tenth year of teaching

Chapter 214 Patience
In a daze, it seemed like I was back to the scene five years ago when I was sitting at Zhang Yan's house chatting with Wang Shaohua.

"Teacher Chu, I really can't help it. Qiqi was admitted to high school last year. We discussed divorce. His father said a lot of bad things about me in front of the children, but I can't help it. Can I not feel bad for my own child? He Dad doesn't care about him at all. When he was here last year, he was often away from home for three or four days, letting Qiqi go to school and go home to make food. He basically came here alone. I really have no choice. I've been here before Once, but Qiqi treated me like an enemy at all, and I really had no choice but to go back." Jiang Qi's mother shed tears.

Chu Xia inadvertently glanced at Jiang Qi who was standing aside. Jiang Qi pursed his lips and turned his head stubbornly.However, the rise and fall of his chest still showed that he was a little excited. Jiang Qi started to cry, but he just suppressed it and didn't want others to see it.

Chu Xia picked up a tissue and handed it over. Jiang Qi's mother wiped away her tears and continued: "His father ran back by himself today, and I also thought that I couldn't leave Qiqi alone at home. After all, it was the flesh that fell from my body, Anyone can ignore him, but I can't. No matter how much he hates me, I will at least accompany him until he graduates from high school."

Chu Xia looked at Jiang Qi: "Jiang Qi, your mother has made such a big sacrifice? No matter what the reason is, at least she is willing to come back to accompany you now, can't you work hard?"

The veins on Jiang Qi's neck bulged, "I don't need her to care."

Chu Xia was extremely angry, pointing at Jiang Qi and scolding: "You are too heartless. After all, this is your mother after all. Why do you have such an attitude?"

Jiang Qi's mother stopped Chu Xia: "Teacher, don't be angry. He has always been like this. This time I came back this time, and I didn't even say a word every night. Only in the past two days, I have been able to say a word to me occasionally, and I am already very contented." .”

Chu Xia was helpless. Such a family tragedy eventually caused communication barriers in children, which cannot be cured immediately through school education.

Jiang Qi became excited, "Don't talk about it, if you want to reveal all the scandals at home, do you still think I was not laughed at enough at school? Why do you care about me? Why did you go so early? My dad is so sorry. I can still see you once a week here, what about you? What about you? Where are you when I can’t eat? Where are you when I’m sick? Where are you when I lie in bed with a high fever and want to drink water?”

Looking at the collapsed boy, Chu Xia roared out her inner helplessness and suddenly felt deeply sad.Which parent wants his or her child to be visited by the teacher every day?Which child wants to live a helpless life?
Jiang Qi went home with her mother and said they would have a good talk at home in the afternoon.But Chu Xia understands that this kind of thing cannot be solved in a short time. How can the conflicts that have been accumulated in the heart for so long be cleared all at once?
At night, after thinking about it for a long time, she still sent a message to Jiang Qi's mother.

"Some things need to be taken slowly. No matter what, you need a long-term company to slowly make up for the lack of previous feelings. But the key is that you have decided to come back, which is the best. Let the children come to class tomorrow morning, let's take your time Think of ways to."

"Okay, thank you, teacher." Looking at the message that was replied in seconds, Chu Xia felt a little regretful, recalling that her previous communication was too rough and simple.Behind every problem child, there must be a root cause of the problem. Nothing was figured out, causing communication problems between the two.

She frowned, thinking that it might be more difficult to communicate later.Sure enough, after that, Jiang Qi simply stopped turning in his homework and all the tests.At this time, Chu Xia's intestines were turning green with regret, but he was a little relieved that Jiang Qi was still listening in class and did not completely give up on himself.

That's the thing about being a teacher, no matter what, you're not doing one person's job.You are doing the job of a teacher, so you must communicate, be patient, understand, and preferably always be enthusiastic.

This was the first time Chu Xia suffered a setback. Jiang Qi did not slowly return to normal until a month later with Chu Xia's continuous proactive communication.

A month and a half later, Chu Xia deliberately left him and three other students after school on Friday night to correct their mistakes.But because the school was in session, Chu Xia had been waiting on the second floor of the library after all three students had finished searching.Jiang Qi never arrived.

Chu Xia was a little frustrated, but after thinking for a long time, she decided to communicate more patiently.Unexpectedly, when I went home at night, at 06:30, Jiang Qi's mother called.

"Teacher Chu, Jiang Qi has just arrived home now. He said you asked him to correct his mistakes? Is that true? I am more worried about the child lying."

Just as Chu Xia was about to blurt out that she didn't see Jiang Qi looking for her, she suddenly remembered something and held back.

"Call Jiang Qi and let me have a few words with him, okay?"

Mom asked Jiang Qi to answer the phone.

"Jiang Qi, you didn't come to see me on the second floor of the library? Where did you change the equation?"

"Teacher, didn't you tell us to go to you after we finished correcting? I have been correcting in class. When I finished correcting, I went over there. The lights were already dark over there."

"What time did you arrive?"

"I made a lot of mistakes. It was already six o'clock when I finished the revision, and I wasn't here when I went to your office."

At this time, Chu Xia was extremely thankful that he did not criticize him immediately, but patiently listened to the student's explanation.

"Okay, then take a look and take a photo of the modified equation and send it to me. I'll give it to you after I approve it. Leave it here at noon next Monday. If you don't know, I'll explain it to you again, okay?"

There was a humming voice on the other end of the phone.

"Stop it, I can't even hear the phone clearly."

Chu Xia gave a few more simple instructions, and the phone was sent back to Jiang Qi's mother.

"Hello, Jiang Qi has made great progress recently. His learning attitude has improved and he can take the initiative to complete the required tasks."

"Teacher, thank you. It's good to know that the child didn't lie. Hey, he still doesn't kiss me. Didn't I buy a grapefruit tonight? I just wanted to take off the plastic skin and peel it for him to eat. You see, he is still very impatient. Speaking of me, it may be that the phone really can't hear clearly."

Chu Xia listened to Jiang Qi's mother nagging, and then patiently asked: "Actually, during the time you came back, Jiang Qi is not as irritable as before, and has gotten much better. How to describe it? He has become softer. I no longer have to work against the teacher all the time. In fact, he is very smart. If he studies hard, he can listen. The most important thing is that he has a poor foundation. In this way, I will leave him to do some tutoring at school at noon, three times a week, you Is it okay to watch?”

"Great, Teacher Chu, thank you very much. Compared with your efforts, we parents should do a better job." Jiang Qi's mother was a little excited and said many words of thanks.

Chu Xia thought that it was lucky that she met Jiang Qi, otherwise she would have gone further and further in the simple and crude way.

(End of this chapter)