Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 409 The bride who doesn’t want a bride price

Yes, Liu Dagou is finally getting married.He originally wanted to save some more money, hold the wedding more beautifully, and make the family's economic conditions better. At that time, he thought it would be the best to marry the eldest man of the He family back home with great fanfare. when.

Because Liu Dagou is only in his early 20s now, and the eldest son of the He family is just [-] years old. He is old enough to get married, but after all, after studying for seven or eight years, Liu Dagou feels that if he gets married and starts a family, his age is still a bit Small, why not fall in love while you are young and work hard in your career, that would be more perfect. Now that you are married, if you have a lot of children, then he will be in a hurry.

But the eldest man of the He family can't wait any longer. The girls in the village nowadays are all married as soon as they reach the age. She has already waited for him to turn eighteen. If she delays, she will become 20 year old girl?
To put it bluntly, she was a little impatient waiting at home, not to mention she was the eldest in the family, if she didn't get married, her second sister would still be waiting in line behind!
After she gets married, her second sister will get engaged immediately and get married and start a family half a year later!
What's more, the changes in Liu Dagou's family are just happening, and they are indeed getting better and better, but if they become too good, will her future parents-in-law have other thoughts?

That's hard to say. If she gets married quickly, she can feel more at ease.

Liu Dagou wants to fight for his career?That would have to wait for her to marry before it would be their common cause. If she hadn't married yet, it would only be the cause of him, Liu Dagou, and their family, so what does it have to do with her?

He Daman'er's parents didn't ask for any bride price, but instead made a request that made Liu Dagou and He Daman a little bit dumbfounded, or a request was more appropriate.

"I hope that when the youngest son of our He family grows up, you, as the big sister and big brother-in-law, can reach out and give him a hand.

Because by then, we, the old couple, will be really old. At nearly 60 years old, how can we, a pair of old farmers, still make money?

What can I save for my son?He will have problems getting married and starting a family in the future. "

"Father, mother, you just don't tell me, that's my brother, how could I not help him? If there is any need, of course I will help if I can!"

"That's different. It's better if things are settled first. We believe that you will definitely be willing to help your younger brother, but with the help of his brother-in-law, the effect will be more guaranteed.

We also think this request is a bit excessive, but really ten or twenty years later, we are almost 20 years old. If you don't help him, who can he rely on?
In the future, when he gets married and starts a family in the village, he will need a lot of things, including a house, financial gifts, and at least a good livelihood. He will need your help in planning these. "

It seems that he said this to his daughter, but in fact he said it to Liu Dagou.

"Then let's talk about it when the time comes. What's the use of being anxious now?"

Liu Dagou is still pondering the meaning of it, and the eldest man of the He family is already getting a little impatient.

"We agreed earlier so that you can be prepared.

As for your betrothal gift, we don’t want it. Let this request be the betrothal gift we want!

Nowadays, the life of every household in the village is gradually getting better. We can maintain our own families by ourselves.I don’t want to drag you down for the time being…”

The matter was discussed between He Da Man'er and her own parents. Liu Da Gou, who was standing aside, just accompanied him and didn't say much until they had roughly discussed a result.

Liu Dagou then added something.

"You don't have to worry too much. If you have a difficult time, just tell Damaner that no matter what, we will definitely take action as long as there is need. After all, we are a family. As for his brother, there is no need to worry. , anyway, he is the uncle of our future children.

People say that mother is the boss, so how could I not help him?

Not only do we have to help, but we have to help with a little bit of knowledge, so that we have an explanation for you and the children. "

This is very similar to the conditions put forward by Liu Dagou's grandpa. Dagou's mother did not ask for a betrothal gift when she got married. This was very rare in the countryside at that time, but Dagou's grandfather also proposed that his father help provide for him. The conditions for my uncle to study. Although my uncle's study career was abandoned halfway, it at least provided for him until he graduated from elementary school and was admitted to junior high school. He stayed in junior high school for more than half a year, and then he had the opportunity to take the recruitment exam and choose I went to work in a good unit to earn money, so my grandparents’ family became the first city dweller to earn money from work.The financial situation of my grandfather and grandmother's family also began to gradually change.

Of course, the most important thing is that the uncle is indeed very capable. Not only did he help his grandma and grandfather to support his third uncle, aunt and fifth uncle, he also helped them all study until they graduated from high school. He also helped his second uncle get married and build a house.

Recently, I even helped Big Dog solve many problems.If you have anything to do, go to your uncle. That is really not an empty talk.It can really get things done and solve problems.

It can be seen that poverty is not terrible. What is terrible is that there is no one in the family. As long as there are people and are willing to work hard, poverty is very easy to change.But if you want to become richer, you must not only rely on your own efforts, but also have suitable opportunities. Just like myself today, you must seize the opportunity yourself and only with the help of others can your family's financial situation improve a lot. big change.

This is the case with him, and so are his uncles and aunts, and it will certainly be the case in the past and the future.

If you are willing to work hard and get help from others, you will naturally develop better.

If you simply count on the help of others, you can only save emergencies, but it is impossible to become rich.

Since the He family doesn't want the dowry money, naturally there will be no dowry, so the big dog and the eldest man of the He family will simply prepare the wedding and the dowry together. They will try to choose the most practical things. The only modern thing is a big tape recorder. Not only does it look foreign and upscale, but the sound effect is also very good!
The rest of the wedding room decoration was also done by the He family's eldest man'er himself, and the eldest dog was only responsible for providing money and effort!

As more and more things are spent in the house, the newly decorated wedding room is getting more and more beautiful!
"Mom, sister-in-law, how much did you spend on this? The house is so beautiful inside!"

"It's not like I'm spending your money, what do you have to feel bad about!"

"But I feel sad when I see you!"

"It's all nonsense. Why don't I know that I feel distressed? Doesn't it cost money to marry a wife? If in the future..."

Zhao Jinxiang and her eldest daughter felt a little uncomfortable after visiting the big dog's wedding room.

with her
The house we live in is so beautiful inside!

Mother and daughter, one is a little envious and the other is a little distressed about how much money has been spent.

Originally, all the money her son earned was hers, but in the future, someone would share it with her. Thinking about it, she felt a little distressed. Her silly son was just fascinated by her handsome appearance. Just look at it!
She felt that her son was going to belong to someone else's family!

(End of this chapter)