post middle age

Chapter 124 Shuxia Has Changed
When Ren Shuxia arrived on the Wuhan-Guangzhou high-speed railway, she seemed to have changed completely. She was usually taciturn and became more dedicated to her work.The colleagues didn't know what happened to her, and they didn't dare to ask more, for fear of making her angry.

One afternoon, Ren Shuxia was sitting in the office, looking at a project construction summary by herself, frowning more and more, she immediately called Xiao Zheng, the dispatcher and data officer of the headquarters, and asked in a very stern tone:
"Xiao Zheng, did you compile this construction summary?"

"Minister Ren, it's me. I made it up!" Xiao Zheng is a female college student who started work last year. Her name is Zheng Tingting.

"You, why don't you ask me to tell you? Look at the workload statistics, as well as the typesetting of this document. The fonts in the content are not uniform, and there are many typos..." Ren Shuxia suddenly grabbed the copy The file was thrown to Xiao Zheng:
"Go, hurry up and check yourself, and don't let me see things that you can't get out like this in the future!"

"I, I, I will rectify right away!" Xiao Zheng looked at each other in dismay.

Ren Shuxia vented the unknown anger in her heart to Xiao Zheng, and she felt a little better, but after thinking about it carefully, she also felt that her behavior was not appropriate, so she thought of taking a chance and apologizing to Xiao Zheng in person , ease the relationship between each other.

When she was hesitating, Wang Lixin called. When Ren Shuxia saw this familiar call, she was still furious. She pressed the hang up button on the phone, and said to herself viciously:

"Shameless thing, you have the nerve to call!"

Wang Lixin called her a few times a day, but she refused to answer, because she couldn't forgive him in her heart, and she couldn't figure out why he would betray her. Could it be that a man has no emotion in his heart except desire?I really can't figure it out.

During this time, Ren Shuxia talked on the phone with her daughter Keke every night, listening to her daughter's immature voice, her excited and desperate heart calmed down a little.

That night, just after talking on the phone with her daughter Ke Ke, Ren Shuxia was lying on the bed, holding a copy of "Reader" and casually flipping through it, when Yao Ting suddenly called her:
"Yan'er, what are you doing?"

"Nothing, I'm reading a book?" Ren Shuxia replied.

"Have you been in a better mood recently?" Yao Ting asked cautiously.

"What's the matter? It's just like that. I'm too busy with work. I don't have time to think about my own affairs!" Ren Shuxia replied angrily.

"Take care of yourself. If you have something on your mind, don't worry about it alone. Tell me, so you can release your emotional and psychological pressure!" Yao Ting persuaded.

"Thank you, Yang'er!" Ren Shuxia said gratefully.

"Yan'er, I, I, I want to ask..." Yao Ting suddenly hesitated.

"Yang'er, if you and I have anything else to say, just ask if you have any questions!" Ren Shuxia said calmly.

"I heard that Xiaoxin calls you every day, why don't you answer the phone! Is it true that I have passed this hurdle in my heart!" Yao Ting said slowly.

When Ren Shuxia heard this, she became angry, and she said angrily:
"Yan'er, did he make you a lobbyist? If so, don't call me in the future!"

"Yan'er, what about it? We have been sisters for so many years, I don't believe you can let go?" Yao Ting smiled.

"I hate him, hate him, hate him, and I will never forgive him for the rest of my life. Just wait and see. When the Wuhan-Guangzhou high-speed railway opens at the end of the year, I will divorce him as soon as the holiday is over!" Ren Shuxia yelled angrily.

"You, Yan'er, are just too aggressive. You only care about your face and emotions, so you can't think about your parents and daughter, Keke?" Yao Ting asked angrily.

"But, but, when I think of the disgusting things he did that night, I, I just..."

Speaking of this, Ren Shuxia couldn't help crying again.

"Okay, okay, Yan'er, don't be sad, the matter is over, the most important thing is to take care of yourself!" Yao Ting continued to persuade:

"Yan'er, let me tell you, how do women rationally face their men's cheating? Do you want to know?"

"Say what you want, fart if you want!" Ren Shuxia has never been polite to her best friend.

"There are many reasons for the marriage problems of men and women. You can't blame one party and ignore your own role as the cause. When you fell in love and got married, there was still an emotional basis. Why did things change as you walked along? This requires Calm down, find out more about your own roots, and then face the predicament in front of you. In fact, even if you divorced because of anger, then you have to find another relationship. It is good luck to meet the good ones, and the worse ones , It will make you regret it for the rest of your life, so it is better to consider some practical issues. In the face of her husband’s betrayal, a woman will know what to do if she sorts out the "three things"." Yao Ting talked boastfully.

"You're not even married, how can you make so much sense?" Ren Shuxia asked.

"Hey, I have given you a lot of trouble. No, I went to the bookstore and bought a lot of books on love and marriage. I hope my efforts can help you!" Yao Ting sighed softly. .

When Ren Shuxia heard this, she couldn't help feeling a strong warmth in her heart, and she thanked sincerely:
"Thank you, Yang'er, it's hard for you!"

"Okay, Yan'er, let me read the following passage to you. I think these things will inspire your current mood?" Yao Ting said, and began to recite:

"First, consider the reasons for the betrayal:

Generally speaking, men and women who betray each other naturally have various reasons, and these reasons are caused by their own or the other party's fault.In fact, it doesn't matter, what matters is how you choose.Generally speaking, men and women who betray their marriages are basically not together for a long time and are busy with their respective careers.If after heart-to-heart communication between the two, you can really continue to live, then cherish the future life, change this long-term separation, and return to the original loving days.

Second, handle the relationship between two people calmly: when a man and a woman have an extramarital relationship, since it happened, both parties should face it calmly.If the two parties still have feelings for each other and feel that they can continue to live, they can consider reconciliation.If the relationship between the two really breaks down, they should choose to divorce and settle the subsequent property and other issues. As the saying goes, get along well and break up.

Third, consider the pros and cons of divorce and remarriage.When a husband and wife betray each other, they must consider the pros and cons of divorce and remarriage. If they can still live together well, they should forgive themselves for their neglect of the relationship and forgive the other party for their mistakes.If you are divorced, the choice of remarriage will be more contradictory. After all, there are not many happy families who remarry now.

Husband cheated on you, don't let anger get to your head, smart women will deal with it like this.

You have to think about the reasons for the betrayal, deal with the relationship between the two calmly, and consider the pros and cons of divorce and remarriage.

If there is a betrayal in your marriage, you can also analyze it in this way, whether it can be maintained, and what to do next.

In any case, after all, a marriage with true love and affection is worth cherishing. It is better to be more cautious about marriage and family, and don't make decisions that you regret because of impulsiveness. "

Ren Shuxia calmed down and listened carefully to Yao Ting's recitation. She didn't speak for a long, long time...

"Yan'er, are you still there? Listen to what I read to you, what do you think?" Yao Ting asked anxiously on the other end of the phone.

"This is all book knowledge. I understand all these principles, but I am a traditional woman, and I can't tolerate a grain of sand in my eyes. Since he betrayed me, it is impossible for me to live with him anymore. When I think of him and I feel disgusted when other women sleep with me, I really can't face him, let alone forgive him, and reconcile with him again, these are all impossible." Ren Shuxia said all this in one breath , pondered for a while, and continued:

"Maybe I'm not a rational woman, but I will never believe what a stinky man says again, and decide to just live like this alone, with my daughter Keke!"

"Yan'er, why are you so stubborn, let me tell you what's good about you?" Yao Ting was also very angry.

"Okay, okay, I won't talk to you anymore, I'm going to bed, and I still have a lot of work to do tomorrow?" Ren Shuxia said and hung up the phone.

(End of this chapter)