The leisurely life of rebirth

A group of people walked around the altar.

Looking at the potholes on the ground, he couldn't help but laugh and said, "Tell me, should the managers of the Temple of Earth thank Tiesheng, or should they blame Tiesheng?"

"Haha, inexplicably, it has attracted a lot of attention. The roads have also been renovated and there are many more disabled passages." Yu Hua also laughed along with him.

In this case, it's a matter of opinion. I must have agreed in person that I would serve the masses.

But privately, that's not necessarily the case. Maybe it's Tie Sheng's fault for being nosy.

That is to say, there are not many bad things about Ditan, and most of them are objective descriptions.

"Well, people today are still very grateful to the first batch of parks that had funds to repair them." Shi Lan also said while holding back a smile.

"By the way, Teacher Zhou, the money you gave my sister-in-law last time was put into the fund. She has enough money now and her life is very good. Thank you very much."

Zhou You also knows that the probability is this result, he has such a personality.

It's not that he doesn't belong to the same family, he doesn't have such a character, and he won't be with Tie Sheng, otherwise, what would they do for him?
It turns out that he didn't receive a lot of help when he was still alive. It would not be in line with Tiesheng's and his own style to leave others with a reason to talk.

"Hey, Teacher Zhou, if you give it to me, maybe I'll take it." Yu Hua wanted to resolve Zhou You's embarrassment and make fun of himself.

Zhou You had already prepared for it and didn't care at all: "In life, there are not many material needs, and there will be a lot less anxiety. That's why Tiesheng can write such words."

"Yes, but my brother sometimes said that he would rather be an ordinary person, someone who can walk and jump." Shi Lan didn't understand many things when he was a child. As he grew up, he also understood how strong his brother was. , if you were yourself, you might not have such a good mentality, and you might not be able to come out.

Winter is coming, and all things are hiding in caves and gathering strength to cope with the cold winter.

People are the same, they have their ups and downs.

Be low-key at the peak and accumulate strength.

Even when you are dormant at the trough, you must also accumulate strength.

"In the future, if you have any difficulties, you can come to me. I can't help you with big things, but you can still do small things." The three of them did not meet for dinner. The trip took an evening flight, and they also had to see their children.

"Okay, if my brother knows, he will definitely be very happy. He will have another close friend." Shi Lan said with a smile.

Yu Hua stayed silent for a while, and then said: "Hey, it's just a little bit close, just a little bit close, we can see it."

Zhou You couldn't help but patted him on the shoulder: "How can everything go as planned?"

"But, people are always greedy!" Yu Hua hit the mark.

Yes, people are always greedy, so they keep running around in the world.

You are running around now, just because you are greedy and you are causing trouble, showing mercy everywhere, and sowing seeds everywhere. You want to be tall, short, fat, thin, beautiful, and have a warm family.

Such things only happen in dreams.

Maybe, maybe, I am really in a dream, haha, just wandering around and thinking nonsense.

Even if it is just a dream, let it continue to happen.

On the plane, Zhou You held a book "Status Anxiety" in English.

Author Alain de Botton, published in the UK in 2004.

As soon as it was published, it became popular in Britain and the United States and was translated into many languages. Unfortunately, it has not yet been seen in China. That is to say, my travel skills are okay. I am still very happy to read the original work.

This book is, how should I put it, very interesting.

Many of the ideas are not very novel, but most of them are to the point, with frequent golden sentences, and they can also trigger people's profound thinking.

The book integrates philosophical wisdom into daily life. It begins by mentioning the source of everyone's anxiety and why so many successful people are still anxious, unhappy, and depressed.

The opening topic: The level of status determines the warmth and warmth of human relationships.

Successful people also worry that one day people will leave and their tea will be cold.

How to reduce anxiety, a little joke: the best way to feel successful is to choose someone who is slightly inferior to yourself as a friend...

Traveling around is about watching, having fun, and thinking at the same time.

As expected of a great writer, he can make such a boring thing so interesting. No wonder it has been selling well for so long.

Human nature is really the same all over the world.

That is to say, Zhou You has read the translated work before, and the translation level is also very high. Otherwise, it would be really difficult for Zhou You to read it, and it still involves a lot of professional knowledge.

Reading this book has this benefit.

Watching, watching, I fell asleep. I fell asleep peacefully in relief, and the pressure was gone. Any anxiety, pressure, etc. were all given by myself.

Let go of factors such as identity, status, snobbery, and excessive expectations.

A person can live a wonderful life, and can also resolve it through philosophy, religion, history, art, etc.

Only when you calm down can you feel the beauty of life and your own breathing.

At the end of the book, a point was also mentioned.

That is: there will be some people in every era who are unable or unwilling to meekly obey the mainstream concepts of upper-class status, but they are entitled to better titles rather than being cruelly called losers or minor characters.

He provides many persuasive and soothing examples to remind us that there is not just one way to prove success in life.

This is also the final ending of those Ming Dynasty books.

I don’t know if Mingyue had read this book back then, or if the translator also thought the ending was very good.

Anyway, smart people will come to roughly the same conclusion in the end.

In this world, there are no standard answers to life.

Every time I fly, it’s a bit embarrassing. Only one person travels with me in the headache class, and the rest travel in the economy class. It’s not that I can’t afford to sit there, it’s Li Houliang’s decision.

Being a person is to facilitate care, just in case.

The front and back are very close, so there is no need to crowd them all together.

The people next to me were a little surprised at first when they saw him reading a book while traveling, because no one has done it before on a plane. Nowadays, you are not allowed to play with your mobile phone. It is also very common to pick up a book when you are bored.

I was a little surprised to see that it was an English book.

But I was surprised for a while. This was an international flight. It was normal to read English books. The buddy next to me fell asleep after reading for a while. He flipped through the pages quite quickly. He read back and forth and had no idea what he was reading. .

However, this guy became curious. If he hadn't been bad at English, he would have taken it and have a look. What kind of book is it that has such a good hypnotic effect?

Wait until tomorrow and buy a copy for yourself.

Not to mention, reading books while traveling on the plane really has the purpose of hypnosis.

Read for half an hour or ten minutes before going to bed. Don’t sleep too well.

As we approach our arrival,
The buddy next to me couldn't help it anymore: "Hello, my name is Huang Longbiao, and I am currently working in Moscow."

Huang Longbiao took the initiative to speak, and he knew the routine better. Anyway, the long distance was long and boring, so it was a good idea to chat with someone and broaden his horizons. "Hello, my name is Zhou You, I'm here to play." Zhou You simply said, you can't just say that you are here to see the children when you meet someone.

Huang Longbiao was a little surprised. In this season, not to mention tourists, locals rarely went out to play. It was too cold.

"Brother, there's nothing fun this season. It's okay to come here to escape the heat in the summer." Huang Longbiao looked puzzled, then pointed to the book on Zhou You's body, "What book is this?"

Before Zhou You had time to explain, he didn't know that this guy changed the topic again, which was considered a leap of thought.

"It's a foreign language book. Please read it. It's very interesting." Zhou You handed it over.

Huang Longbiao finally got what he wanted. He took it, looked at the cover, and flipped through the contents: "Brother, my English is not good, but my Russian is okay. Is there a Russian version of this book?"

Zhou You saw the anxious look on this guy's face, and thought he had heard of this book because of the cover, but he didn't know it was a decent product.

It's also fun, and this kind of character is not bad.

"The Chinese title is "Status Anxiety". I'm not sure about the Russian version. You can ask other people." Zhou You really doesn't know if it has been published in Russia.

Huang Debiao's personality does not match his age. He is already over forty, but he is still curious about many things and likes to try new things. This is why his mentality has always been young.

"Okay, I'll ask when the time comes. I'm currently working at the Overseas Chinese Federation in Moscow, and I also have some small businesses of my own. After I get off the plane, can I treat you to a meal?"

Maybe in a foreign country, the traditional team-building mentality is still there and is indeed needed. However, I don’t plan to stay for too long during this trip, just two days.

"Thank you, Mr. Huang. This visit is relatively short. I will come often in the future and I will treat you to dinner." Zhou You said very politely, and then the two of them exchanged contact information. They will definitely have to deal with each other in the future.

After getting off the plane, Huang Debiao slowed down a little and waited for his colleagues.

I saw a group of people surrounding Zhou You. It seemed that they were all members of his entourage, and they were all vaguely included.

I have seen many people like this when traveling in Moscow. I never expected that someone like this could happen to me just by talking to someone on the plane.

Now he thinks back to why the tall man next to him hasn't slept. He thought he wasn't sleepy. Now he realizes that he should be in charge of security.

Subconsciously he touched his chin: Interesting.

Zhou You and the others got off the plane and saw a girl standing there holding a doll.

He quickly ran over and said, "It's so cold, why don't you just stay at home and take the kids out?"

As he spoke, he stretched out his hands and looked at the child's reaction. Unexpectedly, Little Lexue didn't recognize the child at all. She waved her two little fleshy arms and crawled into Zhou You's arms.

"Oh, my daughter still kisses me, and daddy kisses me." Zhou You was very happy. He had been worried that the child would forget about him or not hug him if he didn't see him for a long time.

Unexpectedly, the child still recognized him.

Yin Na was also very happy to see the harmony between father and daughter: "Every time a toy comes, I tell her that it was given by dad, and I often show her your videos. Now it seems that the education has been very successful."

Zhou You kissed the child on the face, and then kissed Yin Na: "You are indispensable!"

"Ah, ah" Little Lexue waved her little hand and touched Zhou You's hair, wondering if she had found a new toy. She was giggling while playing.

"Hey, be gentle, be gentle, I'm your biological father."

Zhou You's hair has grown a little recently, and Little Lexue is not grabbing her mother's hair as smoothly, and is trying hard.

Despite the joyful scream, it actually doesn't hurt at all, and the little fleshy hand feels so soft and cute.

"Well, my daughter is so pretty." Zhou You felt heavy in her arms.

"Do you have 20 pounds?"

"It's almost there. Look, the big eyes are almost squeezed out by the flesh on the face." Yin Na was a little disgusted. When she was just born, she still had big watery eyes.

Who knows, the more he can eat, the more breast milk he produces, otherwise it might not be enough for this little guy.

"Let's go home quickly. It's quite warm at the airport. Did they start the vehicles in advance?" Zhou You said.

After having children, I became more attentive. I used to pay more attention to the issue of whether the car is hot or not.

As soon as winter comes here, almost all vehicles will be equipped with snow chains or snow tires.

There are also people plowing snow in Moscow, but they are not as efficient as domestic public services, and snow days are too frequent.

Only public roads and expressways can be guaranteed, and the remaining corners are really not enough.

When we got home, Maria was waiting at the door.

Zhou You put the child down and gave him a kiss: "Merry Christmas!"

Then he divided the gifts among everyone.

Little Lexue held on to her gift, which was a Barbie doll half her size with very fluffy hair.

I don’t know if I have found the joy of pulling hair. I hold the doll with one hand and dig around on the head with the other hand.

Have a great time!

Zhou You also changed into home clothes, took off the thick baggage on his body, and felt much more comfortable.

"How many days do you plan to stay?" Yin Na hugged Zhou You with a look of dependence on her face.

"Look, it can only be a week at most. There are a lot of things at the end of the year!" Zhou You originally only wanted to stay for two days.

But when I saw Xiao Lexue, I couldn't help it and always wanted to stay a few more days!
At this point, he suddenly picked up Xiao Lexue again, opened her mouth, and said, "Sure enough, teeth have grown. People say that babies will grow teeth in 6 months, which means that my child's development is quite good!" "

When Yin Na saw this, she couldn't help but hit him: "Your sudden surprise made Lexue cry."

Little Lexue was having fun when she was suddenly picked up and her mouth was opened. How could she feel comfortable?

Open your mouth and get ready to howl.

"wow, wow"

It stopped barking after just two calls.

It turned out that Zhou You opened his arms and lifted her up high.

I didn't dare to throw it up for fear of scaring the children.

Just keep holding it up.

Little Lexue was suddenly lifted high, and the world was different.

I feel curious when I look at many things. This hand is touching the wall, and that hand is playing with the pendant.

Anyway, as long as you don't cry, you'll be fine with traveling around.

Zhou You didn't know if he was scared of little Lexue crying when he was just born. He was woken up by crying when he fell asleep in the middle of the night.

Now there are still sequelae! (End of chapter)