Outsiders also have golden fingers

Although he also feels shameful to exploit and enslave others, in this era of very low productivity, Qing Ling feels that he still can't stand everything and has to do it himself.

For example, when she usually wants to take a bath, Uncle Futian or Uncle Aji first fetch water from the well and bring it to the kitchen, then Aunt Osmanthus or Aunt Wang boils the water, scoops it into a bucket and carries it to her room.

It has to be poured into a heavy wooden bathtub, and it must be washed under the care of Shiyun and Sister Qingcao.

From head to toe is the basin of water, and the water needs to be heated in the middle, and a bucket of clean hot water is prepared after washing, and scooped with a ladle to pour it on the hair and body to rinse it again.

After washing, scoop the water into a basin or bucket and pour it out.

Finally, prepare a stack of absorbent cloth towels, wring out the hair bit by bit, and then dry it slowly. In winter, to prevent colds, sit next to the charcoal basin and dry slowly.

It took about two hours or more to wait until it was completely tidied up, and it was still under the condition of someone serving and taking care of it.

What was supposed to be a simple task has become a complex project that is almost impossible to complete alone.

Not to mention that all clothes have to be cut and sewn stitch by stitch, including shoes.

If it is a farmer or a poorer family, they have to spin the cotton into thread and then weave it into cloth.

Not to mention doing all the laundry by hand, you have to fetch water from the well first, and drying it is also very troublesome.

Although the ingredients and vegetables are quite rich, there are no out-of-season vegetables and greenhouse vegetables, and Hot Spring Zhuangzi only has a little more vegetables.

There is no cold chain fresh food, basically only local, seasonal produce and dried vegetables and dried goods can be eaten.

So it's not that you can buy the corresponding ingredients if you want to eat, but you can do whatever you can.

There is no modern stove, no refrigerator, no running water, and no semi-finished products. The cooking process is smoky and very laborious and trivial.

Not to mention carrying water and chopping firewood, the porridge they drink every morning has to be boiled for a long time.

You have to worry about not only sticking the pot, but also worrying that the boil is not soft and sticky enough, and the heat must be controlled just right.

The heat of the firewood stove is the most difficult to master, it all depends on experience and feeling.

To eat steamed buns and pancakes, you need to make dough, and there is no useful yeast powder. They all use primitive methods to leave old dough and make dough by hand.

Not to mention that the dough is very slow, the dough is sour if it is too fermented, the fermentation time and degree are not enough, and the dough is stiff but not soft.

If you want to eat buns and steamed buns the next morning, grandma is getting old, and Aunt Osmanthus and Aunt Wang wake up in the middle of the night to make noodles, and they have to check from time to time.

In modern society, perhaps her grandparents and parents have also experienced this, and their generation is absolutely difficult to bear.

It’s okay to show off your cooking skills once in a while, but it’s absolutely unbearable for a long time, unless you are forced to do nothing to survive.

When you marry into an ordinary family, you have to do everything by yourself. The whole family eats and drinks, and may be busy like a spinning top from morning to night, and even get unkempt, and even stay up late to work.

If you marry into a wealthy family, you may not have much pressure to survive, and you don't need to do it yourself, but you have to face various complicated interpersonal relationships.

I have to keep having children, anyway, no matter how many sons I have, I am basically sure that the future husband will embrace three wives and four concubines, and will face all kinds of bloodless house fights.

Then she can't bear it even more, since it's better not to marry, anyway, she will definitely not be short of money in the future, and Xiao Zhe (including his future children) will take care of it.

Knowing his granddaughter's true thoughts, Youchen couldn't laugh or cry again. I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing for her granddaughter to be so smart and transparent.
Human beings are born to suffer. Men and women each have their own suffering.

Ling'er is still young, and she doesn't know the pain of being married, the pain of not marrying, and the pain of not marrying, and I don't know which is more painful.

Xiaojun, who had been pretending to be airless, couldn't help but said: "I think sister Ling'er is right, I agree very much!

I really don't know why men in the world find all kinds of excuses to take concubines?No matter how high-sounding the reason is, it cannot be used as an excuse for half-heartedness.

If it is true that the concubine has no children, it can be said in the past, but it is obvious that there are already concubine sons, and they may have children in the future, so what do you need so many concubine sons?
Fighting for wives and concubines to make the house restless, turning all the women beyond recognition or even terrifying?
Or is it to strengthen the family business by fighting for power and killing each other between the biological children?
In addition to satisfying men's selfish desires and vanity, it caused all human tragedies!
It's ridiculous to think about it. Why do you think that a woman must accept and love other people's children as if they were her own?
And why do you think wives and concubines should be like sisters?

And why do you think that half-brothers and sisters should respect each other as brothers and sisters?

Isn't that stupid and arrogant and what is it?
Let alone a family, how many tragedies in the court and state affairs are caused by wives and concubines fighting and mother-in-law fighting each other?
Leaving aside, let’s just talk about the former prince Chai Cheng. If it weren’t for the dispute between the son and the concubine, how could there be a tragedy where the father drove his own son to death? "

Youchen was stunned, is this still the taciturn, cold, arrogant and self-reliant Xiaojun?Never heard him talk so much at once.

Especially after he started to change his voice, Xiao Jun almost cherished words like gold.

Little stars have appeared in Qingling's eyes. Although his voice is really not very pleasant during the voice-changing period, it does not affect his radiance at the moment.

These words are very common for a woman to say, but they seem to be understandable if said by a middle-aged uncle who has half a life of vicissitudes.

But how could it be so moving and emotional when a young and beautiful young man said it forcefully and convincingly?

Xiaojun was unaware of the shock and touch of the only two audience members, and he continued to talk with eloquence:

"Isn't the rising of the army today the root cause of the dispute between the son and the concubine during the reign of the crown prince Chai Cheng?
Relatives kill each other, the court is in turmoil, and the people live in dire straits. Let alone such tragedies in history, how many times have there been in our Great Zhou Dynasty?
Is this the so-called for the sake of family inheritance and for the prosperity of the offspring?Give them birth and let them kill each other or kill them yourself?

Where is raising a son?Isn't this what Master Yun Yin said about raising Gu?

Could it be that if you marry a woman with different thoughts in the yard, and have a bunch of children who you compete for and kill each other, the offspring will prosper?Will the family have a long history?

Let’s not talk about it, let’s just talk about my two saints, Taizu and Empress Taizu, how much pressure and opposition they have endured, and they still insist on being a couple for life?

They also only gave birth to two sons and one daughter, no matter which dynasty or generation they are compared to, they are considered to be rare.

But did our Great Zhou Dynasty break the lineage?Is it because the territory is not vast, or is the family and country not prosperous?Or is it that the Chai family is not thriving?

If it weren't for the other emperors who gave birth to a lot of unworthy descendants who killed each other, and caused countless tragedies that violated the norms and disrupted the country, the Great Zhou Dynasty would be more prosperous than it is now! "