tenth year of teaching

Chapter 235 Calm down
It was at this time that Dr. Zheng discussed with Chu Xia about returning to work.It was indeed a coincidence that Dr. Zheng had retired when the baby was born. However, it was originally agreed that the mother-in-law would care for the baby, so the mother and daughter did not discuss who would take care of the baby.Re-employment was something that Dr. Zheng had discussed with the dean when he retired. It was unreasonable to regret it at this time.

Early summer is boring, my mother-in-law is gone, and my mother has to go back to work.What to do with small stones?You can't just resign yourself, right?Lao Chu said he would take care of her, but he couldn't cook and he had never seen her for more than a day.Not to mention early summer, Dr. Zheng was the first to worry.

The final result of the negotiation was to hire someone to look after the child. Dr. Zheng knew many people, so he quickly found Aunt Wang, who was in her 40s.Aunt Wang speaks sharply, has a loud voice, and is enthusiastic. She watched the child for two days and has a good way.The most obvious thing is coaxing him to sleep. Xiao Shitou has become accustomed to sleeping with milk.

Aunt Wang frowned and said, "You have to go to work, so that's fine. How can the child adapt?"

In early summer, I was forced to go shopping, and my children had to adapt first at home.It’s also strange that no matter how much she cries, Aunt Wang can still fall asleep by rocking her in her arms.Later, I could fall asleep directly by placing it on the bed and patting it.

Chu Xia was very pleasantly surprised. I don't know if Xiao Shitou has a strong adaptability or Aunt Wang really has the means.Coupled with Lao Chu's decision to help at home, Doctor Zheng and Chu Xia finally felt relieved.

Someone is helping me, and now that my maternity leave is about to end, I can go to work.There is a faint excitement in early summer. I no longer have to be busy every day, but I can also cheer up and organize myself.

There was almost no information from Dabei, so Chu Xia sent the divorce agreement to him.Because of the previous quarrel, all contact information such as QQ was deleted and could only be relayed through WeChat.

I don’t know if they are busy there or what, but there is no reply. Anyone who talks about divorce-related matters will not reply.

Chu Xia gradually adapted to life without him, taking care of the children by herself, cooking, eating, washing and tidying up the house.Waiting to go back to school, it seems that the busyness of getting up early and staying late at school is a thing of the past life. In early summer, I just want to take a breather. If I don't leave home, I may be drowned in endless housework.

"Dabei, let's get together and relax. The children will definitely come with me. As for the house, we each have one. The one we live in now belongs to me and I will repay the loan. The one in Tongzhou belongs to you. You only need to give me enough pebbles every month. Just the child support will be fine." Chu Xia left a message to Da Bei.

On a busy night, Dabei squatted in front of the rented building, read the information, and flipped through it one by one.

"Dabei, Little Shitou already knows how to laugh. Grandpa made a giggling sound for the first time when he was teasing. I sent it to you because you are the child's father, and you have the right to know everything about him."

The message was followed by a video of the child. A small handkerchief covered the smiling face. When the handkerchief was lifted, the child giggled happily and his eyes narrowed into small crescents.

When the little stone was born, it was black, yellow, and thin, and it never looked good.After confinement, I became white and fat, my facial features were also stretched out, and I often opened my small mouth to blow bubbles and play.Although it is hard to sit and turn over and over every day, the joy brought by the child's growth is obvious.

After the New Year, the snow melted in the spring, and I was carried downstairs wearing a little red hat. I looked at everything with my eyes wide open in curiosity and muttered.At five months old, he can sit on his own and lean on the fence while exerting himself.The expression of surprise when I ate egg yolk for the first time, and the way he was punching and kicking while playing with toys...

The child's video was sent on time, and Dabei flipped through it bit by bit and remembered it in his mind.Every time I see the video of my son, I burst into tears while smoking heavily.

He thought that one day it would pass, and one day Chu Xia would be able to forgive him.

Chu Xia had become indifferent to Da Bei's silence, and her children took up a lot of her time.The most difficult time had passed, and she was no longer interested in what happened between Dabei and that woman.

What Dabei doesn't know is that maybe things will pass, but the wounds will always remain.Lost feelings can never be recovered. Once a woman gives up, everything becomes unimportant.

Later, my mother-in-law and father-in-law came again, and Dr. Zheng made a table of dishes for his in-laws.After dinner, they sat down to discuss, and the elders on both sides still suggested that no matter what mistakes Da Bei made, he should still be given a chance.

I don't talk in early summer, I just feel bored. What's the point?Just leaving a father for the child.

It’s not yet 2019, and what Ma Yili said to the article is: “Marriage is not easy, but it needs to be done and cherished.” Every woman can make various sacrifices for her children, including tolerance for infidelity.

Chu Xia thought that maybe she loved articles too much, or maybe she had given up.No matter which one it is, choosing to forgive and continue the marriage is not a bad choice.

For Da Bei, it is not without a trace of warmth. Men are responsible and still have warmth for themselves, their children, and their family.During countless sleepless nights, she was thinking: "It might not be better to change to another man. At least this one is still related to the child by blood. At worst, the two of them can just be a couple."

Women become weak after having children.But when faced with her parents-in-law's persuasion, she will still be furious. No one should persuade her, not you.

What kind of?Your son made a mistake and you ask your daughter-in-law to forgive him?What if you put yourself in someone else’s shoes?Do you want to let your son swallow this breath?

In short, she said to Dr. Zheng: "I can't swallow this breath."

Doctor Zheng and Lao Chu looked at the child and sighed, "You decide for yourself, no matter what, parents will support you."

When Chu Xia closed her eyes, she could recall the content of the conversation between the two. In addition, there were also messages sent by Da Bei to her female best friend.

"I haven't heard from Wang Yuan recently. She doesn't answer my calls. I'm worried about her. Ask her if there's anything wrong?"

"Baby, do you miss me again?"

"Little Pig, I miss you so much that my heart beats out of my chest. I miss you in my arms."

"Pig baby, she and I just live together. I have no feelings for her for a long time."

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This man talks sweetly to another woman and then turns around and swears to himself that he still has feelings for her.Everything was a lie. Chu Xia wavered between forgiveness and anger. If she didn't have children, just go to NM, she cursed bitterly.

Dabei has been holding back and persisting. His only treasure lies in his son. Although Chu Xia is cruel, he will selectively forget it after every quarrel.Over the years, Dabei has seen Chu Xia through.He did owe his wife and son a debt, but if his mother-in-law hadn't been such a strong mother-in-law, he didn't think anything would have happened.

He thought, no matter what, he must persevere until Chu Xia spits out and forgives him. It is useless to say anything at this time, he can only do it.

No matter men or women, they grow up in marriage and gradually mature in the process of raising children.

(End of this chapter)