80 widows in the control group, eating melons and raising cubs are poor and happy

There is no regret medicine in the world, no matter what Li Xiulan thinks, the result cannot be changed now.

After all, she really can't learn it. If she works as a temporary worker, it doesn't mean much to the Bai family.

only--

"Mom, I don't think the second sister-in-law's mentality is right, go and enlighten me." Bai Liu sneaked up to Huang Fenglai's side and lowered her voice, "My second sister-in-law has a rather aggrieved personality, so she won't say anything."

Don't say it now, and then hold back a dull thunder, and suddenly explode one day.

That's going to happen.

When a family lives, there are problems to be solved, and in this kind of work, you do more and I do less. Many conflicts are not big conflicts, but trivial things can consume everyone's patience and affection.

Huang Fenglai understood this truth better than Bai Liu.

She sighed: "I know, I'll talk to them one by one in the past two days. After your sister-in-law and the others settle down on their work in two days, I'll hold a meeting for them. I can't keep silent like this."

As for the content of the meeting, their mother and daughter are clear.

"Mom," Bai Liu originally planned to say it in a few days, but after thinking about it, I decided to say it as soon as possible, "Let me make a statement first. I have been spending time at home for so many years. In the past, because my sister-in-laws were not too busy and there were many people in the family, everyone tolerated me." .”

"The eldest sister-in-law and the third sister-in-law go to work, and you and the second sister-in-law are the only ones cooking at home. It will definitely not work after a long time. I can accept whatever arrangement you make."

The big deal is that she comes back every night to cook by herself, and then she buys food from the unit cafeteria, or just buys food and then goes home to cook two simple dishes.

Uh, she's not very good at making big pot meals in turns.

It's not that she's lazy... no, it's that she's lazy.

In this life, she has never had the opportunity to use a big pot. Back in her previous life, she had no opportunity to cook in the imperial dining room every day, let alone meals for a dozen people.

Her way of cooking is different from everyone else's, and she has to adjust, and she doesn't have time to adapt.

Huang Fenglai glanced at her: "I'll talk with your sisters-in-law and then I'm not alone."

"Life, you can't be the one who decides. Otherwise, if you have good intentions, others won't listen. You have to break it up and tell them."

Huang Fenglai is well versed in the knack of life, of course this is indeed Bailiu's blind spot.

She doesn't meddle.

"Okay, mom, you can discuss it, I'll go back and lie down for a while." She was about to leave as she said that, but when she was about to take a step, she suddenly withdrew her steps and turned her head, "I was so busy a few days ago that Grandma Tangdou In the package sent over there, I bought new clothes for Tangdou. Tangdou used to replace a lot of old clothes, but now that the weather is hot, I want to remake winter cotton coats for Tangdou."

She paused: "Maybe some old materials will be replaced. At that time, it will be given to the second sister-in-law. Xiaoguo and the others can change it so that they can wear it."

How should I put it, Li Xiulan is a person who is greedy for small things, she is not confused about big things, and often seems very fussy about small things.If you give her some benefits, it will be easier to talk.

After all, Xiaoguo and the others are also Bailiu's nieces, and she has always been very generous in such matters.

Huang Fenglai immediately understood her intention and nodded silently.

"Mom knows what you want, I will tell her. But you have to remember, don't be too generous, you still have jelly beans to raise."

There was an inexplicable emotion in Bai Liu's heart, she pursed her lips and smiled, then turned back again.

In fact, she knows that she has never received the only maternal love. There are many children in the family, and even the most favored child cannot receive complete maternal love.Especially when she was born at a bad time, Huang Fenglai's most difficult period was when she was in Huang Fenglai's stomach.

The husband passed away, the family is old and young, and the only labor force is a pregnant woman. Imagine how difficult life is.

Bai Liu didn't take breast milk for long, and grew up stumbling unknowingly.

She was not born to be a governor, but the memories of her previous life slowly came back as she got older.

Occasionally she would feel a sense of trance, as if simulating another person's life from the perspective of a bystander. The people around her were real, but it made her feel unreal.

As she jumped out of the character itself, she admired Huang Fenglai more and more.

Of the five children in the Bai family, none of the children complained about Huang Fenglai's unfairness. On the one hand, they felt sorry for their mother's hard work, and on the other hand, every child could feel the mother's "preference".

Everyone feels they are favored, which is an inconsistent statement, but it really happens.

I have to say that Huang Fenglai is a mother full of wisdom. Even Bai Liu, who has the memory of her previous life, is still close to her mother from the heart and respects her.

Bai Liu felt the same way today, she could feel Huang Fenglai's partiality and love for her.

On the other hand, being a mother is really not easy. Not only do you have to take care of the life of the whole family, but you also have to think about the inner thoughts of the children.

Sure enough, her decision to have only one child was extremely correct. Thinking about her and her mother switching identities, that would be too tiring.

She is a selfish person, and she can even say without hesitation that the reason why she and Song Jiaying gave birth to jelly beans is mainly to deal with relatives and friends, and part of the reason is to satisfy the two of them to make up for their mentality.

When a child is born, it has to be brought up, and it will naturally have a deeper relationship when it is raised.

Her time and energy are limited, and raising one jelly bean is already very tiring, and it is really impossible to give it to another child.

There are thousands of ways to live in this world, but she just chose the one that is the happiest for herself and her children.

Of course, some people are not as selfish as she is, nor as transparent as Huang Fenglai, who like to find their own value by taking care of their families and getting involved in housework.

Just as Bai Liu was thinking, he turned his head and saw Tian Yu approaching with a smile.

"It's just in time for you to come back." Tian Yu quickly moved to her side, took out a cloth bag from the carrying basket, "Xiang Nan said that Fubao likes your dim sum, can you teach me, so that I can give Fubao every day in the future. Po do."

Uh, what a good stepmother.

Bai Liu has nothing to do. Thinking about how busy he was recently, he didn't give Tangdou a small treat, so he can teach Tian Yu as well.

"But you have to prepare firewood. My elder brother and the others don't have time recently. I'm afraid there won't be enough firewood in a few days." She couldn't post materials upside down.

Tian Yu was still worried that Bai Liu would scold her, but she didn't expect to agree so easily, and immediately showed a surprised expression.

"I don't eat people, so what are you thinking?" Bai Liu looked at her with a little disgust, "Don't be dazed, it will be completely dark later, fortunately I have electric lights, but I can't do it too late."

She has to go to work tomorrow, and after recruiting, she has to arrange new tasks and positions. There are many things to do.

Tian Yu nodded hurriedly, followed her step by step, and followed her instructions to sieve flour and stir eggs.

"Turn it up and down slowly, don't keep facing the same direction, or the pastry will not be crispy enough..." She said whatever came to her mind.

Tian Yu suddenly stopped and looked up at her.

"Ok?"

"Bai Liu, I think you are very different from what they said."