Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 392 We Are All Good Children

When Yi Zhonghai and Yima were having dinner together, they both noticed that Liu Yu and Zhao Jinhe were in some unusual moods, but they didn't say anything more. After all, they were not the biological grandparents of the children. Rationally speaking, the children were indeed You should study abroad in Citi, not only to learn better and more knowledge, but also to go to a larger world and expand your knowledge.

As the saying goes, reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles. It is indeed lonely and inconvenient to go to a foreign country, but you can also have the opportunity to experience the customs and customs of different regions, understand the differences between each other, learn from others' strengths, and make up for your own shortcomings. , everyone knows that it is really good to study abroad, but can every parent who sends their children away not worry and feel sad?

Worrying is also a kind of worry!
Sanmao was very well-behaved at dinner tonight, and it was rare to see him without amused children. Simao's second daughter was even more obedient and sensible, and didn't bother her parents with money to go out to play. In fact, they all had their own pocket money, Zhao Jinhe Yes, Liu Yu also gave it, and the elders and mothers occasionally gave it too, but why use the pocket money that I had so easily accumulated in my small coffers when I could spend my parents' money?
If you have no name, you can just find one. Besides, you are already in your early years. After graduating from elementary school, you are admitted to a key junior high school. Isn't it right to ask for some money to play with your classmates and friends?

I asked for it with Liu Yu yesterday, and I gave it!

Today I planned to ask Zhao Jinhe again, but since the situation is not quite right, let's quickly retreat strategically!
No matter how indecisive and pestering, maybe their going out to play will be dirty in a while!

Flexibility is not only possessed by San Mao, but Si Mao and the second daughter, the two youngest children in the family, can now be said to have learned everything from the third brother.

Pretending to be cute and being pitiful are the most basic techniques. Skillful skills are the same as eating and drinking. You don’t need to practice deliberately. You can start anytime, anywhere, and be prepared at all times. Observing words and emotions is the skill they have started to focus on in the past half a year. .

The initial training subjects were their third elder brother Sanmao and Xu Zhenzhen.

The third brother and Xu Zhenzhen secretly made some small happiness from time to time, which made the two little guys discover good opportunities. First, Si Mao began to try to ask for some delicious food, and found that it could be easily accomplished. The two started again. Continue to add more money.

For example, let Xu Zhenzhen and Sanmao help with homework, especially some that they think are useless.Text-based copying assignments, such as Chinese, which text should be copied three times.He asked his third brother and Xu Yunzhen to help copy it, and the teacher didn't care much about it.The reason is because they both study well.Remember it after reading it once, why do you have to copy it three times?
But when assigning homework, you can't emphasize that they don't need to write, that's not appropriate, and it will especially arouse the envy and hatred of others.

The following training subjects were mainly their old mother Liu Yu.

Liu Yu may be because after the older children in front of her grew up, they started to be busy studying and were too sensible to give her the feeling of being a mother. Whatever she said, no matter how she said it, she felt a little inappropriate.

.Instead, Si Mao and her second daughter kept pestering her, asking for some pocket money from time to time. She didn't care much about money, she only wanted it once if she acted coquettishly.Another trouble, another chance, the two children had a great time, Liu Yu also enjoyed it and had no objection.

Of course, the two children are also observing. If the opportunity is not suitable, they will make some strategic retreats, and the next time they will make a tactical attack, and it will be over. They will achieve their small goal of pocket money, and occasionally they can go out for a while. Their simplest little goals.

In Liu Yu's opinion, these little brains seemed cute and fun, so he didn't care much about them. The main reason was that the two youngest children were the only ones left. What if they were a little cute or naughty?

We can't let the children in the family be like his older brothers and sisters, always serious about studying hard and studying hard.At home, do children like this still feel like little kids?They have all become little adults, which is too boring.

On the contrary, from time to time, he teased Simao and the second daughter, allowing them to take advantage of it. Such things made Liu Yu feel the joy of being a mother even more.

Being coaxed and deceived by them, she is also willing to be deceived. How can others experience such happiness?

For example, Zhao Jinhe, who has been home less recently, is also very tolerant towards Simao and his second daughter.The two children also often acted like a baby and pretended to be cute to cheat a little pocket money from him, and he never refused.But I also tell the children that it is okay to take money, but they must do some work for the family properly, not too much and not too heavy.Getting them to do it is all small things within their capabilities.Zhao Jinhe thinks that this is the correct way of education just to cultivate the concept that children can gain something through hard work.

Zhao Jinhe's way of educating children is very flexible, and he does not emphasize what purpose he wants to achieve.It is about telling children their own concepts and ideas about life through simple facts.

Especially for the two youngest children, with the role models of their elder brothers and sisters, they have become self-aware in their studies and their academic performance is also good.Then what remains is the cultivation of ideological concepts and living habits, which are the focus of their education.

This is very different from the education of Da Mao and Er Mao's daughters.Children need different education at different times. Although he didn't discuss this with Liu Yu, the couple agreed to adopt different children and adopted different methods and methods.

In fact, not only did Liu Yu have a different attitude towards children's education, but Zhao Jinhe also had a different attitude.This is not only because children have different rankings in the family, but also because as they grow older, their tolerance for children has also increased a lot, especially the two youngest children, who have no regard for these two children. Too high expectations.On the contrary, I hope that they just need to be happy and have a certain ability to live.

Instead of placing great hopes on their future and the daughters of Da Mao and Er Mao.I also hope that the daughters of Da Mao and Er Mao can set an example for the younger brothers and sisters in the future.

And according to Zhao Jinhe's estimation, he is likely to become a teacher in No. [-] Middle School after graduating from college.

This is not only because the rolling mill has been merged by the steel company, he will not have a suitable position in the rolling mill in the future, and the school for the children of the rolling mill has been taken over by the Education Bureau, and now, there is one in the cram school he leads, after all there There are teachers he is familiar with, and even the school leaders are familiar with him. Through teaching practice, they have also recognized his teaching ability. If he graduates from university in the future, he is likely to go to No. [-] Middle School.

In that case, Sanmao and his second daughter are likely to become students of his age in the future.If there is a need at that time, there will be time to discipline them more strictly. After all, the academic performance of the two children is relatively reassuring, as long as there are no major problems in quality.Now he doesn't care too much.

Just like the current state, the children can be happy, and he and Liu Yu can enjoy the family happiness as parents, so why not do it?

If you choose your grandson to accompany them, if you have a good relationship with your grandson, will you still be short of a son for the elderly?Of course not.

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