my family is old

Chapter 96

Liu Yang went home, took a shower, and then took a rest. Tang Jingyi didn't ask any more questions. The old man and the lady moved, and a major event was over.In fact, it was her old father who worried her. Before going to bed, Tang Jingyi watched her old father on the monitor for a while. This was the fifth time today. She observed his old father's actions and listened carefully to his words. She found that her old father's condition was not as good as before. She also found that her old father went to bed very early these two days. He was already in bed at 08:30 and [-] o'clock. Maybe it's because of her brain that it's getting earlier and earlier. She has to communicate with her brothers tomorrow.

As for Mr. Tang's situation, after Tang Jingyun went home and saw it with his own eyes, he also found that his old father was not as good as before. He remembered that after returning home from the capital, his old father had been doing well. I came to the capital for treatment, but after a while, the old father's situation took a turn for the worse.

Li Aili followed Tang Jingyun back from her hometown, and she kept talking to Tang Jingyun about this on the way: "Dad's situation is not as good as before, and the key point is that the old man's situation only became like this after he returned from the capital, so I'm afraid. " Li Aili looked at Tang Jingyun and said: "Brothers and sisters, they don't have any ideas, they don't think you brought the old man to the capital for treatment, right?"

Tang Jingyun didn't speak.

"I told you before I brought Dad to the capital to see a doctor. You have to tell everyone about this in advance. If Dad's illness is cured or not, everyone will bear the consequences together. You are lucky, and you didn't tell them. Hmph , they must think that you insisted on taking Dad to the capital to see a doctor. If it doesn’t look right, it’s all your responsibility. Look at it now, maybe they’ll blame you for it, maybe What do they think?"

Tang Jingyun closed his eyes lightly, "Don't guess, they won't have any ideas. They all agreed to take Dad to the capital to see a doctor. Dad was sent by the second child himself. He How could you disagree? You are thinking too much."

Li Aili disagrees, "That's not necessarily the case. From my family's experience, whether Mom is around or not is the watershed in a family. When Mom is around, everyone is a family. Everything is easy to talk about. Anyway, everything is different." Summarized to Mom, Mom is the one who decides, and when Mom is gone, everyone will become relatives, each has his own opinions and thoughts, it’s not like that." Li Aili shook her head, "Oh, so, go If the old man wants to do something later, you must not make up your own mind, even if you are the eldest in the family, it is better for everyone to discuss and make a decision together, so as not to blame each other when there is a problem."

Li Aili's words were not unreasonable. Tang Jingyun was also a witness to what happened in Li Aili's family, so he naturally knew the pros and cons of it. It seems that he should pay more attention in the future.

Li Aili said: "You old Tang family members are all of the same temper. You don't say anything, especially your opinions. You don't know how to express them. So, even if they have any opinions about you, they will definitely not tell you. you."

"They don't have any ideas." Tang Jingyun said, "You must be thinking too much."

Li Aili smiled lightly, and she knew that Tang Jingyun, an honest and good brother, would not think too much. In his eyes, no matter what his younger siblings were, he could tolerate him. He would always be the generous boss of the Tang family. .Li Aili didn't say any more, anyway, she just reminded what should be reminded, and it's useless to say more.

Tang Jingyun was really not worried that his younger siblings would think of him, but what he was worried about was his old father's physical condition.Tang Jingxing and Tang Jing took their old father to the hospital two days ago, and found the best doctor recognized by everyone in the local area. In the end, the doctor couldn't give any good solution.When Tang Jingxing told Tang Jingyun the doctor's words, Tang Jingyun felt that the doctor was perfunctory, but he saw that his two younger brothers agreed with the doctor's words, so he didn't have anything to say.If he objected, what next?Is it to take the old father to the capital again to see a doctor?What should I do?Tang Jingyun was a little helpless, maybe he was wrong, maybe what the doctor said was right?Alas, we can only wait and see.

As for Tang Jingxing and Tang Jingcong, they really didn't have any thoughts about being the eldest brother, but they did discuss it, and they should stop sending their old father so far away to see a doctor. There is no good way to go where to look, because I have indeed seen it many times, and the doctor's statement is almost the same each time. It is not a natural phenomenon, but it is an old disease, and some doctors even said that the situation is not bad at the old man's age. up.

Tang Jingyi called her second brother first the next day. Tang Jingxing said that the old father was very good, eating well and sleeping well.Tang Jingyi asked why the old father went to bed so early, Tang Jingxing replied that people sleep too much when they are old.Tang Jingyi has some objections to the second brother's answer. She thinks that the second brother has not seriously understood the daily life of the old father. Is the old father's worsening condition just natural aging?

Tang Jingyi called her elder brother again. Tang Jingyun described the old father he saw objectively. Tang Jingyi felt that what her elder brother saw was almost the same as what she saw in the surveillance. She asked why the old father went to bed earlier and earlier. Tang Jingyun said Recently, I went to bed very early, but there is nothing wrong with my body.In the end, Tang Jingyun could only attribute this situation to old age.

Tang Jingyi's question was not well explained, so she decided to go home in person, she wanted to see with her own eyes what was going on with her old father, and after returning home, Tang Jingyi saw and saw it with her own eyes, I heard it with my own ears, and it was no different from what she saw and heard in the surveillance, because the conclusion was the same, that is, she couldn't change anything, all she could do was grasp the situation, and nothing else could be done.After returning home, Tang Jingyi also agreed with the second brother's previous statement that the old father's current situation was caused by aging. Slowly, she psychologically accepted the status quo of the old father's aging.Birth, old age, sickness and death are inherent programs written in human genes, a natural process that cannot be changed. When doctors are unable to recover, the only thing people can do is to accept it.Tang Jingyi will always remember her mother's last painful suffering. At that time, she really understood the powerlessness of human beings. Not only her, but all of them could not do anything. They could only watch helplessly as their mother was swallowed up by the disease.Tang Jingyi only hoped that the old father would not experience the pain of his mother, even if his brain was bad and his memory was bad, even if the old father forgot everything in the end, as long as he didn't suffer, everything would be fine.

(End of this chapter)