mom is single

Chapter 75 What happens to parents when they are old?



After staying in her hometown for most of the day, Jiajia is ready to go back to the city.The previous video manuscripts are almost used up, and she has to go back to work quickly.But before leaving, the two children were reluctant to go back, and the old man was also reluctant.There was a dilemma between the two, so I had to let the two little ones stay here and go back first, and let Lin Mingxu come to pick them up at night.

The theme of this month is "Time", which mainly talks about the changes of the elders, such as the phenomenon of intergenerational relatives.Jiajia had already collected some materials two days ago, but a few more interesting jokes flashed in her mind just now, and she had to go back and record two.

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"Hello everyone, I'm Jiaqi. Today I want to talk to you about the time and the changes in my parents. Have you noticed that as you get older, the principles that the older generation adheres to are not so firm.

When I was a child, I didn’t like the outer layer of steamed buns, so every time I had to peel off the skin of the steamed buns before eating, and then throw it to our puppy.But my mother doesn't want to see my problem. Every time she sees me peeling off the buns, she says I'm a waste of food.

Over time, I was too lazy to fight, and later I got rid of this bad habit.Even though sometimes the outer skin of the steamed bun becomes limp due to water vapor, I can still eat it without changing my expression.

But at noon today, when my mother saw that I ate the steamed bun skin directly, she asked me to peel off the steamed bun skin before eating!God, I was frozen right then, you know?I asked her, don't you think I'm a waste?What did my mother say wasted?Take it off and give it to the puppy to eat!

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You say, this change means that my treatment has improved?Or is it lowered? "

"..."

After recording this piece, Jia Jia focused on complaining about the issue of intergenerational relatives, and this is also a feeling.In Lao Lin's family, she and Jian Jian's generation were definitely spoiled and grown up.But since Tangbao came back and the glutinous rice balls from his younger brother's family were born, their little treatment was not enough.

For example, the second uncle, who has always had a loud voice, can't help but lower his voice by eight degrees every time he sees a sugar bag. In Lin Cheng's words, it's like a different person.The way my uncle treated them in the past was to keep throwing red envelopes, saying that he didn't know what we wanted to buy, and he didn't know how to choose it, so he gave the money to buy it for himself.

But starting from the first two years, treating sugar packets has become buying milk powder, toys, snacks and so on.And when buying milk powder, you need to ask about the source of milk, when buying clothes, ask if it’s made of pure cotton... In the first half of the first half of the year, when the glutinous rice balls were celebrated for the [-]-day banquet, in addition to the red envelopes, they also brought some fish oil and spirulina. back.

For another example, Lin's mother, who was angry and reluctant to beat and scold her child for accidentally using "cold violence" when she was young, also learned to choose to communicate and resolve in a more equal way when Tangbao and Qiaoqiao made mistakes.

For another example, Father Lin, who is not very talkative, can tell stories no worse than the old man when playing with sugar bags.Going back this weekend has refreshed my cognition again.She actually saw her father reading nursery rhymes and stories to Tangyuan!It's cadenced, and it's standard Mandarin.

She figured it out!
It turns out that those things that you don't care about when you are a parent, you will care about when your children are also parents.

It turns out that the warmth and care that those children failed to enjoy will eventually be enjoyed by their children.

What about those who have no grandchildren?

Then I have to mention the second uncle. It may be because Lin Cheng and Lin Chu have never planned to get married, and they have no grandchildren to spoil them, so they simply used their tenderness on their two sons.

Jia Jia heard Lin Chu complain more than once that the second uncle cared too much for them.In winter, before his second aunt thought about it, he would take out the quilts in the room of his two sons to dry in the sun; and in summer, when it was hot, he would tell them not to eat the melons and fruits just taken out of the refrigerator, but to eat them a little bit. Let it sit for a while before eating...

These actions that made Jiajia and the others feel both warm and funny are too numerous to enumerate. They all show that the parents who were once young and reckless, finally understood the true meaning of life under the baptism of years and the growth of experience.

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"Ding dong~"

"Heh~ When did you come back? Where's the child?" Jiajia was awakened by Lin Mingxu's artificial ding-dong sound, and looked behind him after greeting him.

"You didn't go to town to pick them up?"

Lin Mingxu sighed softly, pulled Jia Jia out of the seat, and pressed her down on the couch in the living room.Then, she took off her shoes, lay on Jiajia's lap, and breathed out contentedly. "How long has it been since we had time together?"

Jiajia laughed, this guy didn't pick up the child on purpose, right?But it's understandable when she thinks about it. During this period of time, her thoughts were all on the two little ones who had just started school, and she neglected Lin Mingxu a bit.

"How are you doing at work recently? I see that the bags under your eyes are coming out!" Jiajia motioned Lin Mingxu to close his eyes, and gently helped Lin Mingxu press the center of his brows and temples with his thumb.

Quietly enjoying the massage service of his beloved, Lin Mingxu wanted to hum a little tune comfortably. "The most difficult stage has passed, and the work can be started. However, after all, it has been three years since I have not been in the agency, so it is really difficult." He has no habit of reporting good news and not bad news at Jiajia, but puts his own Spread out each side for Jiajia to see clearly.

"Well, I believe in your ability! Changing to a new environment is bound to be difficult. Look at how well the children have adapted! Hmm... Are you really not going to pick up the children? The sugar bag will definitely be fine, I wish I could play more at home What about Qiaoqiao? His grandparents haven’t seen anyone for a week, right?” Jiajia knows that Lin Mingxu’s parents are happy to see Qiaoqiao get close to her, but if they don’t go back on weekends, is it really okay?

"Qiaoqiao connected me when I called. The two of us were having fun at home, so we told Jiajia to pick up tomorrow morning!" Lin Mingxu didn't dare to tell Jiajia that Qiaoqiao was willing to come back at first, but under his hint, he knew that he would call Jiajia again. If I could play with my little brother for one more day, I stayed happily.

Jiajia really didn't doubt it, because when she left at noon, the two cubs didn't want to come back.It's rare to go back to my hometown to have fun, and it's impossible for the two of them not to have fun.However, she thought that as long as Lin Mingxu called, he would come back obediently.

"Then remember to pick it up early tomorrow! It seems that their homework hasn't been finished yet!" Since they didn't pick up the pick up, Jiajia decided not to worry about it.Pick it up tomorrow and explain what happened tomorrow.

"Well, go early tomorrow morning!"

"Row!"

Jiajia continued to press Lin Mingxu's temples. She also worked in a state-owned enterprise, so she could empathize with Lin Mingxu's state.Work within the system may seem glamorous and stable, but human relationships are much more complicated.

But life is like this, if you choose a path, you must go on without complaint or regret.Just like she chose to do self-media for almost a year, but she never dared to accept advertisements lightly, fearing that if she was not careful, her previous achievements would be ruined.



　The edges and corners of people will be smoothed by life one day~
　　
　
(End of this chapter)