Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 286 Have you ever regretted it

The old neighbors are well prepared for the Chinese New Year, and the situation is much better than in the past.

Qin Huairu was equally happy, because her son Bangnuer was going home for the first time with his wife and granddaughter, and she felt a little uneasy. She wondered what had become of her son Bangnuer now.We haven't seen each other for two years. The lively and lovely girl has become the mother of her granddaughter. I don't know if the couple is still as loving as before.

Just like she liked Bangguer's father back then, everyone looked down upon his weakness and incompetence, and despised Aunt Jia's unreasonable style in the courtyard, taking advantage without suffering any losses.

But several years have passed, and the Jia family is now living a pretty good life. How can Aunt Jia still be so arrogant and unreasonable?

Being able to live a good life, even if it's just barely, who wants to pretend to be crazy like that?

As for the shortcomings of Bang's father Dongxu, many people know, but everyone has to admit that Jia Dongxu is indeed a handsome guy.Otherwise, you are talking nonsense.

It was also for this reason that she fell in love with him back then. They didn't know much about each other. It was just a blind date. Who could know anything about whom?Don't look at the appearance, do you look at the connotation?Then you have to be able to see it!As for the matchmaker's mouth, it's a deceitful ghost!At least what I saw was true. As for other aspects, whether it was good or bad in that era was all a matter of luck.Let her, a big girl in the village who has never read books and seen the world, judge or see through the mouth of the matchmaker, isn't that too demanding?

If Qin Huairu were to see her now, it would still be possible. After all, she has experienced too many things over the years, and has accumulated a lot of life experience and lessons. But the more she understands, the less she dares to lie. People are complicated. , everyone lives with different masks in different time, place and environment. As for the person behind the mask, it is not easy to see clearly, but at least she also knows what kind of man is the best, and It’s not just like in the past that I like to look at my appearance.

But which person is not like this when he is young?
In order to welcome Bang'er's family back home, everyone in the Jia family will celebrate the New Year in the courtyard this year, including her mother-in-law, Aunt Jia, and Xiaodang, who lives in the village. Today, Xiaodang has become a primary school student in the village. Teacher, if the level is not good, then slowly improve it!Anyway, that was an opportunity that the Jia family had fought for in the village. The Zhang family had it, the Li family had it, why didn’t my Jia family have it?
Jia Xiaodang was really lucky!

It would be a lie to say that Xiaodang didn’t complain at all after returning to the countryside from the city. But if she said that after leaving the city and reaching the current situation, Xiaodang is very satisfied. Even if she stayed in the city, she would still find it. She doesn't have such a suitable job, and although the income is not high, it is enough for her. Part of the centimeter is exchanged for food, and part is cash subsidy.She wasn't busy at work and didn't have many things to do. When she had nothing to do, she took a walk around the village with her grandmother, Aunt Jia, whose temper had improved a lot.She was full of envy and jealousy, because compared to the girls in the village, she was quite tall and had a much fairer complexion. She didn't have rosy cheeks since she had not participated in much labor training in the fields.

She looks much prettier than the girls living in the village. As for why she is not said to be beautiful, it is because the village does not talk about this. At best, she is extremely beautiful!
Don't be too many young men around chasing her!If she hadn't always wanted to go back to live in the city, she might have chosen one of them long ago.In fact, she felt that many of them were good, but her grandma reminded her all the time, and she herself was also a little hesitant.

At almost 20 years old, she was a little hesitant. If there was a chance to return to the city, of course she would be willing to wait, but how long would it take?

She also encountered the same problem as her brother.I just took advantage of the Chinese New Year holiday to go home and discuss it with her mother.

"No! Absolutely not! Unless you don't recognize me as your mother! How could you have such an idea? You..."

As soon as she mentioned this issue at first, she met with strong opposition from her mother!I swore that I would not lack anything.

But after she explained in detail, her mother was a little hesitant. The biggest problem was her age!

Girls are different from boys, the best years are just a few years, if you miss it, it may be a lifetime.

"What's going on with those men? Tell me in detail, and I'll find someone to inquire about it in detail. If there's any problem, and it's really not possible, then let's talk about it..."

In fact, it is just those few. One is from a township cadre family, and the second son is neither the eldest nor the youngest. The biggest advantage is himself. He also has a job and certain abilities. If given time, he might be able to do something. develop.The second one is a young man in the village. He is educated and well-educated. His family conditions are not bad. As the eldest son, he also needs to take on the responsibility of helping his parents raise his younger siblings. Of course, this one is also the most handsome one. The last one is according to the People in the Jia family are very happy to see the marriage between a young man from another big family in the village, but the biggest problem is that the other person once had a very good relationship with his ex.

This is what Xiaodang doesn't want to do the most.

Then, Qin Huairu told Zhao Jinhe about the situation and asked him to help him think about it.

"Xiaodang is now..."

"Oh, what do you think? What does Xiaodang want now?"

"Hey, according to her, none of them are actually good choices. She still wants to go back to the city to live! But she is getting older, you know..."

"Well, generally no one wants to participate in this kind of thing. If you are right, no one will praise you. If you are wrong, you will be blamed for the rest of your life. But since you have asked, I will briefly talk about the pros and cons of each!"

"That's fine too."

"From a short-term perspective..., from a ten-year perspective...from a lifetime perspective..., of course there is another premise, that is, she must like or be willing, and it is best to be able to grasp the other person! This is especially true for girls. It’s important, otherwise no matter how good a man is, he belongs to someone else. So she really should think carefully about the big things in her life. If she’s right, she’ll be lucky, and if she’s wrong, she’ll never regret it!”

"Like me back then?"

"Yes! Others are just bystanders, but only you can feel it best! Have you ever regretted marrying Jia Dongxu? Even if he has left for more than ten years."

"This……"

The life of a widow for more than ten years was full of grievances and pains, but if she was given another chance, would she still choose this way?Qin Huairu's eyes are full of hesitation and sadness!
Love in adolescence may not last a lifetime, but at least in retrospect, if you love once without any regrets, then you can live a life worthy of it!
(End of this chapter)