Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 382
"Hey..., I only realized this problem recently. People, the gap is really big. I used to think I was stupid, but compared with these boys I met so far. It's actually okay. Of course, they are neither smart , even more unattractive. Far inferior to big hair and two hairs. Sigh... I am really used to getting along with them. I always subconsciously think that everyone should be like that, smart and good-looking. But in fact, the people I meet are just the opposite. Dumb, stupid, and ugly!
I really didn’t want to see him again after seeing him once. "

"That's right. How many smart and good-looking people are there in reality? Men and women are the same. You are not smart, but you are pretty good-looking. There are so many boys who will actively pursue you. , I like you. This shows that those who are not smart but are relatively good-looking are also very popular with many boys. If you don’t care about looks, you can choose someone who is smarter, at least smarter than you. If you care about looks If so, I can only find a boy who is dumber than you, just like I found your dad back then. To be honest, your dad had no other advantages except that he was handsome. He was stupid and stupid. He couldn't do anything. Listen to your grandma, do you think I despise him?

No, I like someone.What I like is not just his advantages.Also accept his shortcomings.You can't just like his advantages and not accept his shortcomings, then you will be causing trouble for yourself. "

"Mom, I'm still young! I want to see more when I'm young, otherwise I will definitely regret it in the future. If there is something at that time, wouldn't it be worse?"

"You think too beautifully, and the starting point is right. It doesn't mean you are doing the right thing. What do others think of you? The reputation outside will also get worse and worse."

"Is it such an exaggeration? Our kindergarten teachers are all female. How can we find a partner if we don't go on a blind date? That's not forcing people..."

"It's good to know. In fact, I think the only shortcoming of kindergarten teachers is that it is impossible to find a partner among colleagues. Other aspects don't matter. If it doesn't work, you should stop for a while, and wait until people gradually forget the recent blind date. Events, we will start blind dates at that time, but think about the reason, don't really delay yourself when the time comes."

"Oh... I see!"

Huaihua agreed happily, but she was still a little unconvinced in her heart, why is it so complicated for a partner!

But the fact is estimated to be the case, she still knows that her old mother is much more experienced than her in certain aspects, and she is much better at calculating gains and losses than her. Maybe this is the reality. Not only does she look like her father, but she is not smart Also like her father!
Then she should just be a weird daughter who listens to her mother!

She thinks it's good to have an old lady who is smarter and more capable than her, and she doesn't need her to do stupid things a lot of the time.

Love is an extravagant hope. The legendary story may be the reality. From her mother's experience, finding a smart person is much easier than finding a good-looking life. She doesn't want to repeat her mother's life of suffering and suffering. It's the end of the day, no matter what, I still want to live my life with peace of mind.

Of course, it is best not to have a mother-in-law who loves to scheme against your daughter-in-law. Just like her grandmother, she has too many troubles and reminds her mother all the time. She is afraid that her mother will suddenly leave one day and leave her alone. How can she live without her grandchildren?
She understood her grandma's helplessness, but she also felt that it was better not to meet such a mother-in-law, it was too troublesome!

In fact, Qin Huairu thinks back now that her mother-in-law, Aunt Jia, is not wrong. At most, because of her limited culture and knowledge, the means she thought of were those few, not to mention high or low, but all for survival!I can't blame her, and I can't blame anyone. It was some accidents that forced her to live like this, otherwise, what should I do?
Wasn't she herself the same who had to compromise in order to survive?

If he hadn't given her an idea and now thought about it from a higher perspective, if she hadn't changed her career to become a kindergarten teacher, or even the principal of a kindergarten, and later took the opportunity to change her career again and become a trade union worker, how could she have been like that later? smooth development?
People just have to do the work they are good at!That way you can not only give full play to your own advantages, but also get more rewards!

Aunt Jia is now nearly seventy years old. She is indeed a bit old, but her health is not bad. If she takes care of herself, there is no problem at all. Now she has returned to live in a courtyard house. Among other things, she also has some I can't quite get used to it. The courtyard is full of simple houses. Although the living conditions of each household have been improved at once, it also means that the living environment has become less comfortable. Even the most basic passages are difficult. It's so narrow that it makes people feel aggrieved!

Of course, what reassures him the most is.Her husband gave her son at work.The son is at work.go through.Qin Huairu.Now passed on to grandson.Although grandson Banger'er currently has no son and only one great-grandson, with Sun Zhong, her grandson will not be short of a great-grandson, it's just a matter of time.

It's just that all the old guys are getting old!

Grandpa Yi Zhonghai now has gray hair all over his head, he walks staggeringly, and even speaks with a lot less vigor, and now he doesn't speak the kind of words full of benevolence, righteousness and morality.There is also no mantra of emphasizing filial piety to the elderly at all times, but life is not bad, not everything is going well, but the basic daily life is still covered by people.

It's just that Zhang Luo's person was a little unexpected to her, it turned out to be Zhao Jinhe's daughter-in-law Liu Yu!
As for the reason, it made her even more amused. It turned out that the aunt had helped Liu Yu a lot for a while, especially when it came to raising the children.It's rare that two cunning people do something good and get the help they need most. Isn't this very lucky?But this is the fact, but after careful calculation, she felt that these two families are indeed the best choice for supporting and taking care of each other. One is not short of money and children, and the other is actually in good financial conditions. The only problem is It’s just that there were a little more troubles when the children were young!

Supporting each other doesn't have too much financial need, what is needed more is to take care of each other, and the time should not be too long (no one would have thought that the uncle is a relatively long-lived person), at most it is It's only five or six years, and it's really more appropriate to spend more time with each other!
(End of this chapter)