Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 11 Our Obsession

With the good development of my sister's career, my attitude towards him has improved a lot, and everyone can chat and even joke. Sometimes, it seems that he is not as bad as I imagined.We went to sing K together and found that he can sing quite well, we can almost only listen to him sing.

He also has good hobbies, such as reading, and he will recommend some books he likes to read for his sister.When my sister couldn’t stand it, he told her that he likes to watch American dramas and foreign blockbusters, and he took his sister to learn English together. I think these are all positive, although he asked her to learn a lot, which made her very tired. , my sister said that she is not interested in learning things that are not beneficial to work. He will think that my sister does not like to study and express his dislike for her lack of culture. I don't want to interfere with them either.

Sometimes my sister also expresses her liking and recommends it to me, but she is not obsessed with it. Once she puts it into work, these things are left out of the way.

He also liked sports for a while, and I encouraged my sister to play badminton with him, although neither of them insisted.

I will go shopping, eat and watch TV with my sister.One day, "Four Famous Assistants" was broadcast on TV. A girl's distress was that her mother was too beautiful. Before the results were announced, I always thought that this distress was true, but it was not true!Although I am proud of having a beautiful older sister, but at the same time, I am also troubled. Who would feel that it is a happy thing to be a person as the background board forever?Even if this person is his close relative.The girl on TV kept laughing and telling stories about her and her mother, just like I always said that my sister is my idol, proud and heartbroken.

My sister smiled and said, "I'll just say that this distress is not valid, what kind of distress is this!"

I gave her a serious look, "Very distressed!"

Although there are still things that I don't like during this period.I didn’t have a good confinement period, my sister suffered from back pain and often complained of back pain. Every time I went to see her, I had to press her for an hour or two. She would ask me if my hands were sore, and I said no , In fact, it was extremely sour, but I still wanted to relieve her discomfort.She will say that her husband, look at Xiaojie, who doesn't say anything for two hours, and gets impatient if you press me for five minutes.

His husband said that she only massages you occasionally, and you often ask me to massage, okay?I really want to say, is it because of her back pain, or if you press it twice, and who caused her back pain.I think he will say that he is more uncomfortable, because he is a selfish person.Forget it, don't say it!

I went to their house for dinner, and my sister cooked the meal. After the meal, my sister asked him to wash the dishes. He didn't respond, but took the tableware to the kitchen.After sitting for a while, I asked my sister if she wanted some fruit. When I went to wash the apples, I found the bowl was in the sink, which made me uncomfortable.I was about to wash it off, but when my sister heard the sound of washing the dishes, she yelled at him, "Li Xiaohui, you didn't wash the dishes again!"

The word "again!" bothers me a lot.

He said, "Soak it for a while, it's easy to wash!"

My sister came over and told me not to wash it, and said he would do it, so I went out of the kitchen.Then I didn't care about anything else, just waited to see when he would wash the dishes, and the dishes were not washed until I left.I don't want to care about who, when, and what mentality I have to wash this bowl. I'm afraid that the more I take care of it, the worse it will be.

This kind of peaceful life lasted for more than a year, and then something happened to my sister. The child spoke very early, and his words and thinking were very clear, just like my sister when she was a child.When he was one and a half years old, his sister went back to visit him, and he ran into the room and shouted, "Grandma, grandma, someone has come to our house!"

I only met during the Chinese New Year, and it has only been more than four months. He didn't know my sister at all, which made my sister very sad. She decided to take the child with her, and the problem became serious.First of all, you need to rent a larger house, at least two bedrooms, and you have to take into account the living costs for the elderly and children here.Her salary is only [-], excluding living expenses, and the rest is less than [-], and the child will have to study in the future, so she checked her husband's account and found that it was all bad debts.

Her husband said that during her pregnancy, she had no time to do business, which led to the loss. At that time, the partner took all the money, and the sister asked him to settle the accounts with others. The business done together must be shared equally, but after the calculation, he should still Repaying tens of thousands of yuan to others, he said that the person calculated randomly, and without his knowledge, that person also bought goods, and the goods were taken away by others.This account has been dragged on for a long time, and I don't know whether it is justified by the public or the wife. Anyway, he has no evidence, and the family has all the information, but they saw that he just got his wife and raised a child, so they didn't ask him to pursue the account.Because after breaking up with him, he made money in other businesses, and he didn't care about the little money!He also felt that it was troublesome for his sister to keep urging him to chase the number, and he said that he would just earn it back in the future.

My sister said what kind of business they are doing now, is it very profitable, and asked him to do it with others.He said that he was playing small troubles, working hard but not making a lot of money.My sister asked him what kind of business he was doing now, and he said that the recession was not going well and he was still waiting and watching.His sister quarreled with him, telling him not to start a business anymore, but to work steadily, but he had no choice but to submit to his sister's thunderous anger.

With his advanced education, he easily found a job. Although the salary was only [-], two months later, with his education and work experience, he changed another job with [-]. After half a year, he changed to another job. I got a salary of [-] for work.

My sister expressed her satisfaction. She said that he is actually capable, but a little lazy, which is why she must find someone with a high degree of education.

I said that education is indeed a demon that my sister can never overcome, and my sister's obsession with the word "full-time" is too deep.

My sister asked me, don't you have any obsessions?Is it possible to give up? "

It's been a long time since I said I didn't say plastic surgery.

What about the husband?Do you still have to find someone who is good-looking?

I am silent!As I grew up and had a different life circle from my sister, I gradually realized that I am not ugly, but just overshadowed by my sister. Without my sister's appearance crushing, my appearance is still passable. But this obsession has been ingrained in my thinking.Although I can sensibly give up the idea of ​​plastic surgery, I can't help but care about the appearance of the other half.I don't want my child to be ignored or even criticized because of his appearance like me.Since I was a child, I was like a follower, living in the shadow of my sister's light. I understand this feeling. Many people seem to be unreasonable. Obviously many people tell you that you are not ugly, but you are not as beautiful as your sister. Full of low self-esteem, the pursuit of a better appearance is an obsession that I cannot give up.

But seeing my sister pay such a price for obsession, I decided to abandon obsession.

"Okay, handsome is removed from my mate selection criteria."

(End of this chapter)