Do you know: I am Yuan Wenshao

Chapter 110 Speechless (please subscribe)

It is true that there is no absolute fairness in the world, but being partial like Sheng Hong is not a good thing.

If Yuan Wenshao knew what Grandma Kong was thinking, he would definitely praise her a few times.

Why Ru Lan always talks about her legitimate concubine is not because Sheng Hong loves Mo Lan more than she, his legitimate daughter.

The distinction between concubines and concubines is regarded by many as feudal dross.

But if it can exist for thousands of years, it naturally has its own meaning.

Yuan Wenshao agreed very much with what Minglan said in the original play. It was clear at a glance who was the direct descendant.

But it is difficult to distinguish the virtuous from the unworthy.

Distinguishing between elder and younger concubines can avoid many disputes.

If Sheng Hong hadn't doted on Mo Lan more than his legitimate daughter, Ru Lan wouldn't have been able to talk about his legitimate concubine all the time.

It is impossible for Mo Lan to rely on favor and compete with Ru Lan everywhere.

Naturally, there is nothing like today.

"Don't be angry, Shanda people. This matter may be a big deal or a small matter. However, I am on a mission to teach you, so I have to deal with it. Shanda people are so angry, but it shows my fault." Kong Grandma said.

"What did you say? It's because I was not strict in running the family and made my mother laugh. My mother and I are old friends, and she is an elder to me. I'd better ask my mother to talk about this matter." Sheng Hong said quickly.

Grandma Kong nodded, stood up, looked at Sanlan who was kneeling on the ground and said: "Most things in this world cannot be escaped from a rationale. I never like to say one thing to my face and another behind my back, no. The message was miscommunicated. Today, I will explain it clearly in front of several sisters. You all said you were wrong just now, but I don’t think so. Now I’m here to ask.”

Seeing that the three of them were silent, Mother Kong looked at Mo Lan and said: "Fourth girl, please raise your head. Let me ask you, fifth girl said that you are dominating my class time and taking up the rest of the people's time. You Is it acceptable?"

Mo Lan cried and said, "It's all my fault. I thought that Grandma Kong's teaching time was limited, and I wanted to learn more, bring glory to the family, and make my father look good. I didn't expect that I made Fifth Sister unhappy. It's all my fault." wrong."

I have to say that Mo Lan is still a little scheming. It seems that he takes all the responsibility on himself, but in fact it implies that Ru Lan is jealous.

Sheng Hong became even more dissatisfied with Ru Lan and glared at her.

Wang looked at Mo Lan as if she wanted to eat someone, and wanted to go up and strangle her to death.

Aunt Kong chuckled a few times and said: "Fourth girl, you are smart and considerate in everything you say and do. But I would like to advise you, don't rely on your own intelligence to treat others as fools. You need to know that intelligence will turn you into a fool." Smart mistake."

As soon as these words came out, Mo Lan didn't even bother to cry. She opened her eyes wide and looked at Aunt Kong in disbelief, and then glanced at Sheng Hong aggrievedly.

Sheng Hong was also a little puzzled. He wanted to speak, but then he remembered that he had asked Grandma Kong to speak, but in the end he said nothing.

Grandma Kong seemed not to have seen the expressions of several people, and continued: "You made two mistakes. One is your words. It is common for sisters to quarrel. It is inevitable for the upper and lower teeth to bump into each other. But you shouldn't do it because of a few people. Just to quarrel, say that you are a concubine and want to live and die. Not long after I came to the Sheng family, I also heard that Sheng people treat you better than their legitimate daughter. Have you ever thought of pampering your father by doing this? "

When Mo Lan heard this, he lowered his head in panic and started sobbing.

Lin Xiaoniang couldn't sit still anymore, moved her body slightly, and looked at Sheng Hong pleadingly.

However, Sheng Hong did not look at Lin Xiaoniang and said nothing.

Sheng Hong was somewhat moved by Grandma Kong's words. He thought that he treated Lin Xiaoniang and Changfeng Molan well.

I know that the concubine’s troubles with the principal wife are nothing more than money and children and servants.

Not only did he buy a lot of properties for Lin Xiaoniang, but he also let Lin Xiaoniang raise his children by himself.

Even the servant's body deed was given to Lin Xiaoniang.

Apart from their status, Lin Xiaoniang, mother and son are no worse than the legitimate children of the main wife.

However, Mo Lan still disliked her for being a commoner. Didn't she forget her love and kindness at all?
Mother Kong continued: "The second mistake is that you have bad thoughts. You keep saying that learning things is to gain glory for the Sheng family and gain face. Are you the only girl in the Sheng family? Is it true that only if you gain face can the Sheng family be glorious? Yours What about the younger sisters? Don’t they want to learn how to be cool?”

"I heard that Lin Xiaoniang was originally from an official family. Didn't she teach you the difference between concubine and concubine? Even if you don't care about this, you should know the elders and younger ones. When a eldest girl gets married, you are the eldest sister in the family, so you should give way to others. It’s the sisters.”

Sheng Hong was always a sensible person, but he just didn't want to think about many things. In addition, he was partial to Lin Xiaoniang, so he was unknowingly biased.

At this time, after hearing what Mother Kong said, her heart thumped, and she thought to herself: "It seems that Mo Lan is indeed a little selfish."

Thinking of this, Sheng Hong looked at Lin Xiaoniang and Mo Lan with complicated eyes.

Ming Lan knelt on the ground and kept secretly observing everyone's expressions. She felt very happy when she saw Lin Xiaoniang holding a handkerchief with both hands and veins emerging on the back of her hands.

But she soon realized that based on her understanding of her father, Mother Kong's words might make Sheng Hong ignore Lin Xiaoniang for a while, but with Lin Xiaoniang's methods, it won't be long before Sheng Hong will Leave this behind.

However, Minglan still felt happy that it made Lin Xiaoniang feel uncomfortable for a while.

Aunt Kong said again: "Fourth girl, I know you have always been top-notch, but everyone has their own fate. Today's incident seems to be caused by the fifth girl, but in fact it has a lot to do with you. In the past ten days, you She is always competitive and strives to be the first in everything. If she does better than her sisters, she will make fun of her. Does this kind of behavior convey half of sisterly love and half of father's kindness? "

Although Grandma Kong’s tone was very gentle, her words hit home at every turn.

Mo Lan was speechless and didn't know how to argue. She could only look at her father, but all she got was Sheng Hong's displeased look.

Mo Lan looked at her mother for help again, and saw Lin Xiaoniang's face was ugly, but she had no intention of speaking.I could only lower my head and wipe my tears.

Ru Lan was in a great mood. She had previously felt that Aunt Kong was too serious and was a little unhappy.

No matter how you look at it now, it is so pleasing to your eyes. If you didn't still have some sense, you would want to praise it loudly.

Hualan looked at her mother, who was beaming with joy, and sighed. If her mother had only [-] to [-]% of Aunt Kong's ability, how could she be at a disadvantage in every fight with Xiaoniang Lin?

Grandma Kong turned around, bowed to Sheng Hong, and said, "Just now, Mr. Sheng said that I was an old friend of the old lady, so I will shamelessly say a few words today. In a family with many children, the more parents need a bowl of water. Only by keeping things in order can the family be peaceful. Although sisters must be humble to each other, they must give in to one thing today and another tomorrow. There is no reason to keep giving in. As time goes by, it is inevitable that there will be dissatisfaction between parents and sisters. Shanda people , don’t you think so?” Although these words may sound like questioning, Grandma Kong’s words are logical and convincing, making people feel the same.

Sheng Hong also began to reflect on his past actions. His daughter was fine, but if resentment developed between his sons, the Sheng family would not last long.

Besides, the law of the direct line is as it is of the direct line, and the life of the common people is as it is for the common people. He blindly favors Lin Xiaoniang and her children, and it is indeed easy to cause trouble.

If someone uses the excuse to impeach him, that would be a big trouble.

Thinking of this, Sheng Hong sweatdropped from behind, and he cupped his hands and said: "What Mother Kong said is that we as parents also have responsibilities, and I will pay attention to it in the future."

Aunt Kong nodded slightly, turned to look at Ru Lan, and said: "Fifth girl, you are the legitimate daughter of the Sheng family. You were originally more respectable than your elder sisters. But with the love of your father and mother, you developed a pampered daughter as time went by. If you are even a little bit dissatisfied, you will be speechless, not to mention that you have been feeling angry these past few days."

Ru Lan felt very fond of Mo Lan because of what Aunt Kong had taught her. Although Aunt Kong told her, she didn't get angry and just looked at her quietly.

"But you should definitely not talk about your concubine all the time. And she is your sister after all. Even if you are dissatisfied, you should not say bad things to her. The last thing you should not do is talk about the fourth girl's control over her marriage. In the hands of the eldest lady, if these words are spread out, others will think that the eldest lady of the Sheng family is that evil-hearted. The face of the Sheng family will be damaged. "

Mother Kong sighed and said: "To put it bluntly, my sister and I are both spoiled guests in the family. Before they got married, they were pampered by their father and brothers. Once they left the house and became someone else's wife, they immediately fell out of love. Everyone. You have to serve your father-in-law and mother-in-law respectfully, you have to be considerate to your husband, and you have to smile with your sister-in-law. No one in your husband’s family can be offended. Every bad thing is your fault, and you can’t even tell the difference. There is no way to tell. Even if your fourth sister is at fault, she should be able to persuade her with kind words."

Rulan retorted: "She feels so unhappy about pestering her. Even if I talk nicely, she won't listen to me."

Aunt Kong said coldly: "It all depends on your own ability. Now you can't even handle the problems between sisters. When you leave the house, you will face your father-in-law, mother-in-law, uncles and brothers, sisters-in-law, and the stewards of the house." Your mother-in-law is a stranger, so how can you deal with yourself at that time? Do you still need your parents to support you? "

When Hualan heard this, she couldn't help but glance at Yuan Wenshao.

She remembered what Yuan Wenshao said when her daughter got married, and if she was wronged, she would knock on her door.

The two had been married for many years, and although they were not in tune with each other, Yuan Wenshao roughly guessed what Hua Lan was thinking from Hua Lan's eyes and winked at her.

Yuan Wenshao didn't think so much. He was not the kind of person who cared about face. If his daughter was really bullied, he didn't care about that.

Rulan didn't take Mummy Kong's words seriously. Although Mrs. Wang had no scheming, she knew that Mummy Kong's words were from the bottom of her heart. She said gratefully, "My Ru'er will definitely keep these heartfelt words in mind. Ru'er. Why don't you thank Grandma Kong quickly?"

"Thank you, Aunt Kong." Rulan said reluctantly.

Aunt Kong knew by looking at her that she didn't listen. As the saying goes, nature is easy to change but hard to change. She didn't think that she could change Ru Lan's thoughts and temperament with just a few words.

In fact, she felt that with Ru Lan's temperament, the best choice was to marry low. Once she married high, she would suffer a lot.

But as an outsider, it was not appropriate for her to talk about this.He nodded and looked at Minglan.

When Ming Lan saw that Aunt Kong had said nothing to Mo Lan and Ru Lan in just a few words, even a person like Sheng Hong, whose heart was on the right side, was moved by her and was greatly admired in her heart.

Seeing Aunt Kong looking over, she quickly straightened up and said, "Please teach me, Aunt Kong."

"You and Sister Wen must feel that you are right and should not be implicated in this, right?" said Mother Kong.

Minglan hesitated for a moment, then nodded.

Sister Wen had long been wronged, so she also nodded.

Mother Kong looked at Yuan Wenshao and said, "My uncle looked unhappy when he came in before. Did he also feel that Sister Wen is still young and has nothing to do with her, so I shouldn't punish her too?"

Just as Yuan Wenshao was about to nod, Hua Lan pulled him and shook his head slightly. He could only say: "Mother Kong has her own reasons for doing this."

What he means is very simple, you have to give me a reason to impress me.

Mother Kong naturally heard it. She did not continue talking to Yuan Wenshao, but looked at Minglan and said: "I am going to tell you a truth today. Brothers and sisters in the same family share the same spirit, prosperity and loss. Even if you One person is right, but your sisters are wrong, and you are also present, so they are right and wrong. Therefore, you must be punished as well, do you agree?"

Minglan was stunned when she heard this. Isn't this just a matter of execution?

Hearing this, Sheng Hong couldn't help pleading: "Mommy, Minglan is right after all. If you don't give her a few words of reprimand, she will have a better memory in the future."

Aunt Kong shook her head and said, "If we spare her, wouldn't it encourage our brothers and sisters to stay out of trouble? In the future, if my siblings are in trouble, they will turn a blind eye. What should I do? The sixth girl must be punished today."

After saying that, she looked at Yuan Wenshao and said: "Although Sister Wen is only the granddaughter of the Sheng family, her mother is the eldest daughter of the Sheng family. If something happens to the Sheng family, her mother will be implicated, and she will naturally not be able to escape. The reason why Punishing her is to make her understand the importance of family and relatives. She will think more about it when encountering problems in the future. Sometimes when you do something, it will not only affect yourself, but also affect your family and relatives. "

Yuan Wenshao was silent when he heard this. The ancients attached great importance to clan and relatives.

Things like marriage are very common.

Because in ancient times, there was no such thing as one person doing things and one person being responsible.

If someone in the family does something embarrassing or commits a serious crime, the entire family will be affected.

It would be difficult for Yuan Wenshao, who had just traveled through time, to accept this view.

Marx once said: "Human essence is not an abstract object inherent in a single person. In its reality, it is the sum of all social relations."

To put it simply, everyone has certain social attributes.

Yuan Wenshao lives in this era. If he wants to integrate into this era, he must accept the rules of this era.

At first, Yuan Wenshao never understood it, so he rejected his parents very much.

Later, he figured it out and began to try to ease the relationship with his parents.

Although Grandma Kong is talking about today's things now, she is not just talking about today's things.

And I will use this incident to teach a few people a more profound truth.

(End of this chapter)