Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 548: The place for reasoning is not home

It was already past New Year's Day when I returned to Sijiu City, and the Lunar New Year was about to take place. Zhao Jinhe came back alone, so he naturally went to live in the courtyard.I don’t know what to do with the dormitories allocated in the school, and I live in the houses in the courtyard in a daze. Anyway, the current steel rolling mills have been merged and then relocated, and now the houses have been returned to the land. Bureau management, just pay electricity, water and other fees on time every month. Even Zhao Jinhe’s mother’s household registration was still moved here on the principle of visiting relatives. On the contrary, the household registration of his fifth brother Zhao Jinyang and his daughter-in-law He Jingwen has always been left behind. His fifth brother Zhao Jinyang's work unit shared a house. Now, in order to make it easier for his children to go to school in the future, his newborn niece's household registration is also located in the courtyard. After all, the nearby primary school is not far away, so it is more convenient for his work unit's house. too much.

There is no longer the third uncle he is used to greeting him at the entrance of the courtyard. The third uncle Yan Laojie is too old. He has aged faster since he sent his wife away. If it weren't for the fact that his eldest grandson came back from graduation, it made him happy. He was a little happier, which gave him some comfort after losing his wife. In any case, his eldest grandson has really become a teacher in a key middle school and a cultural person in the true sense.

Although he still has a fake scholarly family background, isn't there a little bit of hope? The 80-year-old third uncle, Mr. Yan, would sit on a stone in front of the courtyard to bask in the sun in the morning when the weather was good. He would go home to rest as soon as it got dark. He did not dare to cause trouble to his children. Today, Yan Jiecheng has not yet retired. It's only a year or two away, and Yu Li, who has retired, is also taking care of her snack bar. The original restaurant has closed down long ago. Without a chef, opening a restaurant is not as good as opening a snack bar to make more money. It was probably very stressful to live on her pension. The snack bar was not too busy, which gave Yu Li time to come back and take care of him. He never expected that!He has three sons and one daughter. When he gets really old, he will have to rely on his daughter-in-law to take care of him. Life is like this. You can do excessive things, but you really can't say excessive things. You have to walk a few times on the road you agreed not to take. !

Her daughter Yan Jiedi is also retired, but things in her family are more chaotic. When there is work to do, the brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law are all very busy.

"The children at home..."

"Work to make money..."

When it comes to benefits, it becomes another term.

"There are many people in my family but little income, so the burden is a bit too heavy. If I could..."

"Your family is in trouble, isn't our family even more in trouble? Tell me..."

However, Yan Jiedi's parents-in-law are not fair and just people. They always hope that those who are in good conditions will help those who are in poor conditions. They are also afraid that they will have no money to take care of themselves when they are old. They are reluctant to pay for themselves. Isn't this how the conflict arises? ?

Yan Jiedi came back to complain to her father. The third uncle, Yan Laokou, listened happily and was unwilling to pay attention to it at the beginning. He didn't bother to care about other people's affairs. He listened too much and got impatient before telling his solution. Method.

"This has been the case since ancient times. Children are not as capable as their parents, so they will think about the things their parents have. What's the impact if they can't get them? Can they get rich if they get them? Is it really just a dream? Such brothers and sisters leave Stay far away, just have no grudges or grudges, no benefits, no burdens. Who should blame his children for not being well educated? They were all educated by their old couple. If the children are not good, the parents can be good. Where to go? Even though my son-in-law can't do it and doesn't have a good job, he can still behave well. If he's not smart, he can at least listen to other people's advice. You've retired and you only have one child. How can you live a good life? No matter how bad it is, how bad can it be? Live your life well. It’s not too early for you to get married and start a family. You are already retired and your children have just started working for a few years. Your income is not high. Help yourself when you have the opportunity. If you are a child, you won’t get involved in other matters easily. If your parents can’t explain the truth and still want to be partial, then leave them alone. Once they come up with the outcome of their argument, you’ll be done with it.”

"The child's father is a little reluctant. On the one hand, he is worried that life will be difficult for his parents in the future, and on the other hand, he also feels that his parents are too partial."

Yan Jiedi was a little embarrassed to explain. "What's there to be unwilling to do? It's their freedom to give it to whomever they want. How can there be any parents in the world who are not partial at all? It doesn't exist. Who has more children in the family doesn't make any difference? Of course, the difference can't be too big. When you get older, isn't it the same in our family? Your mother values ​​your eldest brother the most and thinks she can be relied upon. But can you see if your eldest brother can be relied on? He is not as good as your sister-in-law! Whether you can be relied on depends on more than just your character. , the most important thing is that he must have the ability to become the support of others. Your eldest brother obviously does not have that ability, and your sister-in-law is obviously much more capable than your eldest brother, right? There is nothing that can be done about it! What I like most is You, my only daughter! But no matter how much you like me, you still have to be on a par with other children? Otherwise, it’s not love, and it’s just causing trouble for you!"

"Aren't we the same from childhood to adulthood? Why don't I know I'm receiving special treatment?"

"Hmph, when you were a child, your family was in trouble. You children all had the same food. You had enough to eat, but could your brothers have enough to eat? You are such a heartless child!"

"Haha... If you didn't mention this, I really didn't notice it. I didn't even pay much attention to it."

"If you notice them all, how can your brothers not notice them? Wouldn't that cause you trouble? If you have the same amount, no one will be jealous. But you are small and you eat less. You need less. You eat the same There are too many, and they won’t be able to get enough to eat, but don’t you have enough to eat every time?”

"Oh..., this is..."

Only then did Yan Jiedi realize that this was why she never felt hungry. It turned out that her father was deliberately favoring her!
"Alas... you are such a confused daughter! This is the simplest plan. What else could I do?"

Looking at his precious daughter who finally understood, the third uncle Yan Laochao smiled and shook his head and sighed.

Yan Jiedi, who was happy, realized it later and asked a little worriedly.

"Then brothers don't have any objections?"

"When they were young, they didn't think much about it. When they do, they will grow up. They are all your brothers. No matter how unintelligent they are, they will not mindlessly argue with their only sister, right? Doesn't that seem like that? You’re so worthless! You’re a little older, and they all want face! I’m sorry to say it! Anyway, you are just a girl, and you don’t eat much to begin with. Besides, your mother and I both agreed, and they also Just pretend to be confused and don’t know! In this life, you have to pretend to be confused when you should, just like your current situation. Home is not a place for reasoning, so just pretend to be confused if you don’t want to! Otherwise, what can happen? "

"Haha..., home is really not a place that talks about reason, nor is it a place that talks about fairness and justice."

Yan Jiedi also understood a little at this time. The truth is good, but things cannot be done according to the truth, otherwise it would not be home. How could a place where business is done be a home?
(End of this chapter)