Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 369 Auntie is not simple

The eldest nephew Liu Dagou still found time to come to his uncle's house in the city. He was hesitant and unable to solve personal life-long matters. Liu Dagou was a little absent-minded in doing things, and the master who followed him scolded him several times.

"What are you thinking about? If you have something to do, solve it as soon as possible, and don't procrastinate. Bring your emotions to work. Our driving itself is a high-risk occupation. The income is high, but it also means high risk. Encounters, if you don't pay attention, you will die." There may be a big problem. The dear one is the car accident, the person is fine, the planting may be the car crash and death. If something happens, solve the problem quickly. Don’t procrastinate. Solve the problem, it’s over. Be serious with all your heart Work. Driving well, earning money and ensuring safety, that’s the way to go.”

Liu Dagou knew it was because of his father's face.Didn't say anything too exaggerated.Because his father already is after all. 20 years.The deputy director of the Old Revolutionary Committee?In the village, people are more familiar.Many people owe him favors.I have some friendship with most people in the village.

"Hey!"

Things will eventually work out.It's not the case that it has been procrastinating. Today, taking advantage of the master's free time, he specially asked for leave to come to the uncle's house to ask him how to solve his personal problems.

Liu Yuhou warmly entertained Liu Dagouzi.The child came once, but rarely came again after that.Yes.and only one nephew.The first time to take the initiative to come to the door.Liu Yu is.I asked very politely.

"Is there something wrong with you? You can talk to your aunt if you have anything. Your uncle is very busy at school and he doesn't come back often during this time."

"Actually, it's more appropriate for you to ask my aunt about this matter. Uncle, if there is any important matter, I will ask him. Now this matter is mainly about my life-long event. There is a girl in the village , I think it is suitable in terms of personal conditions. But his family conditions are too poor. His father and mother have given birth to five daughters including her. That's it, life is very bad and tense. That's it Now, his parents will continue to have children until they have a son. Hey, their family lives like this. I'm really worried. If I marry her, how will our little family live?"

"What aspects of her do you think are more suitable for you?"

"She's tall and pretty, and she's not particularly stout, but rather slender. And she's the eldest in the family, and she usually takes care of five younger sisters at home, all of whom are okay. If I marry her in the future, she can also help my mother take care of my three younger sisters and a younger brother after she comes to our house. It is really suitable for our family. "

"Oh... Then her personal conditions are good, so why hasn't anyone come to propose marriage to her yet? It's because the conditions at her home are not good!"

"Well, it's because of this, or else..."

"Otherwise, why would she look for you! Do you think your personal conditions are good, and your family conditions are good?"

"It should probably be okay, right? It's just that the younger sisters are still young, in the future..."

"Isn't the situation in their family not the same? In the future, several of her younger sisters will marry, and they will live their own lives, and they will all be in different families. Whoever lives well will be concerned about themselves. The biggest trouble It's just the last few years.

Do you think the conditions at her home are worse than those at your grandparents' home?But you should know by looking at my choice. From my point of view, the first thing that must be considered is people. Talent is the most fundamental. If you choose a good man, you will have a lot of good children, not to mention you still marry Where is the wife!As the old saying goes, one generation of good daughters-in-law and three generations of good sons and daughters, what is there to consider? How many years can you suffer once you suffer?How many more years can we live happily afterwards?After a little thinking, you will know what to choose. "

"Huh? Oh..., then I should choose her!?"

"Of course! You are a manly man. Whether you live well in the future, the biggest responsibility lies on you! Back then I dared to choose your uncle, not afraid that the burden on his family would be heavy. As a manly man and There is nothing to be afraid of!"

"I'm only eighteen..."

"Your uncle was less than 16 years old when he took responsibility! He gave up the opportunity to study and make progress, and earned wages to send money back to help your grandparents support the family. Do you think he is doing well? But in fact, whether he is good or not, he doesn't know. That's the only way, what else should I do?"

"It's true. At that time, my family was also in a mess. My mother took medicine all year round to maintain her health, and spent most of our family's savings."

"Then how do you think your uncle is doing now? Is life getting better and better?"

"Well, but..."

"All conditions can be changed, only the basic conditions of people cannot be changed! If you choose a person, you will at least have the opportunity to work hard to make your family's life better and better. If you choose a person with good conditions, life Life will definitely get worse and worse. People can change conditions, but conditions can hardly shape people!"

"Auntie, you mean that those with poor conditions can rely on their own hard work to change, but there is only one chance to choose someone."

"Haha..., you're not too stupid, you! Even your father's courage is gone. I've heard that your father chose your mother, who is tall, because he is short, regardless of your grandfather's objections. , Regardless of your mother's shortcomings of being weak and unable to participate in labor, you must give up something if you take something!
If you fall in love with her, you have to accept that her family conditions are not very good. Otherwise, if she is a good person and has a good family, why would she be waiting for you?

When it’s time to be brave, you must never shrink back. In fact, I think the fundamental reason why she is the most suitable for you is the poor conditions in her family. Without the experience of managing many younger sisters, how can you deal with your three younger sisters and one younger brother? "

"You don't sound good, but that's the way it is."

"Haha... isn't that what it is?"

"Well, I'll go back right now. When I meet her in the village, I'll have a good talk with her. It's going to be hard for a while, but it's all for our future. I'll work hard and earn more money. Life will definitely be less stressful."

"Right! The key is to increase your own income. Otherwise, not to mention your small family, even your parents will probably need your help in a few years!"

"That's right! If the three younger sisters all go to school, then..., oh..., it should be hard. If I don't help my parents, then they will have a hard time!"

"What do you think? Hurry up and work hard to earn money! Your future..."

(End of this chapter)