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So I have to stay in their house for a while, and get on good terms with the former sister.After the baby is born, maybe she will become the most pitiful and redundant girl.My mother asked me to stay with her for a while, to get through the most difficult days first, and then try to find a way to bring her to us.

After she also leaves, she can wait for the parents and leave her own children to clean up. "

During the interrogation, Fang couldn't help but smile bitterly, "But didn't your mother tell me that she and your second mother are friends?"

"That's right, don't friends get to know each other first by using each other? I used your strengths and let you bring out the best advantage, and pierced me with the sharp edge of the spear. It hurt both of us. That's why two pieces of meat are cut off and put together. If two people really want to learn each other's strengths but don't know how to speak, they can quickly marinate the meat, tie it with a rope to dry, and carry it to Just go visit relatives at the teacher's house. Don't you understand everything once the teacher sees these two pieces of meat in front of you? He will definitely play a song for you to celebrate.

That's why Confucius said, isn't it a pleasure to have friends coming from afar?People don't know but don't feel stunned, isn't it a gentleman?Learning and learning from time to time, isn't that the same thing?
That is to say, you two are holding each other's flesh and thinking of making friends with me, of course I am very happy for you.The misunderstanding between each other is because they didn't understand each other before. If you don't get angry or blame each other, then you are a real gentleman.Everyone knows the idea of ​​wanting to learn from each other, so just exchange these two pieces of meat back, and there is nothing else to say.I'm going to sing a song, and I'll just sing this story, and it's good for everyone to drink happily together.

Otherwise, why would Confucius say that three people must have my teacher?You have to have those two pieces of meat first.

This sentence, the teacher said, and the students said, the order is completely opposite, how can it be written in writing, so that children can simply recite it?Now that I have written it, I should tell you all the answers.So, is the person who wrote the Analects a big fool who is very lazy?He thought he had done a good deed, but he only knew how to record the original words of Confucius, but he didn't know to write down the questions asked by the visitors.What happened later, no one recorded.

This caused many unnecessary misunderstandings and troubles to the literati for thousands of years.That's why many parents now teach their children the way they only answer the answers, but ignore the questions.The child is obviously asking how to read the book well.Parents will only answer, just study hard.If a child knows how to learn well, will he ask questions?
But those parents still laugh at their children. If they can't read well, they can only become storytellers.They don't understand at all that Confucius is a storyteller. The reason why he only told books but not wrote is because he had to follow the pictures first.I didn't even understand the meaning of the picture, and I didn't know the picture or what it was about, so I wrote the question or answer on it.Such a person, what do you call a good teacher?
Uncle, can I explain the process of making friends to you clearly? My mother taught me all of this, not my Chinese teacher. "

"Is your Chinese score not good?"

"No, it's just that I can't distinguish a few words. Why is it written like this? The teacher often said that I was careless and often wrote typos. But she didn't find that my reading comprehension and composition can be achieved. A high score? I am a good boy who understands the meaning of this sentence, I just don’t know how this word comes from.”

"That's why your mother figured out this way to help you, didn't she?"

"Yes, my mother never had an idle day after she sent me to my father's place. She was busy writing books at home every day, just to figure out how the really great writers wrote those good books. It came out. Why did it have such a beginning but such an ending? She closed the door and wrote for two full years, barely sleeping, and only had a table and a sofa chair, so she solved many, many problems. Figure it out, connect many words and many words together.

After she figured it out, didn't she come to teach me right away?But people who don't know her well think she doesn't want to care about me anymore. They are busy writing romance novels every day, and children always write typos and don't know how to teach them. How can they read the books she wrote?

But if someone really knows her, they will know that every book she writes is talking to me.When you meet someone who can really help you, how can you seize this opportunity in the first place and make friends with him.It is to thoroughly expose your weaknesses and let the other party see your wounds, so that the other party knows how to help you heal.

So many people don't read the books written by my mother, because they just want to continue to bully others, and they don't even care about their own injuries. "

When Qianqian said this, she burst into tears, "My mother worked really hard. If she didn't want to educate a really good child, she wouldn't end up not wanting a friend anymore, so she could only stay here disappointed .Because no one understands her real thoughts, children need everyone to teach together, and the adults have to be cured first.

She treats herself every day, but when she sends her treatment process to her friends, no one cares about her, not even those who are mothers.It's because I can write typos, and if I can't score [-] in the Chinese test, no one will believe her.Do you think I'm holding my mother back? "

During the interrogation, Fang was stunned, not knowing how to comfort Qianqian, and at the same time, I had mixed feelings in my heart, heartbroken, wishing I could just cuddle with him and cry.When she was at a loss, Ye Lanshan had already come out, took off her apron and put it aside, took a chair and sat down, then hugged Qianqian in her arms, let him sit on her lap and continued to cry.

While patting the child's back lightly, he looked at Fang Shen, "The child feels wronged, does it make you feel very embarrassed, if you feel that you don't know what to do when you stay here, you want to go back first It doesn't matter, he and I can understand it, and won't think he is a crying ghost to walk away."

Fang looked at her during the interrogation, "Do you need me to bring the tissues for you, or..."

"Be careful there is a step there. But I'm just talking too much. My mother will still remind me when I get to the door."

Fang Shenshi smiled, "But you also know who you can talk to to help mother talk to you in advance. You are really her good boy, right?"

"Of course, my mother can't understand her thoughts, so how can she go out and hang out in the future?"

During the interrogation, Fang smiled and took the things to the kitchen, and saw that Ye Lanshan had already finished her dinner and was starting to make a face-to-face meeting.

He put all the dishes and chopsticks in the sink, turned around and asked, "If you need me to wash it for you, just say so. I'm just afraid that if I don't wash it quickly, I won't meet your requirements."

"Oh, that's impossible. It's just that I'm used to it. I do these things by myself. If others help, I'm afraid I will become dependent. This is different from teaching Qianqian."

"If I accompany you in the kitchen, won't you agree?"

Ye Lanshan nodded with a smile, "Of course it's best not to. If you don't want to go back so early, you can sit in the yard for a while. It's just that there are mosquitoes, I can modestly get you a fan to fan them, and then light them for you." Mosquito coil."

"Then I'll sit in the yard with you. When you're done, I'll give you the meal money. Just tell me how much you want me to give you at a time. "

"Then you pay for a week first, can you?"

"Okay, do you want me to bring you cash?"

"If you have it, it's the best. If you don't have it, you don't need to pick it up. You can also use your mobile phone to pay for things here."

"Then we will add WeChat later."

"Please ask Qianqian to give you my mobile phone."

Fang Jushi held his own cup, and when he sat in the courtyard, his back was still facing Ye Lanshan in the kitchen.

After Qianqian brought the mosquito coils and fan, the interrogator called him to sit down in front of him again.

Looking at the little boy on the opposite side, he felt how long this day was, like half a lifetime.

Maybe every man should talk to a boy raised by another woman.In order to really tell the difference between a man and a man.Because there is no competition, maybe we can really learn from each other.Perhaps the ancients said that the three characters Wangnianjiao mean this. It doesn't have to or must be older than oneself, and younger age is fine.

During the interrogation, Fang suddenly wondered whether Qianqian understood this truth, "Why did you ask me to recognize you as my brother just now?"

Qianqian didn't know where, so he took out a few peach pits, squatted on the ground and started to play with them. He finished the game very carefully and focused, then raised his head and replied, "Because I came in first because of my mother's division." .”

"Was your mother always this smart?"

"Why do you care so much about my mother? Is it true that you want to go further with my mother as you said? "

"To make friends, you need to know others first, right?"

"Although I am a child, I know a lot of things. Although I can't teach you, I still want to remind you seriously that my mother will not have other children."

"Is your mother really insisting on this matter?"

"Of course, my mother said that she doesn't know which piece of soil the child should grow up on. If there are two more, and they all come from different places, then she will have no time to rush to various places to help everyone. How about Leave that piece of soil to other children. If there is no one in that piece of soil in the future, I can still go there with my children. She can go there and help me see one.

But now, I have reached the most critical stage of growth. If at this time, the people who are run into the farmland trample me to death, then the loss outweighs the gain.People who want to eat my corn will regret it after seeing it. At that time, they will either break me off in advance to feed pigs, or let me rot in the ground to make fertilizer for other corn, and it will attract a lot of flies , Maybe there are mice climbing up.At that time, even the corn cob will be useless, and the original seed will not be able to play all the functions it wants to play, and it will be even more sad. "

"Every time your mother talks to you, does she use these crops and small animals to describe you?"

"Yes, do you think it is very vivid? Do you understand everything as soon as you see it?"

"But you grew up in the city, when your mother told you these things at first, did you understand?"

"I just can't understand, so my mother brought me here to see it with my own eyes. If I saw it with my own eyes and still don't understand, then isn't this person really a hopeless fool?"

"Since when did your mother teach you this method?"

"Since last year, whenever there is time for sowing and harvesting crops, my mother will definitely pick me up. As long as there is time in between, she will also pick me up to see their growth process, what problems have arisen, and what are the There is a way to remedy it, but we can only let him continue to be bad."

"Your mother is so good at teaching you, don't you want to live with her?"

"Of course I thought about it, but I still have a very important task to complete. After this task is completed, I can return to my mother's side with peace of mind and grow up well with her company."

"What important task, study?"

"No, I know how the baby came. My second mother is going to have a baby soon. Do you know that if I'm not there, the baby probably won't be born. "

"why?"

"Because I'm a boy. After my parents divorced, I was with my father again. The new mother's own child is a girl. My mother wants me to help judge whether this mother is a real mother or a fake mother. The key is whether she will have children. If she is very nervous and thinks that my father wants a boy, then she can be sure. She is a fake mother. The purpose of having children is to use the children to live what she wants life.

If she insisted on not having any more children and only raising her own daughter well even if I was there, then the mother would really not argue with her about anything.What will keep me by her side and continue to help her is to help her and everyone prove that she is a real mother who can raise not only her own children, but also other people's children.

But the mother was soon disappointed, because the mother soon got pregnant with the baby, and after she knew it was a girl, she actually aborted her.My mother just started making preparations to take me away.Now that mother can't wait to drive me away, and my mother will not let her get her wish so easily.