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Chapter 87 Good luck again and again
It's the end of the year again, and Pan Xishi seems that the bad luck of the past two years has begun to dissipate, and good things are coming one after another.First, several manuscript fees were credited to the account separately, and then the copyright fee was also credited to the bank card.This morning, Vice President Wang personally talked to Pan Xishi, asking her to make persistent efforts and strive to become a full-time employee next year.

Pan Xishi asked in disbelief: "Principal Wang, our class has caused troubles for the leaders this semester, and the school is still considering making me a full-time student? Why can't I believe it?"

Firstly, she has no connections, secondly, she does not have a high degree of education, and thirdly, she does not know how to curry favor with the leaders. Not only did she have tough fights with the parents of several students, but she also ruthlessly beat up teachers with backgrounds.Pan Xishi didn't have any hope at all. She just wanted to be able to substitute for a longer time. If she really had to leave school, she planned to take the post of a private school teacher after her education was upgraded to a postgraduate.

This sudden hope made her a little confused!
Good thing, is it really all here?

Principal Wang patiently explained to the young teachers in front of him: "I have been studying the good development models of primary and secondary education around the world recently. I have summarized some, and I will share with you today."

Pan Xishi nodded: "Okay, it's time to study!"

"Finland has a world-class basic education system, but Finnish educators are constantly thinking about a serious issue related to the future and destiny of the country. How can the citizens have future qualities and abilities? I have summarized two points that are most effective The place that impresses me. First, because Finland is a small country and there are not many children there, Finland attaches great importance to every child’s right to equal education. The right to equal education is the core and the most basic idea of ​​Finnish education It is reflected in education that "no one is left behind". The first time I heard this sentence was when I was interviewing you, Mr. Pan, and I was very touched at the beginning. When I saw the research report With the same concept as my own, I feel that these words are very inspiring. So, instead of you and me learning, we also have to learn from young teachers like you!"

Pan Xishi suddenly felt shocked. It had been so long before the leader remembered what she said so clearly, and it was connected with education research. Let her be a little flattered.

Principal Wang went on to say: "Secondly, since 2016, there are a total of 222 courses in Finnish primary and secondary schools. While strengthening the core courses of basic education, the teaching has also increased the cultivation of students' skills. Guide students to master learning knowledge. Methods, developing the habit of critical thinking, improving the ability of interpersonal communication and using technology, I think there are still some deficiencies in the school’s daily teaching.”

Pan Xishi said: "Do you also think that it is not a bad thing to educate children with critical thinking? Take the education I have received since childhood. The elderly taught me to be sensible and obedient and to be tolerant. It seems that I dare to be brave in front of many people. It is a very bad thing to express your own different views. If you have a dispute with others because of your different views, then this character is too bad, and no one will like it. So I and many of my peers are not used to it He expressed that when he was treated unfairly when he was young, his first reaction was to be patient, hoping that the other party could reflect on himself, and even at the very beginning, he would be the one who doubted himself first.”

Principal Wang said: "Our children have been educated too well-behaved since childhood. Today's children are becoming more and more individual, but they still have this problem. Individuality does not mean that they are not in harmony with others, or that they do not know how to get along with others, but that they have Independent thinking. Speaking of this, I would like to talk about Singapore. In Singapore’s educational philosophy, in addition to the requirements for scores, they also pay attention to children’s ability to distinguish right from wrong, that is, the ability to think independently. This is similar to yours The problem pointed out is very similar. Let me just say, you are a young teacher who can find problems and is good at research!"

Pan Xishi said: "I just think that the purpose of education is not to be uniform. The purpose of our education is to recognize everyone's differences in an inclusive atmosphere after children learn to struggle and work hard. After finding the track that really belongs to me, I always have the passion to work hard. Even if I go to a vocational school after the high school entrance examination, a technician school, continue to go to a vocational college after the college entrance examination, and go to a blue-collar job after graduating from university, it is not important, it is important The most important thing is to be young without regrets, to have really worked hard, to have struggled, and to be happy!"

Pan Xishi recalled the past when he grew up, and said slowly: "When children grow up and enter the society, they may not take any math class or any foreign language class at home, but they will remember the time when they were young. There are many moments when I feel loved and abandoned in my study life. The attitude of a society towards a child is not really about whether there is money or not, but more about how the child is treated since childhood. , how they will treat others when they grow up."

Principal Wang said to Pan Xishi: "This is also the reason why I am optimistic about you, work hard!"

Although she wants to save money to buy a house, but now that she has "full pockets", with the encouragement and approval of Principal Wang, and even sees the hope of becoming a full-time employee, she must reward herself well.This time she was a little "ruthless" to herself. In order to match the ruby ​​bracelet on her hand, she bought another ruby ​​ring and a pair of ruby ​​earrings.The day after tomorrow is Christmas, and the discounts are very strong. At this time, the mall is overcrowded, and many couples come to choose Christmas and New Year gifts.

Pan Xi spent very little time choosing jewelry, because it was planted a long time ago, and it would be over if he had the money to pull it out.But Yuanjia Road is narrow, probably because they live nearby, so everyone likes to shop in this mall.She unexpectedly met Pan Xinyi and Cui Haoyin again.

The last time was to buy a house, this time it was to buy jewelry. The two of them are going well?
The world is so big, how do you always attract two people with completely different magnetic fields between yourself and the other?

Pan Xishi seemed to be running away, and was about to leave immediately, but Pan Xinyi's words successfully caught her attention, and her curiosity made her unable to move for a while. She is not a gossip person, but the other party's actions are indeed beyond her cognition.

Pan Xiyi said to Cui Haoyin worriedly: "Does your mother like this jadeite ring? I'm afraid that if I buy it for her, she will think it's too ordinary."

Cui Haoyin said: "Then you can buy more expensive ones. Look at the [-] yuan next to it, the quality looks much better, and it will be more generous as a gift!"

Pan Xinyi felt her heart ache, she pursed her lips and said, "Boyfriends buy jewelry for girlfriends, and future mother-in-law buys jewelry for themselves. You guys are fine. I'll buy it for your mother, and you still pick and choose." For the fourth one, you have to choose the one that is so expensive!"

Cui Haoyin said: "I didn't ask you to buy it either. You dragged me over by yourself, saying that you wanted to make your future mother-in-law happy, and hoped for my advice. If I gave an opinion and you disagree, then I'll go first. Mom has a lot of jewelry, and there is no shortage of this cheap one you bought."

Pan Xinyi said angrily, "Then don't buy it, you can go!"

Cui Haoyin turned around and left without looking back, leaving Pan Xinyi in front of the counter.Pan Xinyi burst into tears quickly, and called Cui Haoyin to tell him to come back quickly, but the other party obviously disagreed.She saw Pan Xishi alone, saw the jewelry bag in his hand, and looked around.

Pan Xishi walked up to her and said, "Don't look for it anymore, I came here and bought it myself, it's a present I gave myself."

Pan Xinyi was in a bad mood, and said sarcastically, "You're so cool, you know grandma will arrive in Xingang tomorrow, right? Everyone is preparing gifts for grandma, and I think these two things in your hand are just a gift for the old man. If I tell Old man, what do you think she will think?"

"The gift I bought for myself will not be given to anyone, but you, instead of buying an emerald ring for the future mother-in-law, it is better to use this money to honor the old grandma. If I tell her the old man, what do you think she will think?"

Pan Xinyi's expression changed instantly.

"I'm flattering Cui Haoyin's mother. I hope she can sell the wedding house that she prepared in advance, and then use the money as a down payment to buy a new real estate in the city center. I can repay the loan with Cui Haoyin, But write the names of the two of us! This is my goal, and I will work hard to achieve it. I have grown up so much, and I have lived until now by overcoming each of these goals. Don’t look at me being wronged now, victory will eventually come It belongs to me. How do you understand this truth, otherwise you wouldn’t be in this situation with the uncle’s family. Their such an expensive house, if you plan a little for yourself, you won’t end up where you are today.”

Pan Xishi said: "I have never had such a goal growing up. In my world, what belongs to others is what belongs to others. I have nothing to do with me. I will never stare at other people's jobs."

Pan Xinyi said: "That's because you have no possibility of marrying Shang Yunxuan. If you have reached the stage of discussing marriage, how much income does Shang Yunxuan have in total, how much property does he own, and how much property does the Shang family have? Can you not be interested?"

Pan Xishi didn't argue with her, but just smiled lightly.A thousand cups of wine is less when you meet a bosom friend, but a few words are more than a few words if you don't speculate.Never argue with someone who has a different perception than you, it's just a waste of time.

But she still couldn't help but said to Pan Xinyi: "If you need to please others to have love, I would rather be single for the rest of my life. What's more, if you please others, you will be hated."

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After returning home, Pan Xishi couldn't wait to put on a set of ruby ​​jewelry on her body. She looked around in the mirror, looking at everything she looked at.A woman has to please herself more often than anyone else.Then, she took out a lacquered and carved jewelry box from the cabinet, and put a set of ruby ​​jewelry in it.Grandma used to have such a jewelry box, which she said was a dowry when she got married.

Now the jewelry box and the jewelry in it don't know who belongs to it, but due to her childhood memory, she thinks it is a good symbol, no one will buy her a dowry, she may not get married, but this Everything is her blessing to herself, no need for others!
(End of this chapter)