Cultivation Department Shura Field

Chapter 43 Ordinary Road
As Song Xingye said, the learning experience she shared, in addition to completing homework carefully and attending class, was a book of wrong questions.Some parents took the initiative to ask if they needed extracurricular tutoring classes, but the girl just shook her head and said she had not signed up.

After Song Xingye finished speaking, it was Xu Zhe's turn.

He walked to the podium and looked at the group of adults below who were listening carefully, feeling a little stressed.

Especially, one of them is his father.

Xu Guowei was sitting in his seat at this time, in the middle of the first row, closest to the lectern.Next to his father was Song Xingye's mother.

Xu Zhe didn't look at his father's face anymore, but deliberately looked away.After thinking for a while, he said:
"First of all, I want to make a disclaimer, that is, the learning experience I am going to talk about may not be suitable for everyone. I would like to say that the most important thing in learning is motivation and habits. Motivation, that is, why should you study? This is not a sentence You can get away with it if you just pretend. Everyone’s interests and hobbies are different, and their long-term life plans are also different. For every student, the most important core question is what kind of person do you want to be in the future - if To have a clear thinking on this core question, whether it is right or wrong, we must first have a self-formed answer, and then we can generate motivation.”

"Study is for yourself, to find a good job in the future? Parents always say this, but students have no specific concept of this kind of thing. How to support themselves and how to adapt to this society, students have no concept . And the fact before us is that you may not succeed if you work hard, but you will definitely feel comfortable if you don’t work hard.”

When Xu Zhe said this, a few parents in the audience laughed out loud, but more parents still frowned.

"So as I said, the most important thing is to let students form a kind of motivation and a kind of conscious awareness. Because without consciousness, no matter how much you supervise, you will get half the result with twice the result. And when it comes to finding motivation, everyone's The situation is very different.”

At this time, a parent asked: "Then where do you get your motivation?"

Xu Zhe felt a little pressure.He realized that the answer he gave at this moment might influence some parents, thus deciding what kind of sermon some students would hear tonight.

Of course, he also knew very well that in fact most of the preaching was meaningless.

Xu Zhe replied: "It means you have something you really want to learn. I'm not talking about the knowledge in junior high school textbooks, but where you want to develop in the future. I want to learn programming and computer-related majors in the future, so I will make a long-term plan. But to be honest, it is useless even if you go home and urge your children to choose a major, because my interest arises spontaneously, not from my parents. This is why I started Having said that, my experience may not be suitable for everyone, and perhaps it may not be suitable for most students.”

Another parent couldn't help but ask: "Why computers? Do you think there is a future in this field, or are you interested in it?"

"There are two reasons. I think that after learning computer science, I may have more opportunities. On the other hand, I am very interested in programming. Think about it, use code to describe a kind of logic, and use logic to construct A system that can run automatically and realize your vision will give you a feeling of going from knowing the world to changing the world. Of course, as the same saying goes, interest is the best teacher. If you, the parents here, you If you don't have any interest in the concept of "using logic to change the world", then you can't hope to impose this interest on your children. It's not just about coding. If you want to make children recognize the meaning of learning, you can only rely on beating and scolding. , urging, it’s all useless.”

Having said this, Xu Zhe paused for a moment and observed the expressions of the parents.Then he decided to continue.

"Interests need to be cultivated, and motivation needs to be found by oneself. So what else can parents do? Supervision. Parents' supervision is actually useful, that is, to help students develop good habits. In this regard, what classmate Song Xingye said just now is very good... …”

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Parent meeting is over.

However, many parents did not leave immediately. Instead, they stayed in the classroom and discussed with each other how to educate their children.Among them, Xu Zhe's father and Song Xingye's mother were naturally the core surrounded by other parents.

"How did you educate him?" an old man asked, "The way that child speaks on stage, he doesn't look like a junior high school student at all. He feels so mature!"

Another eldest sister echoed: "It's not a question of whether he is conscious or unconscious. Your child seems to have thought everything through, and speaks in one way. If it weren't for the fact that he still looks like a child, he just looks like a child. Listening to what he said, I thought it was the teacher talking!"

"Haha, I don't know much about this. I usually don't control him strictly." Xu Guowei said with a smile. "Free range?"

"Yes, they are basically free-range."

"That's really worry-free, it's great..."

Just like that, Xu Guowei couldn't help but feel a little carried away amidst the envious comments.He's quite a big man, but he never closes his mouth.

The parents around gradually dispersed.

The lady sitting next to me suddenly said: "Xu Zhe, this kid, is indeed not an easy person. I heard my daughter say that before school started, when you were traveling, he seemed to have saved a carload of people?"

Xu Guowei was startled: "Did your daughter tell you?"

"Yes, my daughter Song Xingye is at the same table as your son."

"Oh, that's it. I'm sorry I don't know yet. What is your name?"

"My name is Li Caixia. Is what my daughter said true?"

"It's true, he..." Xu Guowei was a little stuck for a moment, "I still haven't figured out how this kid did it. He was sitting with us, in the middle of the car, some distance away from the driver. But the driver suddenly When he had a myocardial infarction, he ran over immediately. No one else noticed anything unusual about the driver, and he had already stepped on the brakes."

Song Xingye's mother, Ms. Li Caixia, nodded thoughtfully.

At this moment, Xu Zhe came over and slapped his palm on the table: "Dad, it's time for us to go."

Xu Guowei: "Huh?"

"Everything is done, let's go," Xu Zhe looked at the short-haired aunt next to him and said with a smile, "Hello, Auntie, Song Xingye was just talking to the teacher about the class cadre arrangements for the next semester. Do you want her to be the class president? "

Aunt Li: "The teacher wants her to be the monitor?"

Xu Zhe smiled and said: "She is a little hesitant. Otherwise, would you like to talk to them too?"

He deliberately lured Song Xingye's mother away just to prevent his father from talking too much, and then told him everything about Computer City.Xu Zhe didn't want to reveal that he had bought a computer now.

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　Thanks to classmates [Why Are You Drinking Alone Here] and [I Am a Saint] for their tips!

　　
　
(End of this chapter)