Zhutian: Since I was a child, I have been happy to be a father

Four days later, at noon.

Near Fengfan Middle School, inside a well-decorated restaurant.

Yan Ziyou had no appetite and said somewhat depressedly:
"My mother wants to give me extra classes and won't let me go to the football class on Friday afternoon."

Tian Yulan took a day off from college the day before yesterday and went to the math school in the afternoon to wait for Yan Ziyou to finish class. He unexpectedly met Mi Tao's parents and signed up other math courses for Mi Tao. He immediately felt a strong sense of crisis in his heart.

After all, Mi Tao is smarter and, under the same conditions, may be better than Ziyou.

So she planned to enroll Yan Ziyou in two more courses, hoping that doing so would keep her son at an advantage.

Of course Yan Ziyou was dissatisfied, but Tian Yulan had already made up his mind.

Chen Tao put down his spoon and said with a smile:
"Your mother, once she decides to do something, no one can stop her. So again, if you've had enough and don't want to be with your mother anymore, then come to my side."

Yan Ziyou also smiled and said: "Dad, what will happen if my mother hears what you said? She will definitely quarrel with you."

Chen Tao thought deeply and said: "So she can't handle it clearly. After listening to my words, she should reflect on what she didn't do well and make you unhappy instead of quarreling with me."

"She didn't let you play football. Did you tell her that you liked playing football? Did you argue with her?"

"But, but..."

"Dad, isn't it too early to talk about this now?"

"Let's eat. After eating, I have to choose a gift. Your little mother is about to celebrate her 22nd birthday."

"Well, I'll try my best!"

Chen Tao took another sip of soup and asked:

Yan Ziyou hummed, but still felt very uncomfortable.

Chen Tao comforted: "You can't understand it now, but you will understand it in the future. Then you will realize that there are many things in your life that are much more important than marriage."

Yan Ziyou nodded and asked hesitantly: "I heard from grandma that you have found a new girlfriend?"

"That's right... Ziyou, I know very well that you definitely don't want to see your mother and I divorce. However, this kind of thing happened irreversibly. And I am determined to change my lifestyle and never do it again. I will never choose to get back together with your mother again.”

"Just talking is useless. With a personality like your mother's, the more reasonable you are, the less face she will give you, and the more she thinks that as long as she insists on her opinion, you have to listen to her, whether it's right or wrong. It doesn't make sense. It’s important, your thoughts are not important, obedience is the most important.”

"Haha... Oh, but I'm afraid that my mother will be sad. If you and your mother can get back together, dad, I will dare to call you because you will comfort her."

"There's really no way around this. I even think that it won't be long before you can't stand your mother and want to come to me."

Yan Ziyou felt extremely uncomfortable and almost shed tears.

"No, absolutely not."

Yan Ziyou was helpless: "Of course I said it! But she objected. She said I still had some shortcomings and needed to attend cram school and didn't have time to play football."

"It's really like this..."

"Ziyou, don't think that I want to compete with your mother for you. Why do you say that? Because you have grown up and you will have your own life soon. In seven or eight years, I will buy you a house , you go to college and have a girlfriend. In this case, why can you still live with me and your mother? Is this the reason?"

"The truth is always right. I am saying this today just to tell you that you are yourself first, and then you are my and your mother's precious son. I also want to tell you that if you like something, you have to work hard for it. For example, this If you want to play football, just tell your mother that you must play. If she doesn't agree, you will run away from home and follow your father from now on. Does she dare to disagree? What's more, she wants to tell you that you have many choices and your conditions are very strict. Okay, don’t wrong yourself, say whatever you want, don’t be timid, your mother is very strong, she can be sad at most and won’t get angry.”

Yan Ziyou is really sensible, there is no need for Chen Tao to lie to him and give him false hope.

"That's it. Ziyou, do you know what's the difference between humans and other animals? When humans are wronged, they will probably endure it silently without saying a word; but other animals won't and at least have to scream a few times."

"..."

Compared with before, Dad has changed so much!
Yan Ziyou sighed secretly.

The old dad would not be as energetic as he is now, he would just play his games like a salted fish.

The father and son were eating lunch when Zhang Xueer suddenly walked in.

From the way she skillfully orders, you can guess that she is a regular customer here.

This is not surprising at all. Although she is dating Zhong Yi, she has not yet lived together. Instead, she lives alone. In this case, she must be too lazy to cook.

Besides, she's not very good at it either.

"Ziyou's father, why are you free to come and have dinner with Ziyou today?"

After paying the bill, Zhang Xueer spotted Chen Tao and Ziyou, so she came over with a smile and sat opposite Chen Tao.

But Yan Ziyou beside her was in an awkward position. After all, he is a student, and he feels uncomfortable eating at the same table as the teacher.

"Ziyou's mother has to go to work and can't leave. His grandmother has something to do and can't come over. I happen to have time, so I come over to stay with him."

What Chen Tao said was not a lie, but the truth.

Tian Yulan works in a shopping mall and sometimes doesn't go home until late at night; Cai Juying also has to take care of Nan Jianlong, so there will inevitably be times when she is unable to do anything else.

Zhang Xueer said oh, intending to gossip about Miss Xia, but considering that Yan Ziyou was still here, she didn't ask.

Chen Tao would not gossip about her and Zhong Yi, but would only ask her about her son's recent behavior.

Zhang Xueer hesitated to speak, but couldn't help but tell the truth:
"Ziyou seems to be sleep-deprived these past few days? It seems like he is not paying attention in class."

Yan Ziyou immediately lowered his head. Chen Tao smiled and said, "Her mother stopped his football lessons and enrolled her in two extra cram schools. How can he be in the mood to listen to your lectures?"

"what?"

Zhang Xueer was in disbelief: "Ziyou's grades are very good, why do he have to take extra classes? He will not be able to bear it."

Chen Tao snorted: "What does it matter if Ziyou can't bear it? As long as she can bear it, that's fine!"

Zhang Xueer finally understood why Chen Tao asked her for help and provided psychological counseling to Yan Ziyou.

She sighed: "Actually, it's not just Ziyou's mother, many parents are like this now. For example, Huanhuan didn't attend yesterday's music class and was sent to tutoring by her mother. If this continues, there will definitely be problems. I I plan to ask Principal He to report the situation."

Chen Tao said matter-of-factly: "Huanhuan's grades are too bad, so she still has to go to tutoring."

Zhang Xueer smiled bitterly and said: "But we can't be so anxious, right? Her foundation is not good, so how can she keep up if she goes directly to the competition class? She will only be hit harder and become more tired of studying."

Chen Tao shook his head: "Then what should we do? Do nothing, go directly to Fengfan Junior High School, and then work hard to do better in the high school entrance examination? If you think so, it is better to work hard now. After all, changing the environment is more difficult than adapting to the environment. , it’s a wise choice to join if you can’t beat it.”

Zhang Xueer was dejected when she heard this. The ideal education and the cold reality made her feel even more depressed.

This is normal. When you first enter the society, you will have lofty ideals, but when you get a basin of cold water called reality, you will know how much you weigh.

Chen Tao concluded: "There must be pressure to study, so that you can be motivated. But parents must not put additional pressure; nor can they undermine their children's self-confidence at every turn and provide frustration education; and they must not let their children suffer because of their own selfish motives. They think that parents only like themselves with good grades, not themselves.”

"..."

Yan Ziyou looked confused and asked, "How does dad know that I think so?"
Even when communicating with Zhang Xueer in private, he kept this idea hidden.

Could it be that father and son are connected?
"Ziyou's father!"

Zhang Xueer said in surprise: "Have you really never been a teacher?"

As soon as she finished speaking, the noodles she ordered were brought over.

"I did it!"

Chen Tao smiled and joked: "As the saying goes, once a father, always a teacher, I am Ziyou's teacher. Rounding it all off, we can also be regarded as colleagues."

Zhang Xueer didn't eat noodles, otherwise it would be very indecent if the noodles came out of her nostrils.

After meal.

Chen Tao ran away directly, and Zhang Xueer took Ziyou back to school.

On the way, on a whim, she asked Zhong Yi about his status in the gold medal class.

Yan Ziyou hesitated to speak, but in the end he did not tell the truth.

As a client, he knew very well that Zhong Yi's teaching methods and ideas were completely opposite to Zhang Xueer's.

And also deliberately targeted him.

If the truth were told, would it affect their relationship?

What's more important is that Tian Yulan knows all this, but still remains indifferent.

Even if Zhong Yi targets him again, as long as his grades are good, Tian Yulan will not have any objection to it.

If he said it, would Tian Yulan blame him?

It has to be said that as a mother, Tian Yulan has failed.

Even Cai Juying couldn't help but argue or quarrel with Zhong Yi after hearing Zhong Yi's reprimand and humiliation of Yan Ziyou, but she didn't.

Even after the incident, he still wanted to protect Zhong Yi.

why? Because she is the same type of person as Zhong Yi, even more utilitarian and unprincipled.

As long as the goal can be achieved, what does it matter if the son is wronged? What does it mean to be scolded? As long as she has some face! As long as her vanity is satisfied!

As for Zhong Yi, after all, there had been a big feud before, and he had a reason for targeting Yan Ziyou.

Of course, no matter how good the reason is, no matter how talented he is, it will not be the reason for Chen Tao to agree with him.

Others may be able to accept his scolding education, but Yan Ziyou can't. If he can't, he just can't.

The reason why Chen Tao tolerated Yan Ziyou going to his place was to have a reason to deal with Tian Yulan.

Saturday, afternoon.

Cai Juying arrived early to pick numbers and pick up her grandson from get out of class.

Outside the classroom, she heard Zhong Yi scolding Yan Ziyou unceremoniously. His words were particularly harsh and harsh, and she couldn't help but rush into the classroom to interrupt him.

Nan Li was also here. After hearing Cai Juying's accusation, she immediately shared the same hatred.

If Zhao Na knew about it, she would probably be so angry that she would lose sleep again.

More than half an hour later, Chen Tao came downstairs where the number was chosen.

(End of this chapter)