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Chapter 198 The male leads the outside and the female leads the inside?This is unfair to both men and women! ([-]-in-[-])

"I just hope that you can go out, go far, and become a better version of yourself..."

Zhang Guimei's words slowly echoed in the ward, making everyone present red-eyed.

After all, Teacher Zhang is afraid that she will become a burden to the children and make them unable to fly high.

I am also afraid that the children will be immersed in the past and will not be able to fly far.

That’s why I keep emphasizing it!
Teacher Zhang was actually happy when he saw Wang Xiaochun and Li Jinwen before.

However, now that I saw that there were more people, I immediately became more protective of the calf and insisted on driving the children outside...

Teacher Zhang, you really have good intentions!

Zhao Jiayu stayed aside quietly, watching Zhang Guimei chatting to the camera.

She didn't think that Teacher Zhang was treating her coldly just by nodding at her and then going off to do other things.

On the contrary, this scene made her feel extremely kind.

Mother Zhang is like this. She has countless students in her heart, and sometimes she seems old-fashioned, not thoughtful, and tactless.

But underneath the serious appearance, there is a soft heart.

Moreover, as soon as Zhao Jiayu heard what Teacher Zhang said, she knew that she was worried about delaying the students' careers and lives because of herself.

So, she took the initiative to step forward, comforted Zhang Guimei and said:

"Teacher Zhang, the students came back to see you out of concern, so there is no need to reject them all."

After speaking, she smiled and used herself as an example:

"Look, I'm a full-time wife now. I have time and money. I can definitely stay with you for a while."

While talking, Zhao Jiayu's husband Zhou Jun quickly stepped forward, put the gift on the bedside, and said:

"Teacher Zhang, thank you for taking care of Jiayu!"

Logically speaking, Zhang Guimei should talk to her "son-in-law" Zhou Jun at this time. Even if it doesn't work, she should say hello.

But for some reason, Zhang Guimei seemed to be immersed in Zhao Jiayu's last sentence and ignored Zhou Jun.

But Zhou Jun didn't care at all. He took out a big red envelope from his bag and handed it to Zhang Guimei.

He was also worried that Zhang Guimei would not accept it. While handing it out, he was still explaining:

"Teacher Zhang, I know you are a person and you won't accept red envelopes."

"So I want to donate this money to the school, which can be considered as my own modest contribution."

After finishing speaking, he looked at Zhang Guimei eagerly, expecting her to take the money.

In Zhou Jun's expectation, Zhang Guimei slowly stretched out her hand, and her hand even trembled a little!
"Teacher Zhang, are you moved?"

Zhao Jiayu's heart moved and a smile appeared on his lips.

However, the next moment, Zhang Guimei pushed back the red envelope.

The man seemed to be in the wrong mood, his face was so gloomy that it looked like it was about to drip. He pointed at the door in disgust and said:
"I don't want your donation, you two can go out."

After the words fell, the audience in the live broadcast room was extremely surprised!

"?? Weren't you very happy just now? Why did your mood suddenly drop?"

"Expulsion order? Why?!"

"This couple didn't do anything, so why did they make Teacher Zhang unhappy?"

"Is it because Teacher Zhang is unwilling to accept donations from anyone, so he is unhappy?"

"Ah? Then I still want to help the Chinese Girls High School, what should I do?!"

"I guess that's not the reason, but if you really want to break it down, I don't understand."

"Teacher Zhang looks different. Could it be that he is feeling unwell?"

"Then why did you only ask Zhao Jiayu and his family to go out? It's definitely not the case!"

"What the hell is going on here?"

"..."

The audience in the live broadcast room talked a lot and speculated on Zhang Guimei's intentions.

Similarly, several people at the scene were also very confused.

Especially Sun Wei, she saw it clearly.

Although Teacher Zhang said he did not welcome the arrival of these students, he was happy in his heart.

Moreover, before that, didn’t everyone have a great time chatting with each other?
Just when she was confused, Wu Peng touched her gently and asked in a low voice:
"Sister Sun, do you see anything? Why is Teacher Zhang suddenly unhappy?"

Facing Wu Peng's question, Sun Wei shook her head:

"I don't understand either. Maybe sister Zhao Jiayu and her husband did something wrong??"

Although she said this, Sun Wei's tone was full of uncertainty.

Wu Peng also said in confusion:

"He's visiting with gifts and donating money. There's nothing wrong with that."

The two of them looked at each other and couldn't figure it out, so let's continue to wait and see.

In this situation, it was not the time for them to ask questions.

Wang Xiaochun and Li Jinwen, who were beside Zhang Guimei, noticed it at the same time.

When Zhang Guimei ordered Zhao Jiayu to leave, her fingers were trembling slightly.

This little move is familiar to them, it means Teacher Zhang is angry!
Li Jinwen reacted the fastest and quickly calmed down Zhang Guimei without caring about anything else.

"Teacher Zhang, don't be angry, your health is important."

Wang Xiaochun gently comforted Zhang Guimei and looked at her worriedly:
"Teacher, what's wrong with you? If you have anything to say, don't keep it in your heart. Tell us."

Since Zhao Jiayu received the eviction order, he knew that he and her husband had made Zhang Guimei angry. In his mind, he recalled every move he and her husband made after entering the ward.

But after thinking about it, I didn't think there was anything wrong with me.

She subconsciously looked at her husband for help, but Zhou Jun was also confused!

The eyes of this couple were full of confusion!
Lin Feng watched everyone's actions calmly and sighed slightly in his heart.

He already had a rough guess in mind about Teacher Zhang's sudden eviction order.

The problem lies with Zhao Jiayu!
Because Teacher Zhang did his best to help them get out of the mountains, not just to make them full-time wives.

This is not because Teacher Zhang does not respect women, nor does it mean that she does not respect individual differences in choices.

Rather, both men and women should maintain the ability to be independent at all times.

Staying at home full-time is equivalent to giving up your independence.

Moreover, the pressure to survive in today’s society is greater than before.

In a family, if one person, whether male or female, is at home full-time, it means that the other person is working outside the home and the pressure to support the family will increase.

For such a family, the financial burden will be significantly heavier than that of a family where both people work, the quality of life will be more easily affected, and the ability to resist risks will be weaker.

Teacher Zhang, you are worried about Zhao Jiayu!

Just when Lin Feng shook his head, Zhao Jiayu finally took the initiative to break the silence:
"Teacher Zhang, I don't know what I did wrong...but don't drive me away!"

"I am your daughter. If I do something wrong, you should be beaten and scolded. Just don't ignore me..."

As Zhao Jiayu spoke, his eyes suddenly turned red.

When Zhang Guimei saw it, she couldn't bear it and felt that what she had just done was biased.

"Ugh!"

Zhang Guimei sighed heavily. If her daughter didn't understand, then she would have to explain it to her.

"I'm angry because you managed to finish college, but you chose to be a stay-at-home housewife!"

"Ah?" Zhao Jiayu never thought of this and said in surprise.

She is a full-time housewife, she has time and money, so what’s wrong?
Zhou Jun was also panicked. Could it be that Teacher Zhang was afraid that he would treat Zhao Jiayu badly?
However, before he could defend himself, Zhang Guimei's voice continued:

"As a human being, what is the most important thing in this world? Independence! Independence is the most important thing."

Zhang Guimei emphasized the word "independence" twice.

Then, she looked at Zhao Jiayu disappointedly and asked her:

"You work as a stay-at-home wife. You don't work or earn money. How can you be independent?"

This disappointed look stung Zhao Jiayu, and she felt her face getting hot.

But this was not over yet. Zhang Guimei pointed at Zhou Jun again and said:
"Your husband is the only one earning money in your family. Compared with other families, there is one less income. Have you ever considered whether this means a lot more pressure invisibly?!"

"When the income is good, everything is calm and the husband and wife sing in harmony."

"But once something unexpected happens, it won't be a matter of love!"

"Think about it, your quality of life has deteriorated and your life is in embarrassment. Are you going to quarrel or not?"

"You complain that he can't make a lot of money, and he complains that you don't make any money at all. Is this family going crazy every day?"

When Zhao Jiayu heard these words, he opened his mouth and wanted to say something.

But Zhang Guimei shook her head and motioned for her to finish.

"Teacher, I'm annoying. If you say anything else, I won't listen to you."

"If you are not in society, for a long time, you and your husband will no longer have a common language."

"Isn't it hard to think that he won't be able to say a few words to you when he comes home, and you won't be able to help with his career?"

"Don't let your abilities and standards stop at the moment you graduate from college!"

"No, the ability cannot stop there."

"If you don't train your abilities, and you keep grinding and grinding, even your initial level will be erased."

"Think about it carefully, why are you studying so hard?"

Zhao Jiayu finally fell silent.

The audience in the live broadcast room felt very uncomfortable when they heard Zhang Guimei's heartfelt words and looked at Zhao Jiayu's performance.

"Can't you still be a full-time wife?"

"I admit that what Teacher Zhang said makes sense, but the whole article assumes that the worst case scenario will happen. This is too pessimistic."

"Not only stay-at-home wives, but also for any given choice, whether someone will be happy or unhappy depends on how the person who made the choice feels."

"Actually, I think Zhao Jiayu's husband treats him very well, and his economic level is not low. It's not necessarily the extreme situation that Teacher Zhang mentioned that will happen."

"Teacher Zhang should actually persuade me in a gentler way."

"Yes, the truth is correct, but others may not be able to accept it."

"..."

While everyone was talking about it, Zhou Jun, who had been unable to get a word in, felt a little aggrieved at the moment.

Teacher Zhang is not her mother-in-law, but she is better than her mother-in-law.

What she just said, in Zhou Jun's heart, was for the good of his family.

But vaguely, I could tell that the mother-in-law was worried about her daughter and didn't trust her son-in-law's character and abilities.

Zhou Jun thought of this and felt aggrieved for himself and Zhao Jiayu.

Because Teacher Zhang still doubts his daughter’s vision!
Thinking of this, Zhou Jun saw his wife stunned on the spot, and he wanted to defend himself, so he said:
"Teacher Zhang, I can tell that your heart is breaking when you say these words. Please don't worry."

"Jiayu and I are both people who know what's going on. Our family will never fall into the situation you mentioned."

After the words fell, Zhang Guimei shook her head and sighed softly, feeling a little disappointed.

This person still doesn’t understand!

Lin Feng saw the interaction between the two, shook his head slightly, and said:
"Sir, could you please listen to what I have to say?"

As soon as he finished speaking, there was a "swish" sound, and all eyes were focused on Lin Feng.

Lin Feng nodded to Zhang Guimei calmly.

Zhang Guimei knew that Lin Feng was doing it for her, and she felt relieved and smiled back.

On the way here, Zhou Jun already knew that Zhang Guimei had received a lot of attention because of Lin Feng's arrival.

After getting to know Lin Feng a little more, I naturally knew some of his deeds.

Therefore, even though it was the first time they met, I still had respect for Lin Feng in my heart.

Now that Lin Feng wanted to speak, he was naturally all ears:
"Teacher Lin, it's okay, just tell me."

"Actually, Teacher Zhang doesn't mean to doubt your ability."

Lin Feng's first words hit home what was on his mind, and Zhou Junpo felt a little embarrassed.

Then, Lin Feng continued:

"We used to have an old saying that men were at home and men were at home. That was because the production conditions in the past were underdeveloped and women could not participate in the social division of labor. Therefore, in a family, men could only make money outside and women could take care of the housework at home."

Zhou Jun didn't understand why Lin Feng said this and was a little confused.

But what the other party said was true, and he could only nod in agreement.

"Yes, that was indeed the case in the past."

Lin Feng smiled slightly and said:

"But the current division of labor in society is different from the past, and the pressure to survive is also different from the past."

"Do you think it is reasonable to continue to use the same old methods in the past to deal with the new environment and new situations now?"

Lin Feng is different from Zhang Guimei. His words are persuasive and thought-provoking.

Not only did Zhou Jun not have any rebellious mentality now, but he started to think along Lin Feng's train of thought.

"The old methods don't seem to work in the new situation... However, I feel that I am capable enough to protect my wife and children."

Hearing Zhou Jun's thoughts, Lin Feng smiled:

"When the economic environment is good, your income will naturally increase and your life will be worry-free."

"However, the economy has cycles. Once the economy goes down, can you guarantee that you will not encounter setbacks such as layoffs, salary cuts, and demotions?"

Zhou Jun's heart condensed, and he slowly said his answer:
"No."

Lin Feng nodded and said:
"Actually, the saying that 'men lead the outside world and women lead the inside' is actually unfair now."

"Besides, this is unfair to both parties!"

After the words fell, everyone in the ward looked at Lin Feng out of curiosity or confusion.

Lin Feng received everyone's gazes and sighed in his heart, but he didn't show it on his face. He just analyzed unhurriedly:

"For women, in today's society, they can obviously have job opportunities, strive in the workplace, and realize another value in their lives."

"But this concept forces her to give up career development and return to her family, or to take care of her family more."

"As a result, they will feel that the workplace is unfair and their development is limited."

"For men, under current social conditions, the competitive pressure is hundreds of times greater than before. Due to the longevity of the population, rising prices, and the premium of academic qualifications, there are three more mountains than in the previous society - —Retirement care, housing prices, education.”

"When women are restricted, these pressures must be put on men. For men, not only is the pressure huge, but it is also three big mountains!"

Hearing Lin Feng's humorous words, everyone smiled knowingly, but after laughing, they began to think deeply.

At the end, Lin Feng summed it up in a leisurely manner:
"That's why I say that it is unfair to both of you to implement the model of 'men take charge of the outside and women take charge of the house' in the family."

After the words fell, everyone nodded unconsciously.

The couple Zhou Jun and Zhao Jiayu were even more stunned.

(End of this chapter)