Chapter 824 Our Family

Zhang Cang was listening with his head lowered. He originally thought that the emperor didn't know about these things, but now it seems that he is not a fool.

Chen Ping paid a lot of money quickly, and all the gentlemen in Pei County were stunned. They wondered how he could make so much money in just three to five years.

Anyway, this guy has been making a living by his looks since he was a child, so everyone naturally thought of that aspect.

According to real-time reports from people on the streets of Xianyang, Chen Ping had affairs with almost all the powerful women in the city.

While others have to run errands to get things done, Chen Ping only needs to scan his face.

In this damn world, looks matter everywhere.

Chen Ping's face had already been used all over Xianyang, but unfortunately the noble ladies in Xianyang also fell for his tricks.

In an era of simple folk customs and natural relationships between men and women, noble ladies often had their own lovers. The Queen Mother Xuan of the Qin Dynasty was not an exception.

A smart, handsome and beautiful man like Chen Ping, if placed in Xianyang City, would be the successor to Lao Ai in Xianyang City.

For men, a woman’s beautiful face is the most important thing; but don’t forget that women are more lustful than men, so they naturally have no resistance when they see a good-looking man.

So women are not allowed to be in power because of this consideration. Men are strong because they are ruthless. When it comes to beautiful women, they will make decisions when necessary and give up when necessary;
But women are different. They will be indecisive towards men. Often a man has no ability, but a female ruler will give him a high position and generous salary just because the man is too good-looking.

Unless the other party creates a mess that threatens her own interests, a woman who values ​​emotions will never give up on this man until she has no other choice.

He is not like a man at all. He can replace this woman in a minute for power.

Only those who have actually struggled in the workplace will understand the meaning of these words.

It's not that there is any inequality between men and women.

Rather, men and women belong to two different environments and are naturally good at taking on tasks in different areas.

Letting monkeys go into the water to catch turtles and letting crocodiles climb trees to catch birds may sound strange, but humans often make such messy mistakes.

Of course, this is just a mean sarcasm.

If men and women can overcome each other's character weaknesses, then anything is possible. Unfortunately, if the person holding power is full of flaws, the consequences are often unbearable.

A leader who is greedy for money and lustful is doomed to corruption, regardless of gender.

Chen Ping attracted a lot of romantic interest wherever he went in the palace and Xianyang city. Not to mention the wives and daughters of court officials, even the ladies and princesses in the palace were talking about him. Just because he was handsome, all his advantages were magnified infinitely.

Although everyone loves beauty, and it is human nature to like and talk about good-looking men, it is a pity that it happened in the palace and had a bad impact.

Needs to be contained.

Moreover, Fusu knew very well that even if Chen Ping handed over such a large amount of money, he would not have to do anything when he returned home, and there would be a lot of noble ladies who would feel sorry for him.

This damn world is all about looks.

As the emperor expected, the news that Chen Ping was "extorted a large sum of money" by the "cold-blooded emperor" spread, and soon a large number of noble ladies came to send gifts to Chen Ping again.

At first, the noble ladies were still hesitant. After all, as someone else's wife, it was not good to express their admiration for the new noble in the court so blatantly. But as time passed, the circle of noble ladies who admired Chen Ping expanded, and they no longer cared much about their husbands' opinions.

They openly gave gifts to Chen Ping, just hoping that Chen Ping would look at them a few more times.

All these absurd behaviors made the husbands of those ladies so angry that they couldn't sleep at night.

However, as Chen Ping's status rose, the scholar-officials who had initially opposed giving gifts also changed their attitude.

This was a good thing for them because their wives and daughters took the initiative to make friends with Chen Ping.

Unfortunately, because Chen Ping was too handsome, his reputation gradually became mired in all kinds of unfounded romantic scandals.

Moreover, he had to survive in both the black and white worlds, so he couldn't refuse the kindness of those ladies.

Chen Ping's reputation became worse and worse.

This made Xiong Rou a little undecided.

"Is this guy really a prostitute who got to the top? I've heard some rumors before, but I didn't dare to believe them. But now everyone is saying that Chen Ping has relationships with the noble ladies in the court. Now I don't dare to believe Chen Ping either."

"The last time the Qin Empire had a rebellion, there was Lao Ai. The rebellion was put down when I was just born."

"The royal family is most averse to such things. I have decided to become a relative of Chen Ping in the future, is this how he repays me?"

Xiong Rou looked at her daughter splashing water and skating in the yard in the middle of winter. As a mother, her heart gradually softened.

She cherishes her girls more than she raises her sons.

If the status of women in certain generations in history was particularly noble, or the status of girls in the family was as high as that of boys, one possibility is that after experiencing generations of exploitation and oppression, women saw the truth of the world, or perhaps they were particularly caring towards the next generation in order to make up for themselves.

If it is said that girls of a certain generation are raised unreasonably happily, we should think about it. Perhaps the mothers of this generation of girls, that is, the girls of the previous generation, suffered too much injustice, and then made up for it on their own daughters.

The world is a giant boomerang.

The cruel war era of several hundred years has passed. Men may have died elegantly on the battlefield, but what was left for women was endless tears and struggle.
Generation after generation of women experienced the loss of their fathers, husbands and children, and became truly disadvantaged. They were bought and sold, beaten and kicked, and treated as objects. This led to the situation in which girls were generally valued and their education was very important at the beginning of the Qin Empire.

Xiong Rou valued her princess, just as women in commoner families valued their daughters and taught the men in the family to respect girls.

Mothers play a very important role in traditional Chinese culture. When men are away from home, the great responsibility of educating their children often falls on their mothers.

However, from ancient times to the present, the vast majority of fathers and mothers like to be lazy.

They don't care what their children think or what they will do in the future.

They just want to complete the task as quickly as possible - have children - raise them - and have them start a family.

That's it.

They don't think, not because they can't think, but because they don't want to think. Once they think about the younger generation, what stands in front of them is their bloody selves, the bloody selves who have been cruelly hurt by the previous generation of parents, the bloody selves who have been hurt by the times, society, and their peers.

Parents all like to be lazy. This is human nature and cannot be avoided.

Mothers who take care of the housework are often busy with trivial matters and often neglect their children's education. Even if they educate their children, they just "scold" and "scream" with a stick, and rush through the formalities, tossing the whole day from dawn to dusk, and they feel at ease when it's over.

Poor people, generation after generation has been experiencing this kind of life.

It sounds as if those cruel years are behind us.

The mothers have grown up from the painful years and realized the problem of education. They attach importance to passing on the concept of respecting older sisters and treating men and women equally to the next generation from an early age.

But the reality is often not the case.

People are like this, they either go left or right.

Mothers have experienced cruel years and often are not able to be objective and fair in thinking that men and women are the same. Quite the opposite.

They will go to the other extreme.

Then experience tells them that going left is wrong, but their cognition makes them run to the right.

Therefore, mothers will subconsciously instill certain ideas in their daughters - you are noble, you are perfect, you are exquisite.

Then, ridiculous things like "work is for men" will pop up.

There is no point in talking about more. Perhaps the mother's original intention was just to make up for the hurt she had suffered, but in a moment of thought, the next generation rushed to the right.

Either left or right.

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So based on experience, the men who have been hurt by this generation will definitely make trouble for the next generation.

It’s over.

It’s endless.

Either left or right.

Human beings are always correcting deviations, and then always walking on the path that deviates from the right path.

The gods and Buddhas in heaven were probably all confused and they really didn’t know how to help.

The Book of Documents says, "The human heart is dangerous, the heart of Tao is subtle, one must be precise and focused and hold to the middle."

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The human heart is dangerous and difficult to calm, but the heart of Tao is subtle and difficult to understand. Only by carefully observing and guarding it with concentration can we stick to a correct and impartial path.

This is the true truth, but people will not understand it.

They are only willing to live in their own pain, repeating it over and over again for a long time, torturing themselves.

Since they cannot understand the Tao and cannot keep to the middle path, those poor people not only cannot understand the sages, but go further and further astray, and finally become angry and lose everything, and slander what the sages said.

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The wheel of time is the common karma of millions of people.

Anyone who has not experienced the torture of hell cannot bear such a big thing.

Qin Shi Huang ended the old era, but unfortunately not many people were grateful to him.

People only care about themselves and only dwell on their own pain.

Only by letting go of yourself can you fulfill yourself. To fulfill others is to fulfill yourself. I have said this hundreds, thousands, tens of thousands of times, but people still don’t understand.

A new era has begun, but Qin II is tied to the wheel of the times and seems to be able to do very little.

Most people may not want to believe it, but if Qin II wanted to guide people onto the right path, he had to use two magic weapons, one is education, and the other is mother.

Education, after all, is outsiders educating their own children, and teachers are trained and taught by the state. Education can make every child literate, but can it make every child understand right and wrong?

So the key is to look at the mother, to look at the mother.

If we want to solve the problem of over-correction in gender among the next generation and appease the most basic unit in the social network - the family, it depends on the mother.

Only with the help of millions of mothers in the world can there be a solution for the future.

However, this is a 'flattering' statement.

A non-flattering statement is that if you want a country and a nation to prosper in the future, and for generations to come to live happily on this earth, it requires the choices of thousands and thousands of women.

Talking about making a choice is still flattery.

In fact, it requires women to make sacrifices.

However, the root cause of women's unwillingness to make sacrifices lies in men. When women make sacrifices of one kind or another, there are always men who don't appreciate it and pretend not to see it.

Then this family is doomed.

When families are broken up, women no longer believe in marriage and they dare not "sacrifice themselves" anymore.

Then the marriage cannot continue.

Once the meaning of marriage disappears, the family will no longer be stable, and this will lead to the collapse of social order.

Once the social order collapses, people living in this society will reach a point where they can’t get any help from heaven or earth. All laws and rules will become invalid.

Of course, in the family, both men and women are sacrificial. It is undeniable that the pressure that men have to bear in China's thousands of years of hierarchical society and the efforts they have to make to support their families are difficult for women to bear and imagine.

It's not that only women sacrificed.

Often, a happy and complete family is one in which both parents have made great sacrifices; in some other families, the whole family depends on one of the parents making great sacrifices.

Unfortunately, the reality is that when men of the previous generation abandon their wives, the consequences are borne by the next generation.

No woman is willing to accept that she has given up so much, dedicated her youth, and sacrificed several years of her life, only to be abandoned and ridiculed by her husband.

Even if they were tied up with children, they were still determined deep down.

Chinese women, since ancient times, have not been someone to be trifled with.

The Book of Songs "Mang" describes the results of marriage between men and women in the Zhou Dynasty.

"If you make a promise, you won't think of the consequences. If you don't think of the consequences, then what's the point!"

I wash your clothes and cook for you because I love you. When I was old, you were still young and had a new love. Women in ancient times did not have so many complicated marriage laws and moral constraints. They could just slap their butts, shout "I quit" and leave.

The man in "Rogue" is one of the millions of men in the world.

This male protagonist abandoned his former vows and wife for his own momentary happiness, but the consequences were huge.

When a couple divorces, the one who suffers the most is the child.

That child will definitely be afraid of marriage when he grows up, because what his parents show him is their worst side.

There are irresponsible fathers, and of course there are irresponsible mothers as well.

Throughout history, men and women have abandoned their families and children in order to obtain physical pleasure from the opposite sex, and this mistake is not only made by men.

Men dislike women when they get old and lose their looks; but there are also many women who dislike men when they go bankrupt and have no money and leave immediately.

Unfortunately, the consequences will eventually be borne by our descendants.

So, regardless of whether there is reincarnation or not, in order to punish those ancestors who did stupid things and were irresponsible and did not consider future generations, reincarnation must be established and it must exist.

Why do the previous generation do bad things and then run away, leaving the mess to the next generation?

There must be reincarnation, and there must be karma. He who sows the fruit will reap the harvest.

If you sow good seeds, you will reap good fruits. If you sow evil seeds, you will reap evil fruits. If you do bad things in this life, you will not have time to pay for them in the next life. If you do good things in this life, you will not have time to realize them in the next life.

【PS:
Today we talked about a very heavy topic, some of which came from Professor Zeng Shiqiang (deceased) from Taiwan, China.

Here I would like to pay tribute to Mr. Zeng Shiqiang.

Whenever a national culture is revived, God always sends a group of pioneers. I hope you can benefit from it. 】

(End of this chapter)

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