I just want to live in peace

Chapter 63.
Sun Mingxi scratched his head: "Grandpa and grandma came to our house as soon as they wanted to. Is there any reason?"

Ye Xiaodan smiled happily: "Of course there is a reason. Your grandparents used to entertain relatives and friends in their hometown during the Spring Festival, and they didn't come to live with us until the fifteenth day of the first lunar month. Now they come here in a hurry before the time. Don't you think Is it strange?"

She couldn't figure it out: "Mom, what do you think is the reason?"

"Of course they couldn't stand the public opinion of the villagers and had to come here. Your grandparents praised your uncle and aunt, but after your mother left your grandparents' hometown, your grandparents, uncles and aunts couldn't even have a decent meal. If you can't eat, your uncle and aunt can't wait to return to Shanghai at noon on the first day of the new year, and the villagers will definitely say it very badly. Your grandparents are used to being proud, but they can't stand this kind of treatment."

Sun Mingxi flattened her mouth: "Grandpa and grandma are so embarrassing. On the one hand, they dislike you as inferior to the second aunt, and on the other hand, they come to live with us and enjoy your care. You should really show them face and let them know that it is not good to offend you Life is over."

Ye Xiaodan patted her hand: "Xixi, you will marry when you grow up, and you will also meet your parents-in-law, but please don't show embarrassment to them, or you will be the one who suffers. It's still the same sentence, no matter what What a vicious old man, as long as you confront them head-on, you will be accused of anything you do."

"However, if you meet parents-in-law like grandparents, you can only fight against them. There is no other way! Mom, I really hope you will fight with grandparents so that grandparents will never come to our house again. , it’s best to scold them and wake them up.”

"Pointing at their noses and scolding them is very venting, but what is the result? Will I get along with your father in the future? The result of the quarrel is that I have a complete stalemate with them, and your father is caught in the middle. For you Dad, I can't fight against them either."

Sun Mingxi was distressed: "If my mother doesn't divorce, I can only let my grandparents continue to be arrogant and bully you lawlessly. If I want to get rid of my grandparents, I have to divorce my father. It's really a bad choice."

Ye Xiaodan patted her: "Silly boy, this is your grandparents' problem, how can you attribute the fault to your father. For them, do we have to pay the price of breaking up the family?"

"Otherwise, what can I do? My father is foolish and filial, and my grandparents will be stubborn for a lifetime. Can the concept be changed?"

"It can't be changed, but there are other ways."

Sun Mingxi's eyes widened: "What can I do?"

Ye Xiaodan smiled treacherously: "Silly boy, don't look at how often your grandparents come to our house and for a long time, but your father used to be busy with work and didn't spend much time with them. Your father just thinks that your grandparents occasionally talk Excessive, it's not hard to deal with, mom can only let your dad feel your grandparents' unreasonable troubles, so he can face up to mom's situation, and then he can firmly stand on the united front with mom."

Sun Mingxi rejoiced: "Do you want to instigate father and let father join us against grandparents?"

Ye Xiaodan flicked her head: "We are not trying to fight against your grandparents. It's just that your grandparents and your father have lived too comfortably these years, and they don't know how to cherish them. We have to find a way to make them feel my kindness. Mom decided Let me send you to your grandparents' house for a few days, and your mother will also go out, so that your father can deal with your grandparents alone."

"Mom, how many days am I going to stay at my grandparents' house? There is still more than a week before I start school. My grandparents' house is too far away from my school."

"I estimate that your father will only endure your grandparents for a week. He will take you over when school starts."

Sun Mingxi suggested: "Mom, come live with me at your grandparents' house too! You'll save yourself the trouble of taking care of your grandparents' food, and you'll have to look at their faces."

Ye Xiaodan refused: "No, if I live there too, I will leave people with something to talk about. I have to come back every day. But don't worry, I won't serve them anymore. From now on, I will leave early and return late. After work, I will pick you up to your uncle's house. I'm going to give you Uncle Xiangfeng's food for the next day, and after nine o'clock, mother will send you to grandpa's house and then go home. Here, I just sleep and don't have to deal with your grandparents."

"Mom has to pick me up and cook, will it be too hard?"

"It's not hard at all. My mother is very happy to see you by my side. This year, my mother decided to take the legal professional qualification exam again. I listened to the courseware while I was cooking, and you watched TV next to me. How nice it is!"

Sun Mingxi felt distressed: "Mom has worked hard enough at work, why do you have to prepare meals for Uncle Xiangfeng and the others?"

"Your uncle wants to learn live broadcasting from Uncle Xiangfeng. Mom can't help but cook some meals. Mom doesn't think it's hard. Girl, you have to remember that relatives must help each other, but you have to do what you can Just do it, don’t let yourself feel wronged.”

Sun Mingxi said sullenly: "It's better for the second uncle and the second aunt, who live their own lives in the gate of Shanghai and are not affected by these things."

Ye Xiaodan raised his eyebrows: "Your second uncle and second aunt stop thinking that nothing matters to you, and be a good person who only talks about it. After your father feels your grandparents' naughty and lazy, your second uncle and second aunt Auntie will also deeply understand our difficulty."

Sun Mingxi was excited: "Mom, what can I do to make my second uncle and aunt feel uncomfortable?"

"We don't need to do anything, as long as your grandparents live by their side for a long time, they can taste it." Ye Xiaodan said angrily, "Your second uncle and second aunt have not taken the responsibility of supporting grandparents at all these years, and they can't bear the responsibility of supporting grandparents. Don't quarrel with them. The smell is far away, the smell is near, no matter how much my mother does, your grandparents will think that I am all wrong, and look at your second uncle and aunt. Everything is fine. Your second uncle and aunt only talk about filial piety , take it for granted that I take care of your grandparents. I will not let them do what they want."

"Does mom want grandparents to live with the second uncle's parents?"

Ye Xiaodan nodded: "That's right, don't look at your grandparents praising how filial and capable your second uncle and aunt are, but you think how picky your second uncle and aunt are, and your grandparents have bad living habits. Unbearable, let them live in Shanghai for a long time, can your second uncle and aunt accept it? Can your grandparents get used to it and adapt there?"

Sun Mingxi recalled: "My grandparents used to live with my second uncle and aunt in Shanghai and then came back. They told their relatives and friends that Shanghai is very good, that the second uncle and aunt are very filial, and that the parents of the second aunt are also very warm to them. They came back only when they couldn’t stand it anymore. However, every time they came back from Shanghai, they devoured their meals, as if they hadn’t eaten enough for several days.”

"That's right! I guess your grandparents had a bad time in Shanghai. This time, I will find a way to let your grandparents live in Shanghai for a long time, and torture your second uncle and aunt."

"Mom, your thoughts are good or bad." She covered her mouth happily.

Ye Xiaodan quacked: "People only cherish sweetness when they taste bitterness. Many troubles in our family are caused by your grandparents. They are not only your father's son. Why do they always make us feel uncomfortable? This time, I let Your second uncle and aunt feel the true meaning of filial piety, understand that their years are quiet and beautiful, we bear the burden, and let your grandparents know how difficult it is to have someone willing to take care of them."

Sun Mingxi jumped up: "I wish my second uncle and aunt could get along with grandparents right away."

"Girl, don't you feel bad now?"

"Well, I'm very happy."

Ye Xiaodan hugged her: "Girl, mother hopes that you will remember in the future, no matter what you encounter, don't rely on making noise to solve the problem. Of course, necessary noise is needed, and you have to let the other party feel that you have been wronged. Vent anger. However, you can’t blindly make noise. You need to find a way, especially when you are facing the elders. The elders are old and may have high blood pressure, myocardial infarction and other problems. Let them get angry. There will be a lot of trouble, so we need to think of ways to solve the problem.”

"Mom, there is another big question. Can you change the concept of patriarchal patriarchy among grandparents?"

(End of this chapter)