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Chapter 171

He forced him to be strong, and the breeze was blowing on the hills.

Under Jin Yuxiang's stormy offensive.

Li Banxia drank tea calmly, waiting for her to finish her words.

This sudden fighting power is beyond the reach of most people, let alone Qi Mingyue, who has a relatively introverted personality.

It would be awesome if she could talk at home!

Even Li Banxia seriously suspected that her father was in the same situation at home.

Saying whatever is wrong and doing whatever is not okay, just destroy it.

Sometimes it sucks, sometimes it feels good, and it keeps feeling bad the whole time!

It wasn't until several minutes later that Jin Yuxiang said she was tired and stopped, taking a sip of tea to moisten her throat.

I just feel dissatisfied.

His face was still full of dissatisfaction.

Li Banxia was not in a hurry, and waited until she calmed down a bit before speaking slowly: "Actually, it's very simple to change Yue Yue's unconfident character. Auntie, just give her more free space so that she can make her own choices. "

"Auntie, I have always been democratic. If you don't believe me, ask Yue Yue. I always let her choose!"

Jin Yuxiang's words made Li Banxia use a lot of perseverance to restrain the outburst of complaints.

It didn’t say that her democracy is still autocracy in nature...

What Li Banxia, ​​an outsider, could know in such a short period of time, Jin Yuxiang has not realized for so many years.

This is probably the so-called bystander, the authorities are confused.

Seeing that she really didn't know what the problem was.

Li Banxia said slowly: "Auntie, I have a question to ask you."

"Say it!"

Jin Yuxiang wanted to see what Li Banxia could say.

"Auntie, do you decide everything at home?"

"Yes." Jin Yuxiang was very confused: "Auntie just said that Yue Yue and her father are both people who have no independent opinions, so I can only help them decide the big and small things in the family."

"no."

After listening, Li Banxia shook his head and said: "It's not that they have no opinions, but that all their opinions have been rejected by Aunt Jin."

"impossible!!"

After hearing this, Jin Yuxiang subconsciously wanted to refute.

Li Banxia quickly interrupted: "Auntie, think about it carefully, just like when you ordered the food, she clearly ordered the moon, but while you denied her, you imposed your own will on her."

"That's why I was bothering her because she ordered something wrong. What did Auntie do wrong?"

"That's the problem, Aunt Kim."

Li Banxia had no choice but to explain: "Yue Yue is obviously very good. You see, she has never fallen out of the top five in the class since she started studying. This is much better than my brother He Ziqiu."

"But it's because of your constant suppression, auntie, that she forgot how good she really is, and she fell deeply into low self-esteem, thinking that she can't do anything well."

Li Banxia's words made Jin Yuxiang feel aggrieved.

"Ling Xiao, Yue Yue is my aunt's daughter. Why would I suppress her before I could love her? I did it for her own good."

Everything she did was for her daughter Qi Mingyue, and even for the whole family.

She obviously gave the most, but in the end she was blamed for suppressing her daughter and making her daughter feel inferior.

Anyone who can accept these words will feel aggrieved.

But Jin Yuxiang didn't notice how excited Qi Mingyue was when she heard these words.

Staring straight at Li Banxia.

After all these years, someone finally understood her and said what she had never dared to say!
Li Jianjian and He Ziqiu, on the other hand, did not dare to interrupt at all.

Li Jianjian couldn't get a word in.

He Ziqiu is a parent who knows that scores are paramount, and only Li Banxia, ​​who has always ranked first in grade, can catch their eye.

At this time, if they interrupt, they will be scolded, so they might as well just act like they are a member of the public.

The confrontation between Li Banxia and Jin Yuxiang continued. He knew that he could not convince her today, and it would be difficult for him to have such an opportunity in the future.

"Aunt Jin, I have never doubted your kindness to the moon."

When he said this, Li Banxia was actually quite complicated inside.

Parents always do too many things that burden their children in the name of "I am doing this for your own good."

Although it is undeniable that their intentions are good, the children are really tired!

Suppressive love will only be counterproductive.

Get these thoughts out of your head for a moment.

Li Banxia then said: "It's just that you never really understand whether what you pay for is what the moon wants."

"Yue Yue is just your daughter, not your aunt. She is almost an adult and has her own ideas and opinions."

"Before you asked, you relied on your status as a mother to make a decision for your daughter. So let me ask: Is this Moon's life or Auntie's life?"

Hearing this, Jin Yuxiang was stunned on the spot for a moment, not knowing how to refute.

As a parent, she always hopes that the moon will avoid detours, so she controls her and protects her.

Unexpectedly, in the eyes of others, she turned out to be a very controlling mother!
"Okay, even if she is a puppet and her daily life, work and study, marriage and children all follow your instructions, then, aunt, can you stay with her for the rest of her life?"

"How should the moon behave after a hundred years? Will she obey her husband when she gets married, and will she obey her son after her husband dies?"

In fact, the topic has long been distorted without even realizing it.

It was just that Li Banxia said that she was not happy when she was high, so she poured out all her thoughts to Jin Yuxiang.

Although she is really a domineering and controlling mother.

But strictly speaking, it was Qi Mingyue and his daughter who got used to it.

If they had bravely expressed their opinions earlier, Jin Yuxiang would not have become like this.

Therefore, Li Banxia could only do his best and obey fate.

Don't expect Jin Yuxiang to change all of a sudden, a little change is enough.

"Aunt Jin, I understand your desire for your daughter to become a phoenix, and I admire you for always caring about everything about your daughter. But in addition to control, parental love also requires letting go..."

"After all, we are the ones walking the road in the future."

As Li Banxia finished speaking, the entire audience was silent.

Li Jianjian really wanted to applaud his brother.

However, He Ziqiu, who had sharp eyesight and quick hands, stopped this blind kid.

And this awkward atmosphere didn't disappear until the waiter came to serve the food.

But during this meal, except for Li Banxia, ​​Qi Mingyue and Jin Yuxiang, none of them had much appetite. They concentrated on the food and kept thinking about the conversation just now...

Because there were classes in the afternoon, they had to go back to school after eating.

Looking at Jin Yuxiang who was in a trance downstairs, Li Banxia asked a few people to leave first, and then stepped forward to apologize: "I'm sorry, Aunt Jin, I just talked too much, please forgive me."

"fine."

Jin Yuxiang forced a smile and said, "Auntie is not such a stingy person."

Since ancient times, good advice is unpleasant to the ear and beneficial to action; good medicine is bitter to the mouth and beneficial to disease.

The truth is always hard to hear.

Li Banxia also knew that she still had some grudges.

So after apologizing, he wanted to leave first, but unexpectedly, Jin Yuxiang shouted to stop him.

"Aunt Jin, is there anything else?" After a few seconds of silence, she slowly and hesitantly said: "Ling Xiao, what should Auntie do for the sake of the moon..."

These words made Li Banxia somewhat relieved.

Being able to ask such a question proves that Jin Yuxiang listened more or less to what he just said.

However, he also knew that the golden sign of being the first in the grade had weight.

"Auntie, just don't deny the moon so often. She is indeed not the best at studying, but she is not worse than others."

"Be more sure of her. When you let her choose, don't interfere and really listen to her choice."

Jin Yuxiang pondered.

The method is very simple.

But she didn't understand why Li Banxia pointed it out so emphatically...

Li Banxia, ​​who returned to the main force, still apologized to Qi Mingyue.

No matter how much you speak for her, the person you just criticized was her mother, so you still need to have this etiquette.

After hearing this, Qi Mingyue hurriedly waved her hands and said: "You don't need to apologize to me. Instead, I should say thank you to you..."

"Thank you for telling me what I have always wanted to say and dare not say..."

"you are welcome."

Li Banxia waved his hand and said: "We are all friends, as long as you don't blame me for doing things for you."

After hesitating for a while, he still couldn't help but say: "Moon, don't blame me for talking too much. If you have opinions that you want to insist on in the future, you must make your position clear to Aunt Jin."

"Otherwise, she will still think that she is doing everything right, which is not a good thing for you or her."

To be honest, Li Banxia felt that Qi Mingyue looked like a good girl on the outside, but there was still a vicious dog inside.

Maybe this little rebellion is her unique way of relieving stress in an authoritarian environment.

After all, being suppressed for a long time is really too depressing and painful.

After listening, Qi Mingyue thought for a long time before nodding with difficulty.

For a moment, she wanted to rebel against the uncrowned king of the family, but fear still took over.

But she also listened to what Li Banxia said today.

In the final analysis, this matter is still her own business, and Li Banxia can do her best to help her.

If you dare not make changes, it will be useless no matter how much others try to help.

Then Qi Mingyue's brain circuit didn't know what happened.

Suddenly some embarrassing pictures emerged.

Blushing, she asked a little shyly: "Ling Xiao... you... why do you know me so well..."

Originally, she wanted to take this opportunity to ask Li Banxia if he paid close attention to her.

But Li Jianjian, a child with no eyesight, jumped out first and said carelessly: "Hey, my brother is well-known as a friend of women in our community..."

Hearing the words "Friends of Women", Li Banxia reflexively gave Li Jianjian a knife.

"Ouch! Brother, why did you hit me!"

Li Jianjian touched the head that was knocked and said angrily: "If I'm beaten silly, will you marry me?!"

"marry you?!"

Li Banxia snorted coldly: "Not sending you to humane destruction is already the greatest kindness to you."

Listening to these gloomy words, Li Jianjian knew that he had said the wrong thing and made this brother feel unhappy.

His body unconsciously leaned in the direction of He Ziqiu.

I was very worried that her brother couldn't control his emotions for a moment, so her sacrifice would be very humiliating.

Qi Mingyue, who was interrupted by the question, couldn't help but cast a resentful look at her best friend.

She was just a little bit closer to getting the answer she wanted!
Looking at Li Jianjian who had just been beaten.

Qi Mingyue admitted that she felt very happy at that time!

It was as if there was a little devil dancing and celebrating in his heart: "Well done Ling Xiao! Hit harder! Don't be polite to me!!"

……

The next evening.

Li Banxia and He Ziqiu planned to meet Li Jianjian and Qi Mingyue, and then go to the milk tea shop to review their homework.

But all the way on the road, I saw Qi Mingyue smiling happily.

That expression is like the joy that the heart is too happy to hold honey, all flooded to the face.

After getting closer, Li Banxia asked curiously: "Moon, is there anything good you can do?"

When Qi Mingyue saw the crowd gathered, she could no longer restrain her desire to share, and told everyone the reason: "I'm telling you, yesterday my mother..."

Qi Mingyue's father was away on a business trip yesterday.

Jin Yuxiang happened to be in a bad mood and had no desire to cook.

We decided to have dinner outside.

While shopping after dinner, Qi Mingyue took a fancy to a sweatshirt.

Jin Yuxiang had never treated Qi Mingyue materially badly. After seeing her thoughts, she agreed without thinking.

No one understood what was special about the process.

Seeing the confusion on the faces of Li Banxia and the others, Li Mingyue explained excitedly: "The point is not to buy clothes, but that my mother doesn't object to the color of clothes I choose this time!!"

It turns out that when it comes to choosing clothes and what colors to wear, Jin Yuxiang decides directly regardless of Qi Mingyue's opinion.

Last night when she picked out the white model.

Jin Yuxiang wanted to object out loud, but as she spoke, her mind couldn't help but think of what Li Banxia said to her at noon.

Only then did Jin Yuxiang realize that she seemed to have been denying her daughter.

He looked at her timidly standing in front of him and asking if he could buy a sweatshirt in this color.

Jin Yuxiang truly realized that she was too harsh on her daughter.

Then he touched her head and said distressedly: "Mom will buy you whatever color you like."

And seeing the disbelief on Qi Mingyue's face after she said this, she couldn't help but feel a little more guilty for her daughter.

After hearing the cause and effect, Li Banxia chuckled and said: "Congratulations, Moon~"

Although it was just a small matter like buying clothes, it showed that Jin Yuxiang realized the problem and began to change little by little.

After Qi Mingyue heard this, her face flushed happily and she thanked Li Banxia.

In the eyes of others, buying clothes and choosing colors is a normal thing, but to her it means something special.

This was the first time in many years that Jin Yuxiang truly listened to her own opinions and did not deny herself.

After hearing this, Li Jianjian was very angry that Qi Mingyue had not told him the great news until after school.

But my heart is still very happy for this good friend.

So he and He Ziqiu congratulated each other in unison.

Hearing their blessings, Qi Mingyue immediately stood in front of them with arrogance.

He patted the pair of little A's and said proudly: "To celebrate my upcoming happy life, I've made today's milk tea, so don't be polite to me!"

When Li Jianjian heard that there was free milk tea, the grievance in his heart disappeared instantly.

He immediately gave Qi Mingyue a bear hug and said happily: "Long live the moon!!!"

Regarding Li Jianjian's interesting approach, Qi Mingyue touched her pot head and nodded with satisfaction.

Li Banxia was not polite and said with a smile: "It cost you money."

This is all due to his contribution. It’s not too much to drink a cup of milk tea~
(End of this chapter)