post middle age

Chapter 43
Ren Shuxia received a call from Xu Yaru early in the morning:

"Sister Ren, good morning!"

"Hello, Yaru!" Ren Shuxia said with a smile.

"Sister Ren, I have two animation videos about the communication between mother and daughter, and I want to send them to you. Take a look, maybe you will learn something from them. This will help you how to deal with your mother-daughter relationship in the future." The relationship will play a positive role in promoting, because the video has a large capacity, I need you to provide a QQ mailbox."

"Okay, I'll send the QQ mailbox to your WeChat!" Ren Shuxia said with interest.

"These two small videos, the mother's one is called "Daughter, let's be friends!", the daughter's one is called "Mom, I want to tell you!", the video for the daughter, you can't send it directly to Ke Ke I have to find a good friend of her age to forward it on her behalf, so the effect will be better." Xu Yaru smiled and told Ren Shuxia again Li Te's suggestion last night.

"Why can't I send it directly to Coco, so that our communication will be smoother?" Ren Shuxia asked her own question.

Xu Yaru smiled, feeling that the thinking of ordinary people really thinks this way. At this time, she admired Li Te's profound professional knowledge of psychology even more, so she said patiently:
"You can't give it to her directly. Children's thinking is still different from that of adults! I'm afraid that if you give it to her directly, she will feel rebellious in her heart, which is not good."

"You're still thoughtful, thank you!" Ren Shuxia replied with a smile.

Ren Shuxia received the animation video from Xu Yaru, downloaded it to the computer, and watched it patiently by herself. While watching, she nodded and said yes. The storyline described in it seemed to happen to her, but some plots were still happening to her. She didn’t meet her, but the more she watched it, the more she felt that the educational significance of this video was too great. If she let her daughter see this video that her mother wanted to say, it would definitely touch her heart. Thinking of this, She immediately called Ke Ke's good friend Song Jia's mother:

"Hi, I'm Wang Xiaoke's mother!"

"I know, do you have something to do?" Song Jia's mother asked enthusiastically.

"Is there something I need to trouble you for?" Ren Shuxia said.

"If you have anything to say, just say it." Song Jia's mother said with a smile.

"I have a very good animation video on hand, it's about the psychological communication between mother and daughter, I want to send it to you, please ask Song Jia to send it to Ke Ke, you know, I have a bad relationship with my family Ke Ke now Great, do you think it will work?" Ren Shuxia explained the situation.

"That's it, it's easy to handle, let's add a WeChat first!" Song Jia's mother agreed.

"WeChat doesn't work, so I have to send it to your QQ mailbox?" Ren Shuxia continued to ask.

"Okay, I'll send you a text message through QQ mailbox right now." Song Jia's mother said.

"Well, thank you!" Ren Shuxia said.

"You are too polite, Mama Keke! If you need help with anything in the future, just tell me, and I will do my best." Song Jia's mother said with a smile. .

Ren Shuxia put "Daughter, let's be friends!" "This animation video was sent to Son Jia's mother's QQ mailbox, and then she thought that she seemed to have forgotten to say something very important, so she dialed Son Jia's mother's mobile number again:

"Song Jia's mother, please tell Song Jia, don't tell Ke Ke that I gave it to you, just say that she saw it accidentally on the Internet, as a good friend, she cares about Ke Ke, so she sent it to her, so that She looks at it too."

"Don't worry, Ke Ke's mother, I know what to do." Song Jia's mother said with a smile.

After Ren Shuxia finished the matter, she couldn't help but watch the anime video Xu Yaru sent again. At this moment, she realized that the young girl had so many doubts and pressures in her heart, but she just didn't want to talk to her mother.It seems that my previous actions were a little thoughtless, but because I have been working in the unit for a long time, I often speak in an orderly tone in daily communication with my daughter, and I always feel that being a mother is very hard, and I don’t care about my children. That's right, I didn't take into account what my daughter Keke was thinking in my heart, let alone empathy, and treated my daughter as an equal, and exchanged hearts. It seems that if you want to completely break the deadlock between mother and daughter, It is very important to let go of your wealth, calm down, treat your daughter with an equal attitude, and let her feel the love for her from the heart, so as to accept her.

Thinking of this, Ren Shuxia was suddenly eager to see her daughter Ke Ke, so she made a cup of chrysanthemum honey tea for her daughter, walked quickly to the door of Ke Ke's bedroom, knocked on the door, and said softly:

"Coco, I'm mom, are you in the house?"

Wang Xiaoke was lying on the bed at this time, chatting with a group of friends with her tablet computer. When she heard her mother's voice, she didn't know why she was looking for her, but when she thought of the tablet computer incident last time, she was shocked. , immediately turned off the tablet, quietly came to the desk, calmed down, opened the book, pretended to be reading, and then smiled heartily, and replied loudly:

"Mom, am I reading a book?"

"You open the door for mom, and I'll make you a cup of chrysanthemum honey tea!" Ren Shuxia only heard his voice, but she didn't see her daughter open the door for her, so she continued to explain her purpose.

At this time, there was only a "squeak", and the door opened. Ren Shuxia walked in and put the chrysanthemum honey tea on the desk. Seeing that the room was a bit dark, she turned on the lamp and said to her daughter:

"Ke Ke, if you read a book, remember to turn on the desk lamp. The light in this room is not good. If you read for a long time, your eyes will become short-sighted."

Wang Xiaoke sat on the stool and said softly:
"I know!"

Ren Shuxia looked at the still indifferent smiling face, as if she saw her stubbornness when she was wronged when she was young, and suddenly her mother's love burst out, she hugged Wang Xiaoke in her arms, and kept muttering:

"Ke Ke, can't you have a good talk with your mother?"

Wang Xiaoke was bewildered by her mother's sudden love, she lost her mind for a while, and then tried her best to break free from her mother, and said in her mouth:
"Mom, what are you doing!"

Ren Shuxia hugged her tightly, still saying:

"Coco, Coco, Mommy loves you!"

"Mom, you hurt me!" Suddenly Wang Xiaoke yelled loudly. At this time, Ren Shuxia seemed to wake up from a dream, and then she felt that she had lost her composure. She let go of Keke, and said with a smile:

"Ke Ke, I won't bother you with your reading. Remember to drink this cup of chrysanthemum honey tea."

"Mom, I got it!" Wang Xiaoke replied with a flushed face.

Ren Shuxia left her daughter's bedroom and came to the living room alone, sitting on the sofa, thinking about her rash behavior just now, while smiling silly, mother Ding Xiang saw it, glanced at her, and asked with a smile:

"Shuxia, what's the matter, you have a high fever, your brain is burnt out, look at you, you are so old, and you still act like a child, why are you giggling?"

Ren Shuxia ignored her mother's question and said with a silly smile:

"Mom, you don't understand!"

Mother Ding Xiang rarely saw her daughter happy, so she said:
"Okay, okay, okay, I don't understand, and I don't bother to care about the things between you mother and daughter!" After finishing speaking, mother Ding Xiang left the living room and went to work in the kitchen.

(End of this chapter)