After the whole family was swept away, I lay down flat

Chapter 560 Major Events in Life
Since Wu Qiong was born, most of the time he only needs to follow the arrangements of his mother, Mrs. Gui, and never needs to think about anything on his own.

Even though she had recently begun to have her own ideas, disagreed with her mother's style, and even dared to join her cousin in resisting her mother's decision, she never thought that she still needed to think about major events in her future life.

Marriage or something, someone will always arrange it for her. Either the mother is Mrs. Gui, the Duke of Zhen and his wife, or maybe the cousin Wu Ke. Anyway, it won't be her. Since she couldn't make up her mind, why should she think too much? As long as the marriage is beneficial to the Wu family, she will tell herself to accept it for anyone.

But Haitang's words made her realize that she needed to think about these issues, and maybe help make decisions. The mother is no longer reliable; the Duke of Zhen and his wife have more serious things to do, and it is impossible for her to think about her everywhere; and the cousin is still a young man, and it is hard enough just to study hard. Does she have to put her head down? All the responsibilities for revitalizing the family were put on him, and all he had to do was follow the arrangements, marry a good man, and then stay in the house and live a leisurely life, but didn't need to worry about anything?

Even if she doesn't plan to contribute to the Wu family in the future, and just wants to stay at home and look after her husband and raise her children, and expects her husband to help the Wu family, there are certain things to do in how to "take care of her husband and raise her children". She used to think about nothing, but now she can no longer be lazy.

She and her cousin were the only ones left in the Wu family. Not only does her cousin have to fight for the family, but she also has to fulfill her responsibilities!
Wu Qiong fell silent and was thinking deeply. It was impossible for her to participate in any discussion of gossip and anecdotes, and it would be difficult to continue this small gathering today. Zhou Huajun tried to use a small matter at home as a topic. After mentioning it several times but failing to get everyone talking, he said angrily: "It's getting late, why don't we break up? Let's get together another day."

Zhou Xuejun nodded in agreement and looked at Haitang with a guilty look: "Sister Hai, I'm so sorry. I didn't make good arrangements for today..."

Haitang smiled and said: "Don't say that, I had a lot of fun today. The osmanthus flowers in the yard are blooming well, and the snacks are even more delicious."

Zhou Xuejun suddenly laughed: "I asked the girls to make a lot of snacks. Since Sister Hai likes it, how about bringing more back?" After saying that, he jumped off the chair and ran to ask the girls to fill the heart boxes.

The little party ended here. Wu Qiong was full of thoughts and looked worried. However, she has had this expression for the past few days, and others didn't think much of it. Zhou Huajun also held her hand and advised her not to worry about Mrs. Gui's condition. He also mentioned that there was another famous doctor in the city who had not been invited to the Zhenguo Palace who might be able to cure Mrs. Gui. Wu Qiong could only smile bitterly. She felt that no matter which famous doctor entered the government now, they would not be able to cure her mother - as long as Mrs. Gui refused to take medicine and did not follow the doctor's instructions, it would be useless no matter how good the doctor's medical skills were.

Haitang said goodbye to them, and Zhou Xuejun took her out personally with a basket filled with snacks. But as soon as she reached the center of the yard and before she could get out of the hospital, Haitang heard Zhou Xuejun ask: "Sister Hai, you advised Sister Wu to think carefully about the future. In fact, you have something in mind, right? Why can't you tell Sister Wu directly? ?”

Haitang was stunned for a moment, then couldn't help laughing.

Why do these little girls always like to make sudden noises to scare people? Wu Qiong was like this just now, and now Zhou Xuejun wants to do it too. Do they have to have a heart-to-heart talk with her?
Haitang smiled and said to Zhou Xuejun: "Even if I express my thoughts directly, they are just my thoughts. Miss Wu may not agree, but with her temper, she will probably say that my thoughts are correct, and she also has I agree. What's the point? It's her own life. She has to make her own decisions. No matter what others say, it won't be as good as her own." Zhou Xuejun said thoughtfully: "Sister Hai's words make sense. . But I think Mrs. Gui has never taught Sister Wu these things. She just wants her to listen to her. Now that Sister Wu suddenly wants to think about what to do in the future, it will be too difficult for her if the people around her don't persuade her. If you are afraid that she will get into trouble, won't it cost her her whole life? "

Haitang is not worried about this: "Mrs. Zhenguo will guide her, and Ma Shangyi also teaches her in private, right? With these two elders guiding her from the front, and you sisters always caring and comforting me, I I believe that Miss Wu will not really get into trouble. Only if she learns to think and knows what she wants to do in the future, she will not be confused and easily deceived. "

Zhou Xuejun thought for a while, nodded and said: "Sister Hai is right, Sister Wu lives in our house, how could we let her delay her life? Just listening to her say that we must contribute to revitalizing the Wu family, Even if I sacrifice my life, I feel bad. She and Brother Wu are the only two people left in the Wu family. Although Brother Wu is the heir who can inherit the incense, Sister Wu is also from the Wu family. Bloodline, does she have to sacrifice for the family? "

"It depends on what kind of marriage she wants." Haitang tilted her head, "Actually, I don't think she has to marry into a wealthy family or a noble family in order to contribute to the Wu family. A wealthy family They may also be holding back, and they may choose to abandon their allies because of their own interests; as long as a weak family is strong enough, it may be more helpful to the Wu family. As for how to choose a suitable marriage, there is no telling. It depends on her own thinking.

"I think it's not time for her to talk about getting married yet, so she might as well seize the time and learn more. As long as she learns to think and judge for herself, when she talks about getting married in the future, she will have a clearer understanding of the pros and cons of each choice and know how to fight for herself. The most suitable partner also knows how to manage her life after marriage. If she lives well and has a happy marriage, the Wu family will naturally benefit. "

Zhou Xuejun frowned. Things seem quite complicated, but what Haitang said makes sense. Not only is this the case for Wu Qiong, she also seems to have to consider what kind of marriage is more suitable for her in the future. It's so troublesome... She is still young, why should she start thinking about these troublesome things now?
She muttered in a low voice: "It's so complicated... Grandma also said that I will go to the capital to be with my parents in the future, and maybe I will marry into a family in the capital, so she asked me to learn the rules from Grandma Ma... Then will I have to marry someone when the time comes? Do I also have to consider the things that Sister Wu has to consider? "

In comparison, Sister Huajun is much luckier. She can stay in Chang'an. She only needs to follow the arrangements of her parents and elders and marry a suitable young man in the army. With the Zhou family here, she can live an easy life. As long as she is a good wife, no one can bully her.

Why can sister Hua Jun live so easily, while she, Zhou Xuejun, has to go to the capital to get married?
Should Sister Wu Qiong stay in Chang'an to get married and become a relaxed and leisurely general's wife, or should she return to Beijing with her and marry someone with unknown intentions? Although she has Wu Qiong as her companion, she doesn't seem so lonely. But Wu Qiong often doesn't have his own ideas and needs help from others to find ways to solve problems. Do you want her to worry about sister Wu Qiong while worrying about her own marriage? !
Zhou Xuejun sighed again and again, with a sad look on his face, which looked even more sad than Wu Qiong's.

She also began to feel that Wu Qiong needed to learn to make his own decisions.

Haitang saw the worried expression on her face and couldn't help but pursed her lips and laughed secretly.

(End of this chapter)