The fat peasant girl wants to counterattack

Chapter 19 The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
She neither flatters others nor makes others take advantage of her. She lives up to her own conscience and has a clear conscience, and she never treats her daughter-in-law harshly.

The daughter-in-law who marries into her family must be diligent and work hard. Her family does not want a lazy mother-in-law. She never lacks food and clothing for her daughter-in-law. Her daughter-in-law eats whatever her son eats.

Unlike some families who treat their daughters-in-law harshly when it comes to food and clothing, they feel that a woman's family does not need to be well-fed, and that a woman should serve her son and the whole family.

She has never had that kind of thought. She is a woman and has a daughter. She cannot treat her daughter-in-law as her own daughter. She will never be a bitch.

When the two daughters-in-law were pregnant, they also did some laundry and cooking work. They were not allowed to do the work in the fields, but they could not be idle. To serve the ancestors, if you can't do heavy things, just do light things. As long as it doesn't hurt your body, and you move more, you can be pregnant. It's rare for someone to just lie in bed and not move when they're pregnant.

When her daughter-in-law was in confinement, she also served her wholeheartedly. Women are the most delicate during confinement. If they are not taken care of well, they will suffer from problems for life.

Women do not embarrass women, and they do not work at this time. When the daughter-in-law was in confinement, the old lady repeatedly gave orders not to allow her to work, but also to eat and drink well. She also told her son not to be angry with her.

Excessive qi is harmful to the body, and anger during confinement can easily cause problems. The most direct example is that when a woman is angry, she will have less milk, and the child will not be able to eat enough. Some people may even die from hemorrhagic collapse due to qi.

Precisely because of the old lady's thoughtfulness, even though both daughters-in-law had given birth to children, there was nothing wrong with them.

Women who have given birth in the village have all suffered from some problems. Some have back pain, some have chills, some have leg pain, arms and legs, and all kinds of problems.

The two daughters-in-law knew in their hearts how good their mother-in-law was, and they were very satisfied with it. Even though her mother-in-law favored her sister-in-law, they didn't think it was a problem. Her mother-in-law had already treated them very well, and they couldn't find anything better even if they held up a lantern.

They were not born by their mother-in-law in the first place, so they cannot compare with their sister-in-law.

Moreover, after marrying into this family, they had no worries about food and clothing. Their mother-in-law never did anything short of them. Not to mention how good they were to eat, at least they had enough to take care of. The man they married was also knowledgeable, hardworking and capable. What do women want in this life? , being able to live a stable life is a blessing gained from cultivation in the previous life.

They are all daughters of good families. When they were girls at home, they were good at working. They were used to doing the work, otherwise their mother-in-law would not have made the decision to hire them.

When you get married, your parents also tell you to be filial to your parents-in-law and live in harmony with your husband's family.

As a newlywed, I feel uneasy and full of yearning for the future.

Although my mother-in-law is fierce, she is not evil-minded at first glance.

After you get married, there is endless work to do every day, but where can you not work? When you were not married, you also had to work in front of your parents. Landlords do not support idle people, let alone a family like theirs. Working is so normal. If you don’t work, where will food and clothing come from? Are you waiting to fall from the sky?As long as you have hands and feet and are more diligent, no one will starve to death.

They never complain about being tired from work, their mother-in-law treats them well, and they are filial to her mother-in-law. Everything is mutual, and people change people's hearts, as it should be.

Although my mother-in-law is a well-known shrew in the village, she is also known to treat her daughter-in-law well.

Now the third brother Yue Mingxuan is very popular in Shiliba Village. There were many girls who wanted to marry him before. After the third brother was admitted to Tongsheng, many people were asking around.

When I go back to my natal home, many of my relatives come to inquire about it, and other families in their natal village also come to inquire.

As a result, they acted like thieves every time they returned to their parents' home, for fear of being seen and asking about their third brother again.

They didn't dare to tell the outside world, nor did they dare to agree to anything casually. The third brother's marriage must be decided by the parents-in-law.

The conditions of the husband's family are considered good among those in the ten miles and eight villages. The third brother is a good student and a good student. He has no worries about finding a good marriage. The future third brother and sister will never be a country girl.

The third brother is 16 years old this year. My mother-in-law has not discussed the marriage until now. She probably has to wait until the third brother is admitted as a scholar.It is a good thing that the third brother is studying and making progress, and they, as sisters-in-law, feel honored and proud every time they go back to their parents' home.

Even to the rich families in the town, I don't feel inferior. What's wrong with you being rich? I still have a child in my family. I will be a scholar in the future.

Since they got married, they have been not only kind to their younger sister, but also to their third brother.

Especially the third brother, who is polite and well-mannered. Although he is a scholar, he still goes to the fields when the farm is busy. He respects his brother and sister-in-law, loves his nephew, and teaches the children at home to read when he has time. Therefore, the children in the family are more or less literate and can read. Counting, this is not common in the village.

In his spare time, he would also copy books and sell them to bookstores to supplement his family income.

If it hadn't been for so many things, the third brother would have been admitted to the Tongsheng examination long ago. The third brother has a solid foundation and his grades in the academy are almost always first.

Who can not like such a brother-in-law?

Knowing that the third brother loves to be clean, they clean the third brother's house spotlessly every day, which makes him feel better when he is studying.

Every time I go back to my parents' home, my parents say that I have fallen into a nest of blessings, and they tell me to cherish my blessings and never be disobedient or unfilial.

A family like my husband's family is not only well-off, but also has sufficient stamina. The future will only be better. I just hope that my family will be prosperous in the future and I won't dislike myself. How can I dare to be disobedient and unfilial and be rejected by my husband's family?

Didn't you notice that there was someone waiting outside? Every time the man in the family went out, some older girls and younger wives rushed to talk to him, which was really embarrassing.

Fortunately, the man knew how to take a break, so he just said yes and left quickly, as if he was afraid of being taken advantage of.

They didn't even need to take action themselves, potential enemies were eliminated, how could people be unhappy.

If there is a little regret, it is that they have not given birth to a daughter so far. Mother-in-law cherishes daughters so much that they are eager to give birth to a granddaughter for her mother-in-law, but all the babies are brats.

It seems that the man has to work harder at night. No matter how hard he works, I don't believe he won't be able to give birth to a girl.

Yue Zhiqiang, who was chopping firewood in the yard, and Yue Zhiwei, who was in the town, suddenly shivered together.

It's almost summer now, and it's not cold at all. Why are I still shivering?

Have you been working too hard recently and been too weak?

It seems like I have to go to bed early in the evening, just sleep and have a good rest.

Wrap up tightly in quilt and stay away from your wife, the kind that won’t even pull her away.

When he went to bed, he closed his eyes and fell asleep. His wife wouldn't wake up even if she called her, so she didn't believe what she could do to him.

Alas, who knows? My daughter-in-law misses her daughter like crazy.

I’m tired and I don’t want a daughter anymore. What should I do?

(End of this chapter)