my family is old

Chapter 8

Tang Jingyun said: "You guys go after lunch."

Tang Jingxing looked at his sister and brother-in-law, probably they were not in the mood to eat.

Tang Jingyi looked at Liu Yang, "We won't eat anymore."

Liu Yang also said: "We won't eat, we will go on our way first, and we will talk when we get hungry on the way."

Tang Jingyun nodded, and Tang Jingxing said, "Then go home and pack your things."

Tang Jingyi nodded, just in time to go back to see the third brother and talk to him.Tang Jingyi walked to the hospital bed, gently shook her father's hand, and held back the tears in her eyes.

Tang Jingyun patted his sister on the back and said, "Don't worry, we are here."

Tang Jingyi nodded silently. She knew that her brothers would definitely take good care of her father, but she couldn't bear to leave her like this. Alas, when her father wakes up and finds that she is not here, he will definitely miss her too.Thinking of this, Tang Jingyi finally couldn't help but shed tears.

"Let's go, drive slowly on the road." Tang Jingxing said, "If you need anything at home, just call us."

Seeing his daughter-in-law's reluctance, Liu Yang couldn't bear to urge her.

After a while, Tang Jingyun said, "Okay, let's go."

Only then did Tang Jingyi gently release her father's hand, look at the time, and then look at Liu Yang.

"Let's go." Liu Yang said.

Tang Jingyi stood up, but her eyes were always drawn by the people on the hospital bed.

Tang Jingyun and Tang Jingxing sent their sister and brother-in-law to the door and gave them some instructions.

Tang Jingyi and Liu Yang hurried downstairs, the old and the young at home were still waiting for them.

After seeing off their sister, Tang Jingyun and Tang Jingxing turned and went back to the ward.

Tang Jingyun sighed softly, "Oh, it's not easy for Xiao Si."

"It's true, her mother-in-law has been in poor health for many years, and I'm afraid she will have to go to the hospital in the future."

Tang Jingyun nodded silently.

"Liu Yang is an only child, and he doesn't even have anyone to share with him when something happens."

Tang Jingyun nodded, "No."

"Our children are also only children. When we are old, we will be able to live in the nursing home as soon as we are old. Don't cause trouble for the children." Tang Jingxing said.

Tang Jingyun and his wife have also discussed such issues, and the final conclusion is what Tang Jingxing said just now, nursing homes are the best solution. When they are old, their children have to be busy with work and families to take care of them, so it is better not to cause them any trouble. At that time, once the nursing home is in residence, there will be someone to take care of it when something happens, which is very good.

Tang Jingxing smiled, "It's still the happiness of our parents and their generation. It's good to have more children."

Tang Jingyun looked at his father who was sleeping peacefully on the hospital bed, and nodded in agreement. Naturally, it is better to have more children, and the other will be there if this one is not around. There is only one child, and the child is either by his side or not, and he doesn't know what he will be like when he reaches his father's age. After thinking wildly for a while, Tang Jingyun asked his younger brother: "By the way, how is your father-in-law?"

Tang Jingxing "coughed", sighed and said, "It's still the same, but it will definitely not get better."

Tang Jingyun thought for a while, "Has it been two years?"

"More than two years."

"It's enough to maintain the status quo."

Two years ago, Tang Jingxing's father-in-law had a cerebral hemorrhage, and then he became paralyzed. In the past six months, his mind has become more and more confused. Not only does he hardly know people, but he also has the problem of occasional incontinence.Tang Jingxing's mother-in-law couldn't take care of the patient alone, and none of the children could help take care of them day and night, so his mother-in-law proposed to hire a nanny to take care of the old man.The job of finding a nanny was naturally assigned to Tang Jingxing. Tang Jingxing counted. In the past six months, he had already found five nanny, none of which satisfied his mother-in-law. Either the nanny was too loud or the nanny didn't wash her hair. Anyway, it was all kinds of faults. Last time his mother-in-law turned off the nanny, Tang Jingxing vowed not to ignore them anymore. He was so angry that he finally helped find another person. At that time, he also solemnly told his mother-in-law that if you are still dissatisfied with this nanny, you can find someone by yourself in the future, but what happened?Still not satisfied.

Tang Jingxing smiled helplessly, "Oh, Liu Shan called just now, saying that her mother is not satisfied with the nanny again."

Tang Jingyun looked at his younger brother and smiled. The younger brother's mother-in-law is really rare, "You want to change again? Are you not satisfied?"

"Who knows her." Tang Jingxing frowned, "I told Liu Shan, let her mother find someone by herself in the future, don't bother me, there is no end."

Tang Jingyun sympathized with his younger brother, it was hard to describe such a mother-in-law.

The two brothers hadn't seen each other for a long time, so they finally sat together and talked about their daily life.

Tang Jingyi and Liu Yang went home and cleaned up briefly, said goodbye to third brother Tang Jingcong and drove on the road.

The car dealership passed by the entrance of the hospital, Tang Jingyi looked and looked.

Liu Yang said, "We'll come back in a few days."

Tang Jingyi sighed lightly.

Liu Yang didn't say anything else and concentrated on driving.

Tang Jingyi said, "Should I call Grandpa?"

"No need."

"I don't know how grandma is?" Tang Jingyi finished worrying about this and that, "I hope the old lady is fine."

"Cough, underlying disease, it's nothing serious."

Tang Jingyi is becoming more and more afraid of the word "basic disease". The consequences of long-term basic diseases are terrible. From the perspective of grandma's physical condition, the complications are becoming more and more difficult to control. I am afraid that the probability of hospitalization will increase in the future. Frequently, she could only pray in her heart.

Liu Yang drove in silence. Tang Jingyi knew her husband, and said it was nothing serious. In fact, he was very worried. Men don't show their fragility so easily.

Tang Jingyi leaned on the seat and closed her eyes. Her father, mother-in-law, and son, one after another, made her worry.

Mr. Tang only felt that he had a long dream, and his eyes brightened up. Immediately afterwards, he heard someone calling him, and being called by those voices, Mr. Tang slowly opened his eyelids, and saw three people surrounding him, Mr. Tang Laughed.

"Dad, how are you feeling?"

Mr. Tang stretched out his hand to hold the speaker, "Boss."

"Dad, I'm here, how is Dad?"

Mr. Tang slowly closed his eyes. He felt very tired just after he came out of the heavy dream.

"Does Dad want a drink?"

Mr. Tang opened his eyes and looked at the other person who spoke, "Well, second child."

Tang Jingxing held his old father's hand and asked with a smile, "Dad, are you hungry?"

Mr. Tang slightly nodded his head twice.

Tang Jingcong smiled, "I'm hungry, okay, old man, wake up, sit up and eat."

Mr. Tang looked at the smiling third son, "Well, let's eat."

The three brothers of the Tang family smiled relaxedly. Dad's mind is clear.

Tang Jingyun and Tang Jingxing worked together to help the old father up.

Mr. Tang sat up, frowned and groped under the blanket, and when he found something on his waist, he tore it vigorously.

"What happened to Dad?" Tang Jingyun asked.

Tang Jingxing lifted the quilt and looked, "Dad doesn't want to take that urinal, so take it, it's uncomfortable."

Mr. Tang kept tugging at the things on his waist, "What is this!"

Tang Jingyun took the equipment with great difficulty when his old father was asleep, but how useful this thing is, cough, he looked at the bed, the bed was still wet, "Don't bring it, it's useless."

Tang Jingxing helped the old father take off the things neatly. Seeing the strange thing, the old man Tang was unhappy and said, "What did you bring me? It's so uncomfortable. Where are my pants? Put them on for me."

Tang Jing laughed while setting the table, and muttered softly, "This old man."

Mr. Tang glanced at his third son, "What are you laughing at?"

"It's nothing." Tang Jingcong said, "Hey, I see you are well, I'm happy."

Tang Jingyun helped the old father get dressed and asked, "Does Dad need to go to the toilet?"

"Go."

Tang Jingyun helped his father up, "Slow down, Dad."

Mr. Tang got off the ground, holding his eldest son's hand tightly, and walked step by step.

Tang Jingxing took the opportunity to change the bed sheets and cushions.

Tang Jing said in a low voice: "The old man is a little bit incontinent."

"Well, let's take a look again and ask the doctor later."

"I don't know if it will work."

"Yes."

Tang Jing pursed his lips lightly, his second brother was always optimistic, I hope it is as he said.

Mr. Tang's voice came from the bathroom, "What's wrong with this, look, it's getting wet again."

"It's okay Dad, ah, it's okay, just change your clothes."

"Oh, what's wrong with me?"

Tang Jingxing and Tang Jingcong rushed over, and the old father was complaining to himself with his wet pants, "Oh, what's going on with me? What's going on?"

Tang Jingyun comforted: "It's okay, Dad, let's go out and change first, ah."

Tang Jingxing hurried forward to support his father.

With the support of his two sons, Mr. Tang went back to bed and changed another pair of pants.

Tang Jingcong handed over the towel, "Old man, wipe your hands, let's eat first."

Mr. Tang didn't reach out to take the towel, Tang Jingcong smiled, wiped his hands clean, picked up a spoon to feed his father.

Mr. Tang sat with a blank expression on his face, and he opened his mouth when the meal came to his mouth.

Tang Jingcong smiled. Last time he had a meal, he remembered that the old man was quite strong. He had to eat with a spoon, so he was not allowed to feed him. What happened today?Tang Jing asked with a smile: "Old man, why don't you eat by yourself today?"

Mr. Tang sat sullenly and didn't speak.

Tang Jingyun and Tang Jingxing looked at each other. I am afraid that the incident of urinary incontinence has affected Dad's psychology. Dad will be strong all his life. He can't take care of such trivial things by himself. The old man must be very sad.

Tang Jingyun said: "Dad, it's okay, ah, eat well and get better soon."

"The doctor also said it's fine." Tang Jingxing also persuaded.

Tang Jingcong smiled, "Old man, eat more, you will be fine tomorrow."

Listening to his sons' words, Mr. Tang lowered his eyes and fell silent. He raised his left hand to take the spoon in the third son's hand, and started eating by himself.

Tang Jingyun smiled, it seems that no matter how old a person is, motivation is the most effective way.

(End of this chapter)