Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy

Chapter 1431 Xiaohan
The weather is sultry and the heat is everywhere.

Xue Ling took a nap in the air. Unexpectedly, he was woken up by Xue Heng's phone call after less than half an hour of sleep.

She asked sleepily: "What's the matter?"

"Are you taking a nap?"

Xue Ling smiled softly and said: "You can quit if you want! Anyway, with the group's shares, you will be a billionaire even if you are idle. Then you can sleep twenty hours a day."

"Forget it." Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh: "I still have to fight for Xiaohan for a few more years. The more I earn, the more secure her life will be in the future."

Xue Ling did not believe this, and said: "It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish. You shouldn't always pamper Xiaohan. Your child's learning must be done well and don't put the cart before the horse. Otherwise, no matter how much you earn, Jinshan Silver Mountain can’t afford squandering.”

As far as she knew, Xiaohan's grades were average, not outstanding.

Based on her current grades, she has little hope of getting into a key middle school, so she can only study in an ordinary middle school.

The child has quite good potential, but unfortunately Xue Heng thinks that she is a girl and needs to be pampered and pampered, so he seldom imposes strict requirements on her.

Unless children who are not taught strict education have excellent self-discipline and are extremely talented, it will be difficult for them to become successful.

Her property is not small, and her children can live a prosperous life even if they do not work hard and live a life of mediocrity.

However, she has never doted on her children. She should be strict and persevere, and she has not fallen behind.

"You should cultivate some of your child's interests and hobbies and encourage her to pursue them. Xiaohan seems less cheerful than her peers and has no special hobbies, which is really not good."

Her children, except Ranran, all have their own interests and hobbies, and she also supports them in pursuing them.

Except for the second child, everyone else's grades in cultural classes were very good, which laid a foundation for them to pursue their hobbies and gave them more choices on the crossroads of life.

After hearing this, Xue Heng couldn't help but smile bitterly.

"I'm calling you...I also want to ask you for a favor...about Xiaohan."

Xue Ling rolled his eyes and asked, "What's wrong? The little girl fell in love prematurely?"

"No way!" Xue Heng said amusedly: "Can you be a little serious? If something happens to the child, it means puppy love? Look at your reaction!"

Xue Ling smiled and explained: "Xiaohan is already thirteen or fourteen years old, and the girl's thoughts are just budding. It is normal for her to fall in love early now! People must have charming thoughts, otherwise it will not be romantic enough."

"No way?" Xue Heng asked: "Is it possible that A Chong and Xiao Xin also fell in love early?"

Xue Ling replied: "I guess there is, but I'm not sure, and I didn't ask. Isn't it normal for them to have charming thoughts at their age?"

Although they didn't take the initiative to say it, she guessed that they had some trick of writing love letters or giving small gifts.

The children are old and should have their own little secrets.Even if she and her husband knew, they would pretend not to know.

Xue Heng asked in surprise: "No way? Forget it about Ran Ran and Yang Yang. One is a graduate student with outstanding achievements, and the other is an undergraduate student at Imperial University. Even if they marry a wife and come back to be your daughter-in-law, you can ignore them." But Xiao Chong and Xiao Xin are only going to be in their second year of high school, right? Now is the age when they have to study hard. The homework is so intense! Aren't you worried that their early love will affect their grades?" "It's useless to worry." Xue Ling said: " They are very sensible and know that their most important task is to study. They hide their thoughts in their hearts and secretly do some tricks. If we parents are overly concerned at this time, the matter may become more serious. Forget it, don't meddle in other people's business. What should I do? Come as you please."

"No way? Are you so open-minded?" Xue Heng was a little in disbelief.

Xue Ling smiled and scratched his hair.

"Otherwise? Children have to grow up! Ranran and Yangyang should have been in this situation before, and we didn't pay too much attention to it. How real and lasting can a high school love be? More than 90.00% of them end in vain. The grades are not affected, just Pretend you don’t know.”

Xue Heng thought for a while and whispered: "I guess I have to learn from you on this point."

"That won't work." Xue Ling reminded: "Xiaohan has a relatively serious temper and is also relatively sensitive. You can't follow the same pattern, otherwise it may be counterproductive."

Xue Heng couldn't help but ask: "Then you suggest that I intervene?"

"No." Xue Ling replied: "Appropriate attention and correct guidance. Reasonable interference does not mean obstruction. Protecting the child's mental health is the most important."

When Xue Heng heard this, he couldn't help but sigh.

"Xiaohan... is indeed different from other children. She is very sensitive and her emotions change a lot. Sometimes I don't even know what she is thinking because her true thoughts are hidden very deep."

Xue Ling secretly felt distressed and whispered: "She may need a more lively playmate or classmate."

After all, children who grow up in a single family will have some weaknesses in their ideological and psychological qualities.

Xue Heng said: "But she can't be lively... She was quite active when she was young, but the older she gets, the quieter she becomes. It's good for a girl to be quiet, but she is not really quiet. She has a dull temper and always has a melancholy look on her face. Feeling. Alas... sometimes I feel really at a loss... but I have tried my best. Over the years, my family has been my pillar of support, and then I have to work to make money."

"You and I both know the reason." Xue Ling said truthfully: "But what can be done? No one can change the established facts. When you divorced, you didn't think about your children carefully at all, and you couldn't think about it. .”

In that situation, I really had to get divorced.

Although divorce is easy, it is not so easy to eliminate the various evils left by divorce, and the most serious among them is the mental health problems of children.

Compared with children from divorced families, children who grow up in healthy and happy families will have better overall psychological quality, be more cheerful and active, can get along with others better, and will have more friends.

Of course, this is only the case in most cases, and not every child is like this.

But Xiaohan is the poor child who is obviously affected.

Xue Heng sighed long and whispered: "We... are all sorry for Xiaohan. Over the years, I have tried my best to make up for it... In addition to having a complete family, I have tried my best to do everything else. I talked to Xiaohan today and tried my best She said that her father might need to find a companion, otherwise he would be very lonely when she grows up and gets married. Xiaohan suddenly became very unhappy, crying and saying that she did not want anyone else to be her mother, she only wanted her own mother. "

Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and asked, "You didn't explain it carefully, did you? No? It was just to test the hypothesis?"

"Yes." Xue Heng whispered helplessly: "Even if it is a hypothesis, Xiaohan refuses to agree... and even said that we should consider... remarriage."

(End of this chapter)