see you in spring

Chapter 208 New Troubles [-]

Although Dongqing and Jia Lie had differences on the way to educate their children, after some "battle", in order to prevent the child from leaving a shadow in the first rebellious period, Jia Lie finally did not forcefully uninstall all of Xiao Donggua's games.

For the sake of the child, Jia Lie endured it.But she was still bitter about Dongqing's failure to stand on her side.

The family ate dinner in a depressed atmosphere. After the meal, when Jia Lie turned around to wash the dishes, the father and daughter immediately started talking happily.

Seeing them talking and laughing, with no one paying attention to him, Jia Lie suddenly felt that he was a redundant person.She rubbed the greasy bowl in the sink vigorously, the dissatisfaction in her heart already overflowing.She didn't understand why she had to wash the food after eating, and she didn't understand why the more she did, the more the children hated her.She worked so hard, why should she be so angry?
The more she thought about it, the angrier she became. She threw the rag in her hand into the sink. With a "pop" sound, water splashed onto the wall and floor, startling the father and daughter in the living room.

Jia Lie turned around and returned to the room angrily. The moment she closed the door, she felt no longer so aggrieved.

In the living room, the child asked Holly: "Dad, why is mom always so angry? She does this every day, and it's so annoying."

Holly glanced at the sink: "Don't say that to Mom, she's angry because she's tired. Come on, let's wash the dishes together. The dishwashing liquid can make a lot of bubbles, which is fun."

"Oh, let's go play with bubbles." The daughter happily followed Holly and walked towards the kitchen.

When Jia Lie in the room heard that her daughter was so happy outside, her anger suddenly returned.

Jia Lie took out his mobile phone and yelled a few times in the group of girlfriends: "I'm so mad, I'm so mad!"

Since Sun Yan went to work, she wished she could devote every second to her work every day.She had just finished working overtime and was walking to the subway entrance.Seeing Jia Lie's hair pulling expression in the group, he quickly replied, "What happened?"

Gu Yu, who had just come out of the shower, also asked, "I'm so angry that it's hurting me. Please tell me quickly."

Jia Lie used two 60-second voices to tell everything that had just happened.At the end, she said angrily: "Anyway, I am now a 'bad mother' in the eyes of Xiao Donggua. Now she looks at me as if I were looking at air, and I am so angry. This is all down to Dongqing, if it weren't for him , it won’t be so difficult for me now. When I think about my daughter’s family discipline and parent-child relationship, I get very angry.”

Gu Yu thought it was a big deal, but now when she heard it, she yelled: "You are so rare and strange. Even if you play games, you are obedient. Let me tell you, I am giving online classes to students these days, and I am here. I heard clearly what those students who forgot to turn off their microphones were doing. Parents were scolding their children, couples were quarreling, students were eating, and some were even watching cartoons in public. The sounds of the plot could all reach me. Over here. You think I can’t get angry? If everyone was as angry and angry as you, would I still be alive? You used to be too worry-free, but now you can’t stand it as soon as you see the truth. You, you have to practice again."

Sun Yan finally squeezed onto the subway. She leaned against the railing and freed up her hands to type a reply: "Little Winter Melon is so well-behaved and has a sense of resistance. I will have to ask about my family's situation when I get home later. I have been putting all my energy into it recently." You put it all into your new job, but what you said reminded me."

Jia Lie hurriedly said: "If there is a sign, you must let Liu Quantao stand with you, don't be like that idiot Dongqing, singing against me in front of the children."

"I said you two are mothers, can you please stop focusing on your own ideas? Now the children are learning and growing, and they should be the center of the child. Although from the perspective of my best friend, I think Holly should be scolded. But From a teacher’s perspective, I think to be honest, what Dongqing said to you is actually correct.”

"Gu Yu, where are you from? Although you know that the students are doing other things and not paying attention to the class, can the feeling when looking at other people's children be the same as looking at your own?" Jia Lie almost blurted out, "You didn't You won’t know what it feels like to be a mother.” Fortunately, at the last moment, she swallowed these words.

"Although they are all other people's children, in my heart, they are all my children. I am not angry if they don't listen to the class. Every time I call on the children to answer questions and it shows that they are online, but no one answers, I I wish I could go over the network cable and beat them up. But then I think about it, conflicts often stem from our lack of understanding and high expectations for our children. In fact, it is normal for children to like playing games. What normal child doesn't like playing games? To make reasonable arrangements, you need to communicate with the children on an equal footing and reach a consensus, rather than uninstalling everything. Because this rough approach will cause a very bad psychological shadow on the children."

"But now she won't listen to anything I say. I can't just let my child play games like this, right?"

"Actually, playing games is not as scary as you think. Think about it for yourself, did you play less games when you were in college? Did this delay your job search?"

"But I only played it when I was in college. I didn't play it in junior high school or high school." Jia Lie said.

"The original intention of our learning is to master knowledge and understand nature. I have taught children for so long, and I found that those who like to play games have brighter minds. Such children learn things faster. Everything has two sides, You, don’t be nervous, give yourself some time, drink a cup of tea, and calm down. Treat your daughter as a friend, communicate peacefully, and understand her thoughts better. The parent-child relationship is not established by reasoning, but by talking to her. This is achieved through children's shared play activities and getting along together. Only when your child feels happy and joyful while growing up will you open up to her, and your relationship can be reconciled."

"Lielie, I think what Guyu said makes sense. Don't be too impatient. Little Winter Melon is already much more obedient and sensible than my two naughty children. When you see my two naughty children, you will probably vomit blood. I couldn't think of it before, I’m tired, and my children complain a lot. Now that I’m out at work, I don’t have so much time to take care of them. I go back every night to check their homework, and it’s actually much better than when I was always staring at them. You Now I'm at home all day long, just like I did before. Unknowingly, I'm supervising and interfering with my children. Try to relax and raise your children like a Buddhist. Maybe it will be more effective than trying to take care of your children all the time. "

After Han Guyu and Sun Yan's persuasion, Jia Lie's anger finally subsided.

As soon as she exited the group chat, she heard a bang on her home door.

Jia Lie frowned, opened the door and walked out.

In the living room, only my daughter was drawing at the desk, and Holly was nowhere to be seen.

"Where's your dad?"

"Out." Xiao Donggua didn't even raise her eyelids.

"Where did you go?"

"do not know."

Jia Lie looked at the time in confusion. It was 08:30 in the evening. Dongqing went out so late. She didn't know what he was going to do.

Are you going out to buy daily necessities such as tissues and toothpaste?She told him this morning that she had run out of tissues and toothpaste at home and asked him to buy some after get off work.But he obviously forgot to buy it when he came home today.

It must be to go shopping, Jia Liexin said.She glanced at her daughter who was too lazy to talk to her, and told herself not to be angry, don't be angry, because the child she gave birth to was angry with her, and she was angry with herself. She should be calm and raise the child in a Buddhist way.

Back in the room, she turned on the computer again, thinking about taking her energy away from the children and household chores, and focusing more on work, so that she and the children could relax more.

By the time Jia Lie finished all the ppts to be sent to clients tomorrow, Dongqing hadn't come back yet.

She couldn't sit still anymore, got up and went out of the room again, and saw her daughter started playing mobile games again at some point.

She couldn't help but say: "What time is it now? You are still playing games. Will you go to class tomorrow? Do you want your eyes? It's already ten o'clock. Wash me up and go to bed!"

"I just played for 10 minutes. I have been drawing before." My daughter said dissatisfied.

"You have been playing for 10 minutes. Go to bed now, otherwise you are not allowed to touch your mobile phone all day tomorrow." Jia Lie firmly refused to allow his children to stay up late playing games.

Without her father by her side, her daughter could only brush her teeth reluctantly.Jia Lie took out his mobile phone and dialed Dongqing's number. There was a supermarket next to the community, and it was more than enough to buy it back in half an hour.Now that it had been an hour and a half and he still hadn't come back, she wanted to see where he was going so late.

Unexpectedly, no one answered Dongqing's phone call.

Did he go back to the company?Impossible. If he went back to work, why didn't he even say hello?Even if he went back to work overtime, it wouldn't delay him answering the phone.

Just as she was about to dial again, Holly's call came.

"Where have you been?" Jia Lie asked immediately.

"I'm in the hospital now, something happened to Liu Quantao." Dongqing lowered her voice on the other end: "Liu Quantao told us not to tell Sun Yan first."

"What?" Jia Lie's brows knit together instantly. She didn't know what happened to Liu Quantao.I don't even know why these two men, who had a very bad relationship before, suddenly became so close.

(End of this chapter)