Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 474

He Yulin's feelings were very complicated. On the one hand, it was because of the harm caused by the tutoring. He started to study hard at night from then on. According to He Jingwen's arrangement, Zhao Jinyang tutored him to do a good job in summarizing his daily studies, followed by practice, and then again. Previewing in advance, and so on and on, life after school suddenly became regular, and he survived the initial discomfort. In fact, he felt that the harvest was not bad. He understood the class, finished the homework, and the test scores immediately began to improve. .

Moreover, after he studied hard, his good niece never beat him again. His life suddenly changed. His parents were very satisfied, and his teachers were very happy. It was those who he didn’t talk to that had good academic performance. His classmates also started chatting together. Although he lost part of his previous freedom, he also gained some benefits that he did not have before!
Suddenly his life changed.

"Hey, it's not surprising. When I was studying, I went from bad to normal to gradually better. I have experienced all your feelings.

We are getting older and we are no longer children.Sometimes we have to think about the future and take responsibility.First of all, we must strengthen our own ability, and only when we have ability can we take responsibility.As for boys, it is understandable for everyone to be naughty, but when they grow up, they still only know how to play without studying and working hard, and they will become others' jokes.

What if something happens?Asking around for help?Feeling incompetent and powerless is very bad. It feels very bad to regret and hate yourself for not working hard and not making progress. One experience can make people feel uncomfortable for a lifetime.I understand you very much, because I am also an old child. Before I officially grow up, my parents are already in a mess. Although I am loved now, the future life is a tragedy! "

"Hey, you have a lot of brothers and sisters anyway, it won't be too bad if one person pulls you up, I will..."

Looking at the frowning child in front of him, Zhao Jinyang was also amused!
"I also thought this way more than ten years ago. It was my elder brother who woke me up with one sentence, and gave you a hand. It was because you deserved to be handed a hand. You can stand up if you do that! Who will help a person who lives a sluggish life? As you were before, how many really smart, capable and sensible people are willing to talk to you?
Now that you have made some progress in your own hard work, have some people started to try to contact you?

I give you a hand today because I hope you can give me a hand at some time and somewhere in the future!If you don’t work hard and have the ability to help others in the future, who will care about you? "

"Is everyone so realistic?"

He Yulin frowned a little and asked a little unconvinced.

"It's not reality, but everyone knows that life is not easy. Only by helping each other can we live in a safer and more secure way. Isn't this normal? This is the principle of normal life for everyone.

Those who rely on others to help them live are naive and ridiculous. If you don’t work hard to learn and improve, how can someone take the initiative to help you!If you want to get help from others, you must first have the value of being helped by others!The amount of value also corresponds to the amount of help, which basically matches! "

What Zhao Jinyang said was a bit irritating, but He Yulin listened with great interest. Maybe few people in his family tell him these things. He Daqing is still working hard to learn how to care for him, and his mother has not cultivated it. The experience of educating boys, the needs of girls and girls at different ages are very different. Even Zhao Jinyang himself is gradually learning from his brothers and growing up slowly. The brothers have successful experiences and also have many failures. If you keep accumulating your own unique concept of life and the way of life that you feel more comfortable in, then that’s fine, because even brothers are similar in intelligence and other aspects, but the times are different!Opportunities and risks naturally have many differences, especially in today's entire social practice that emphasizes reform, and reform is to cross the river by feeling the stones. Isn't that just looking for the direction of development based on actual feedback?
Isn't it the same when a person, an ordinary person, is in it?Isn't it the most basic way of development to go with the flow and constantly adjust your mentality and state?

The only standard of right and wrong.

"Practice is the only criterion for testing truth"

It's stuck on the wall!How can an ordinary person turn a blind eye and listen but not hear?
Adjustment is the norm. I didn’t see that his eldest brother is constantly adjusting his status. From the first student to the later worker, he married a girl from the village as his wife amidst the pity of others. What happened?
Everyone is worried that their children will need to undergo labor re-education, but their family never has this worry. He works in a factory in the city to earn money, and the family is basically not short of money. His wife takes the children in the village. Living inside, there is basically no shortage of food. If they didn't have money and food, how could the couple raise their six children so easily?

Would their life as a couple be better off if they had fewer children?The answer is obviously yes, and it seems that Zhao Jinyang and He Jingwen currently have only one child. If he follows his eldest brother's example, his own family life will definitely be quite good.

Not only did he think so, but He Jingwen also had the same idea. Zhao Jinyang understood it after thinking about it, and He Jingwen witnessed it all with his own eyes. As a chef, his father He Yuzhu had a slight advantage in eating, and Apparently Zhao Jinhe’s family’s food is not bad!

If it weren't for the fact that Zhao Jinhe's family wore ordinary clothes, many people would definitely find out, but in fact, their clothes don't have many patches, and they are always clean and tidy, better than hers, don't forget Her mother is a cadre in the textile factory, and her father is the director of the canteen in the rolling mill. Logically speaking, their family has the best conditions, but in fact there is not much difference.

Zhao Jinyang used education to cultivate the mentality of his brother-in-law and got along with He Yulin. As time went on, the relationship between them became better and better, and it could even be said that it far exceeded He Jingwen's familiarity with him.

Now that Zhao Jinhe has finished his children's college entrance examinations, he is no longer busy as a substitute teacher in the graduating class. He can enjoy family happiness and summer vacation life with peace of mind, especially when the whole family spends summer vacation together. It's very comfortable. The old man has left with peace of mind. Those who stay will continue to work hard to live a happy life. Everyone who comes will leave. Just think about it, don't worry about it, and there are three more nieces in the family And it became more and more lively. They were also specially invited by Liu Yu to let the three daughters go to the elder brother's place. Zhao Jinxiang naturally agreed with both hands and feet. If there is any difficulty, the first thing she thinks of is her Big brother, the younger brother she grew up carrying behind her back, they have a deep relationship!She was very down-to-earth with the three daughters in the past!
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