Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 227 Thirty years have passed
“A plate of braised fish!”

"A large portion of fried cabbage!"

“A large pot of pork and cabbage stewed vermicelli!”

"Big white steamed buns in a basin!"

"Is that a washbasin?"

"I think it's bigger than a washbasin!"

"Ha ha……"

"That makes sense!"

Taking advantage of the twilight before dark in summer, the eight members of the family ate and chatted with the couple, the mother and the father. They didn't drink much. The two big men shared a bottle of Fenjiu, a pure grain and fragrant northern wine. Just right, slightly tipsy, but not too tipsy.

Zhao Jinhe had to admit that he was a little happy and moved today. After dinner, the father and mother took their second daughter, Si Mao, back to rest.I was originally planning to let the two children stay, but seeing that the children seemed to want to leave, I simply asked Da Mao Er Mao to send them back together, and take care of the old couple. Anyway, they are old, so they can't be on the road in the dark. It's not good if you can't see clearly and have an accident.

"Father, drink some hot tea to hangover, the tea I made for you just now should be just right."

Accompanied Zhao Jinhe back to rest on the large reclining chair under the eaves, and then his daughter brought a cup of tea.Today's daughter is very well-behaved and sensible, without the coquettish and arrogance of the past, Zhao Jinhe feels that her daughter has indeed grown up a bit.

Learned to hide my emotions.You no longer just focus on your own feelings, that’s right!Learning it earlier would save her the trouble of having to be educated by others, which would be aggrieved!

"Do you have any new friends in the village?"

"Yes! The eldest brother and the second brother took the four of us around the village. I didn't pay attention when I was young. Many people are relatives who are far or near! There are also many who are in the fifth grade at the beginning of school. We made an appointment to go to school together when school started, there are many people on the road! Ahead..."

The daughter in front of her rambled on about her life in the village these days, about her new friends and new activities, many of which intrigued her.

Looking at the child's pink face tells him that life at home is going well and everything is smoothly and happily integrated into the life here.

"Isn't it difficult to study?"

"Hey, what's so hard about that? I've learned math by myself to the second grade of junior high school. I just don't understand some of the physics content. My brother also explained it clearly to me. Even Sanmao has taught himself to the fourth grade. . It’s just that he doesn’t quite understand some texts, and sometimes he can’t figure out how a simple sentence can have so many hidden meanings? In fact, it’s not just him, but I also think it’s because we think too much, right?”

"Hehe... From some aspects, it can be said that we really think too much! Especially in different eras with different explanations, and they are all explained according to different environments. It is also a skill to be able to make a simple statement complicated! And It is even more difficult to simplify complicated explanations! The same is true for words and deeds! Therefore, the communication between our family members must be frank, and we must not complicate simple things! That will cause many differences between people. Necessary misunderstandings, and even conflicts!"

"Well, I understand! But why are the children scolded by the adults when they are very frank, and the adults like to cover up their words, but everyone thinks that I have a high level of intelligence?"

"This……"

"Does that mean that children are inherently frank, but they are eventually taught to be frank by adults..."

"This..., well, this is why frankness has to be communicated with the family. To be honest, sometimes it is a bit easy to hurt others and yourself! Adults all wear some habitual masks to communicate with each other, and can How much open communication there is means how good the relationship is! This is the difference between ordinary people and friends and family!”

"Oh... I really don't want to grow up!"

"Haha... It won't be like this. There are many benefits when you grow up, that is, most of the people around you are similar to you, and it becomes easier and easier to make friends, and there are friends from everywhere. And You may also make friends for a certain reason, such as sharing a common liking for table tennis, sharing a common liking for a type of song, or even sharing a common dislike for a certain person. Those who are completely in tune with each other in all aspects are soulmates, but soulmates are hard to find and may take a lifetime. You won’t meet them all, but you will have many friends.”

"The old ones are separated, and sometimes I feel a little sad. I don't know if we will have a chance to see each other again in the future!"

"Have new friends joined you? Isn't life like this? They are just passers-by. You can be moved to tears, but there is no need to be sad!"

"Hehe..., I'm too busy to be busy, how can I have time to be sad? It's just a momentary sigh."

"The tea is good! Where does this come from?"

"Some time ago, a cousin gave it to me. I borrowed two bicycles from our house at one time. It is said that they are used to pick up relatives. The bride..."

It feels very strange that after the last education, my daughter not only did not become estranged from Zhao Jinhe, but became even closer, so close that Liu Yu was jealous!

"Have you reconciled with your daughter?"

"Well, we had a great time chatting together today."

"Oh, they are all my children, how can they be closer to you?"

"That's because you stay with the children every day, and I can only come back once a week. In fact, I think the children pity me, a lonely old father, more!"

"Hey..., is it wrong for me to wash and cook for them every day? No, I will announce when I get up tomorrow morning that my clothes are dirty and I will wash them myself, and they have to participate in cooking and doing housework in the future... ..."

"Then you haven't let them participate recently?"

"Haha..., I'm not..."

"The good habit I cultivated has disappeared recently? Alas... you! Both my daughter and Sanmao can participate. They must do the housework! And they must be able to do it well! Otherwise, there is no chance at home. Let’s make it easier for you!”

"Hey, it's not easy, there are still four yards! I don't need to take care of the yard where the old man and the big mother live. He has also started to learn to grow vegetables. He also raised two old hens, and there are two old hens every day. Fresh eggs to eat, I’m still thinking about…”

"Then there are two old hens in each yard, and there are six old hens in three yards. How can there be three eggs every day? If you add up, you will have a lot in a month."

"Should we raise the pigs?"

"Forget about pigs! If you raise them, there are too many troubles. But rabbits can try indoor breeding! If a pair of rabbits are raised well, there will definitely be meat in the house!"

"It's a good idea. I'll ask the villagers to see if it works. If..."

The two couples chatted happily all night and had another in-depth exchange before slowly falling asleep.

(End of this chapter)