future, but she can't go!"

Pan Guanlin interrupted his grandson's words: "I understand. You are trying to show off because Zheng Xiaoyun went to an international school since he was a child, but now he can't go abroad, right?"

Shang Yan said loudly: "I just can't see how Zheng Xiaoyun is a frog in a well. After studying in an international school with 40 yuan a year, I feel that I am great. How many seniors in our school were later admitted to Harvard and Stanford. , Yale and other top prestigious schools, they are full scholarships, she spent half a day in international schools but dare not go abroad, so I dare!"

Song Jiahui said: "Zheng Xiaoyun's grandma is very mean. Their family is almost worried about this child. What do you call her?"

Shang Yan said: "She bullies Ren Fei. Ren Fei is my good friend. Why does Zheng Xiaoyun look down on others? After I go abroad, I will help both Ren Fei and Li Kun go abroad. We will start a company together abroad, become a big boss, and earn foreign money. People's money is spent in China, which makes Zheng Xiaoyun mad."

The business student was happy: "You're fine, kid. I want to be a big boss abroad. It seems that going abroad is suitable for you!"

Fit ass!

The second elder of the Pan family still had the same concept as before, and resolutely stopped this unreliable father from trying to trick his grandson.

Li Kun's mother was unemployed again, and her son's academic performance was her only hope in life. Although he didn't fail the exam this time, his grades were mediocre, and there was no possibility of studying the key points.

"Teacher Pan said that your grades are not bad this time. But there are 12 people in the class, you have to work hard, and you only get 22 in the exam every day at [-] o'clock. Do you think there is any hope for our family?"

Li Kun said: "Mom, I will work hard, and I will definitely do better in the exam next time than this time."

Li Kun's mother said: "You say that every time. Last time you only took the exam to handle more than a dozen. In your poor class, you can't even get in the grade. You just don't get in. Our mother and I can't hold hands." Live, so as not to let your father and that vixen laugh at us."

Li Kun said: "Mom, I will avenge you when I grow up. I will definitely become a very powerful person, and let all those who abandon us be trampled under my feet with hatred."

Li Kun's mother looked at her son: "Your father is too cruel to our mothers. I never thought that it would be fine if he didn't want me. He didn't even want such a big son. He refused to pay well for living expenses. Every month Let me beg him like I want a small amount of money, can you not steam the steamed buns to fight for your breath? You can also go to a key high school and a key university in the future, so that your mother can feel proud for once in her life?"

Li Kun said loudly to his mother: "Don't ask that bastard for living expenses. I can support myself and you while working. I would rather starve to death than be angry with that bastard."

Li Kun's mother said: "Son, I was sick before and dragged you down. In the future, even if my mother sells blood, she will not distract you. You can study hard and don't worry about anything else. As long as you can pass the exam The point is, even if my mother is dead, the smile is still sweet."

Li Kun looked at his mother, feeling unbearable pain in his heart, but sometimes he felt creepy!
On Zheng Xiaoyun's side, the child locked himself in the room and couldn't come out.Song Jiahe sent the house to the door, but her granddaughter refused to open the door. She didn't eat, drink or go to the toilet for the whole Saturday. There was no sound in the house, and she was only worried outside.As she got older, her heart couldn't stand such a toss. Song Jiahe finally understood why Song Jiahui fell ill when she saw her grandson. In the past, her granddaughter only came home on weekends, and she didn't talk about studying when she came home. Sun and Sun met every day, and she was really powerless.

"Xiaoyun, if you fail the exam, you will fail the exam. If grandma doesn't tell your parents, eat well, sleep well, and the rest is not important." Before Song Jiahe finished speaking, there was a loud noise, and the room The old man hit the door with some heavy object, which frightened the old man, his blood pressure rose, and it took him a long time to recover.

Zheng Xiaoyun is puzzled. Her parents are talented students who graduated from prestigious schools. Grandma told her since she was a child that her family is unusual. Her parents are all elites and talents. Their life abroad is very happy. Also has good genes.Because of these, she has been arrogant since she was a child, and feels that she is born different from ordinary people.

But when she went to an international school, she found that all the classmates around her were either rich or expensive, and her parents had very average conditions except for their academic qualifications. Even in the dormitory, her family's conditions were at the bottom.The interpersonal relationship is not good, so she simply stopped reading.When she came to a public school, she was not as good as she thought, but in the end, was she not even as good as Ren Fei?

A girl who came to study in a small place is fine if she is a small-town problem solver, why are there so many gangs, even Pan Xishi prefers a country girl.So who is wrong?

Zheng Xiaoyun thought about it for a whole day. She listened to her grandmother nagging outside the door, and she said that she had to go to the school to discuss it. Lied to myself.

Parents are not so outstanding, and my family is also very ordinary.It was the adults in the family who worshiped themselves and didn't do well outside, but they taught her to be a person full of arrogance, but in school, it wasn't like that at all, she was like a joke, and This joke was made up by grandma and parents for myself.

"I hate you, I hate you to death!"

Song Jiahe heard the violent noise in his granddaughter's room, and felt that the child was going to smash the house down.She remembered that when her son was a little bit naughty, he would beat him up early. How could the child dare to tear down the house if he was unhappy like now?
Ren Fei's parents couldn't quench their thirst, so they could only scold their children on the phone.In the past, Ren Fei would admit her mistakes to her parents, promise to work harder next time, and explain why she failed the exam this time.

But she didn't say a word on the phone. She just questioned her parents: Why did you leave me alone in an unfamiliar environment and only ask about my grades every day?Can you care if I'm doing well?I finally understand now that the girl in the other class on the same building refused to be friends with me, not for any reason, but because she disliked me.They dislike me for being a country boy, and dislike me for occupying their key spots in the exam. "

"Why do you say this again, kid? How many times have your parents explained it to you?"

"I thought life would be easier if I got good academic performance, but now I know, whether I should be rejected or I will be rejected, and I can do whatever I want. Why do I have to come here when I live well in my hometown Suffering this kind of crime, living such a life of being discriminated against? It's all because of your whims and your disregard for my life."

Ren Fei's father scolded directly on the phone, and Ren Fei and his mother were crying at the same time.The phone was hung up suddenly, the father's scolding stopped abruptly, and the mother's crying was also silent. The hearts of the two of them rose to the throat, and the two of them stared at each other, so they had to call Pan Xishi. .

Pan Xishi kept answering the phone calls from the parents of the students at night, and said a lot, but in the end, all she wanted to say was that most of the children's problems were family problems.A child represents a family. Adults straighten out the family affairs, don't impose your emotions elsewhere and regrets in your life on your children, give them normal care and protection, set an example and add a little supervision, Children can live happily and study well.

Maybe there are not many parents who understand this truth!

　Let's make a fuss, Xiaoyue, let's see who is watching!

　　
　
(End of this chapter)