tenth year of teaching

Chapter 16 Handling
Chu Xia actually caught a cold and had a fever the day before, so he took half a day off to go home and rest.My nerves have been tense since the beginning of school, and my resistance has somewhat declined in autumn.

She never went to the hospital when she was sick, and was treated by Dr. Zheng at home.After taking the medicine, I slept under the quilt for a while in the afternoon, and I just started sweating.In the evening, she watched TV with Dr. Zheng. She held her mother's arm and leaned on her shoulder. For the first time, she didn't feel bothered by the nagging, and she began to feel sleepy again.

At this moment, the phone call came. Chu Xia picked it up and took a look at Lao Ma?My heart suddenly tightened.I hung up the phone and felt no sleep at all. What happened?Why did something happen if I didn't attend self-study this evening?
The next day, regardless of Dr. Zheng's objections, he caught the early bus and arrived at school before 6:30.After listening to the Discipline Inspection Commission who arrived early to explain the specific situation, I had some idea.Anger is anger, but how to deal with it?
In fact, I had received a call from Zhang Yan’s mother the night before. On the phone, Zhang Yan’s mother told everything about the situation at home.Only then did Chu Xia understand why this boy was always so cold and didn't care about anything.

Zhang Yan is the only son in the family.Since he was a child, he was loved by his parents, with excellent grades and good looks. He was always a man of the hour in school. In short, he grew up smoothly until he was 14 years old.

Originally an ordinary and happy family, Zhang Yan told an old story when he was 10 years old. His father quit his job and opened a company in partnership with his friends.Thanks to the great environment, things are going very smoothly. The conditions at home are getting better and better, but my father is also getting busier and busier.The social gatherings gradually increased. At first, my father would come home no matter how late it was. Zhang Yan would sometimes be awakened by his father who came home in the middle of the night. My mother would usually clean up for my drunk father, but sometimes it would make a lot of noise, and my mother would get annoyed. Will complain a few words.

Dad may feel that it is not good to disturb the family all the time, and sometimes he sleeps at the company after socializing too late.But then things changed, and my father started not coming home for several days in a row, and he didn't have much to say to his mother when he came home.The atmosphere at home became increasingly weird, and my mother was upset, so the two quarreled. The more they quarreled, the less my father came back.Until one day a young girl came and her mother went completely crazy.

Then, my mother refused to agree to the divorce and ran away from home, while my father found a new home outside.It wasn't until Zhang Yan graduated from junior high school and his grades plummeted that his mother realized that her son was more important than anything else.She asked someone to send Zhang Yan to the No. 5 High School, and she cried to Chu Xia on the phone: "Mr. Chu, Zhang Yan was always in the top five in the class before the second year of junior high school. It was me and that bastard who delayed him. I am working in another place now. I can’t go back yet. Zhang Yan basically takes care of himself by himself. Teacher Chu, please help this child because he is in such difficulty."

Chu Xia thought that behind every problem student there must be a problem family or problem parent.

When communicating with Lao Ma about the outcome of this disciplinary violation, Chu Xia was somewhat selfish. She spoke sincerely about Zhang Yan's family situation.He told Lao Ma that he wanted to solve the problem within the class and promised to provide serious follow-up education to several students who violated disciplines.

Lao Ma disagreed at first, saying that this was a serious violation of the school's evening self-study system.But he couldn't stand Chu Xia's trial and error, and finally agreed to give him a warning, without publicizing it, and not stopping it in class.

Chu Xia thought it was a lenient treatment, so she felt relieved and went back to work to sneak out the troublemakers.Zhang Yan, Li Hai, Chen Yisi and a few boys who were making trouble stood at the corner of the office building, where there were usually few people coming and going.Chu Xia looked at a few people. Some of them were timid like Chen Yisi who lowered his head and said nothing, Li Hai hunched over his neck and acted like a fool, and Zhang Yan still looked cold and indifferent.

Chu Xia was so angry that she unconsciously raised her voice and scolded several people.

Near noon, teachers began to come out of the office building to prepare lunch, and some looked over curiously.Chu Xia's anger subsided a little, and he said to several people: "Send the inspection to my office before class in the afternoon, just this once. If you violate discipline next time, I can't protect you."

Several people looked at Chu Xia in surprise, and Li Hai returned to class obediently without being snarky.

Back in the office, Chu Xia had a headache. She took medicine and prepared to grade her homework.But her mind was still dizzy, and she wasn't sure if she was doing the right thing.

Lao Ma finally said to her, "There will be a day when you regret it. There is no benefit in being a class teacher if you are too soft-hearted." Thinking about the expressions of the boys just now, especially Li Hai and Zhang Yan, Chu Xia felt a little unsure.

At night, after turning off the lights, Zhang Yan lay on his dormitory bed thinking about the day's events.Stretched out his foot and kicked the upper bunk, Li Hai poked his head out, "What are you doing?"

"You said this is over?"

"Then what do you think? Didn't Chu Xia say it was all right? The inspection was also handed in."

"Lao Ma lost his temper that day."

"Hey, you're overthinking it. We paid for it, and no one could actually get rid of us. You can't do it for such a trivial matter." Li Hai sneered and retracted. "sleep."

Zhang Yan didn't say a word. Judging from his struggle experience, it must be tricky to pick it up heavily and put it down gently this time.

During the regular meeting on Monday, Song Xiaoqiang only found out about the violation of discipline by the students in class 12 at night, and he also blamed himself for leaving for a few days of training last week.When he heard that Chu Xia asked Lao Ma to deal with it in his class, and Lao Ma agreed, he became even more angry.

The two people got into a fight in front of the principal, "Why didn't you notify the grade level when you violated discipline so seriously when you first entered school? If every class teacher pleads for mercy, it will be dealt with within the class, then why do grade levels have to do it? What about the system? In the future, if you encounter similar situations, Should we still care about the incident?”

"Then what do you want? The results have been announced and the class has finished handling it." Lao Ma leaned back lazily on the chair.

"I didn't think anything of it, but it was too rash to handle it this way. At least there should be an inspection at the grade level, and students who blatantly violate school rules and disciplines like this should be dealt with severely, otherwise they will follow the same example in the future, and this grade level will not be easy to teach."

The old horse smiled, "Okay, if there are similar incidents in the future, the grade department will deal with them first, and the moral education department will help."

"Okay, thank you, Director Ma, for supporting grade work." Song Xiaoqiang raised the corner of his mouth.

Principal Zhang watched the two people bickering and said, "Okay, both of you are thinking about school work. In this way, Lao Ma and Xiao Song will sort out the measures to deal with problem students from the perspectives of grade and moral education. We will meet next time have a discussion."

Song Xiaoqiang was secretly proud, and he felt like a mirror.For Lao Ma, School Zhang has to rely on him. After all, he has more than ten years of experience in moral education, but at the same time he is a little jealous. No one wants to have a subordinate who always makes his own decisions and does not ask for instructions.This time, although he was openly at odds with Lao Ma, he seemed a bit reckless.But who knows if Principal Zhang would rather see someone who dares to go against the old horse to help check and balance it?

Song Xiaoqiang thought, no matter what, let's put everything on the record.There is no harm in what happened this time. If anything happens to these students in the future, it will be the responsibility of your Moral Education Department, and they will be picked out directly by the grade.

However, I had to find an opportunity to hammer it out that early summer. Is a new graduate so full of ideas?It's too early.

At this time, Chu Xia didn't know that she was being targeted by the grade director Song Xiaoqiang. She actually didn't care too much about the student's violation of discipline this time.From the bottom of her heart, she doesn't think there's anything wrong with celebrating a student's birthday, it's just that the time and occasion are wrong.She even thought that she didn't understand the students' situation in advance. Wouldn't it be better if she cared more about and communicated with the students, and celebrated their birthdays in advance in the name of the class?
(End of this chapter)