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Chapter 71 Jiajia's Little Theater: "Jiaqi loves to complain"



Jiajia's plan is to change the theme once a month, and the theme chosen for the first month is parent-child relationship.This is selfish. Her parent-child diary is always fishing for three days and posting on the Internet for two days, so I am afraid that the interesting details of the sugar bag will be forgotten one day. Converting these contents into video materials can not only share the happiness Going out is also a way of recording.

"Hello everyone, I'm Jiaqi. Today I heard my mother tell me something about my childhood. It was very touching. They generally got married early in that era, and there were not as many educational books and experts as there are now, so most of them are not Know how to get along with children.

Probably when I was four or five years old, one day my dinner was sweet potato porridge, which I didn’t like the most.My mother was so angry that she wanted to hit me, but she couldn't bear it, so she wanted to go out and calm down.I thought it was because I made a mistake, and my mother was angry and didn't want me, so I ran up to chase, but halfway through, I remembered that the door of our house was open, hesitated for a while, and then turned back and closed the door before continuing to chase people..."

After recording this section, although Jiajia still had a smile on her face, there was pain in her eyes.Ordinarily, she was also raised by the old Lin's family, but why did she still feel insecure?Why can a scumbag like Zhao Shuang play tricks on her?In the final analysis, it is some unconscious actions of parents that give children the habit of "pleasing".

"Jiajia, are you okay?"

Lin Mingxu has been listening carefully since Jiajia started recording. He thought it was funny at first, but the more he listened, the more he felt something was wrong.Linking to Qiaoqiao's cautious actions in the past two years, I seem to understand something in my heart.

Jiajia shook her head to indicate that she was fine, but when she thought of the two children, she suddenly felt a little worried.She must always remind herself that when dealing with children, she can be angry or even reprimanded a few words, but she must avoid putting herself in a high and cold position, so that children will have the concept of being unequal to each other even when facing their relatives.

Lin Mingxu watched Jiajia hide the pain in her eyes bit by bit, feeling extremely depressed.He couldn't just pretend nothing happened just because Jia Jia said nothing happened.In fact, he is not a particularly careful person, but as long as Jiajia is involved, he feels like a radar, and he is unwilling to let go of any blind spot.

"Jia Jia, I once thought that you were my life-saving medicine. But I think that I can also be your medicine, the medicine that makes you happy and happy! The mother who was anxious to catch up with her anger did not forget The little girl who closed the door of the house is now a mother. We have the right to speak and have a wider world. Those parents who took the wrong path with us will eventually become a textbook for us to help our children avoid mistakes!"

"Hehe~ Lin Mingxu, you seem to be an old pedant!" Jia Jia was amused by the suddenly serious Principal Lin, and the memory pain that suddenly appeared just now seemed not so unbearable.

"A pedant is a pedant, and you are still a pedant? Isn't he seven or eight years younger than I look!" Lin Mingxu switched from affectionate to funny, and the speed is no less than that of Sichuan opera.

"Mua~" has known each other for many years, and Jiajia has long been used to Lin Mingxu's various faces.But for the man's hard work, he still gave her a kiss to express her gratitude.

Lin Mingxu tasted the sweetness, and pointed to the other side, indicating that the thank you gift was not enough.Jiajia gave another kiss without hesitation, but Lin Mingxu pointed to his forehead...the two were giggling and laughing, so lively.

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After the two got together, Jiajia became more and more comfortable in front of Lin Mingxu, laughing and angry were natural, and in the process of running in, they also found a mode of getting along that both of them felt comfortable with.

For Lin Mingxu, this is Jiajia's trust and recognition of him wholeheartedly.For Jia Jia, this is a great start to her new life.She is grateful for someone who can understand her caution, agree with her hypocrisy, and help her steer her well when she is struggling to sail.

World, worth it!

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This weekend, Jiajia handed over the two children to Lin Mingxu, and hid in the private room to record the video.

"Hi everyone, I'm Jiaqi. Today I'm not trying to be miserable or cute, but to complain about my daughter! Seeing that I'm about to go to elementary school, I can be liberated. But in my recollection, nine out of ten are blood and tears, warm and beautiful Only one or two points. But just these two points have supported me for more than 800 days and nights without complaint or regret!
And one of the things that impressed me the most was training her to use the toilet independently.My daughter speaks late, so when she first felt the need to go to the toilet, she didn't know how to tell the adults, so she ran in front of you and made a fuss.But to be honest, after all, it is the first time to be a mother, and I really didn't receive the information in the first place.

When I saw her making a fuss, I would coax her with a toy or something delicious, and then she calmed down.Therefore, for a long time, there was a long row of trousers hanging on the balcony of my house.This is actually not surprising, after all, she has no experience, but she turns upside down when she goes to bed at night, how is it upside down?Then complain!

I am not as anxious as most mothers about quitting diapers, so I will still use it for her at night, after all, I also need a good sleep.But people don’t agree. Whenever I feel like urinating at night, it’s either moaning or pushing me with my hands. I can’t even open my eyes, so I have to go to her small toilet for convenience.So, every morning when I wake up, the diapers are all dry..."

"..."

After finally recording this long section, Jiajia felt that her throat was about to burst into smoke.The last video continued to ferment, and the number of views has reached more than 300 million in two days, which gave her greater confidence and confidence in the style she set now.

What makes Jiajia most happy is that the 15-second video uploaded to the short video app also performed well.It may be due to the cheerful tone and rhythm, coupled with the degree of topicality, it ranked 7th in the popular ranking of the day.

What followed was the opening of the 60-second long video permission, and the Tucao video just now was prepared for this.Jiajia needs to study clearly whether this short video software focuses on rhythm or content.

As for the slightly sad video uploaded on Weibo yesterday, although the number of views was not as high as the first one, the number of comments has doubled.She knew that it was the details of her "go back and close the door" that accidentally touched the distant memories of the children of their generation.People at that time had nothing to do except food and clothing.Not many parents will devote their minds to paying attention to whether a child is "scared" or "pleased" when crying.

With the new fans and comments, Jiajia suddenly felt a sense of mission and pressure.Originally, she just wanted to share the happiness and practice her words, but she didn't think about accomplishing any great cause.But when I saw those precious mothers in the comment area sharing their stories sincerely, I suddenly thought, can she provide her fans with a platform to decompress and grow while satisfying herself?

Although, this is not something that can be done by one's own strength.But if you don't even have the courage to try, don't talk about pursuing your ideals.

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In the following video topic selection, Jiajia began to consciously go in the direction of mother and child, but also avoided some overly sensitive topics, such as women's rights.She doesn't like chicken soup, and she doesn't sell anxiety. She just hopes to bring happiness to fans who like her through her sharing.



　Regardless of whether it is chicken soup for the soul or chicken soup for poison, in fact, it is not as nutritious as imagined.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)