Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy

Chapter 1495 Misconception
Xue Ling's eyes widened and he wiped the corners of his mouth.

"Husband, why haven't Ahu and the others come back yet? Did you leave food for them?"

Cheng Tianyuan took a piece of shortbread and explained: "They didn't come back to eat. They said Shanyou suddenly wanted to eat pickled cabbage hot pot, and the whole family went to eat hot pot with her."

“Oh.”

"Mom!" Xue Xin yelled, "Did you two hear us? Don't pretend you can't hear us, okay? I need your support! They are three to one, I can't win!"

Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan looked at each other and smiled softly.

"Your views on love and values ​​are far different from ours, so we can't say who is better and who is worse. In my opinion, you are both right and both of you are wrong."

Xue Xin pouted: "Mom, what are you talking about!"

"It's just that part of your concept is right and part of it is wrong." Cheng Huanchong interrupted.

Xue Ling nodded: "Most people's concepts and ideas will continue to change and improve with age, experience, and various hardships in life and work. What you think now may be in your life Little girls of this age think what you said is very right and great. In the eyes of your parents, it is inevitable that you will have the ignorance and excessive idealism of little girls."

"What?!" Xue Xin became excited upon hearing this and muttered: "Ignorance? Idealism?"

Others sneered lowly, their laughter a bit harsh.

Xue Ling also laughed, but without any hint of ridicule.

"In fact, a person's heart is divided into many, many parts. One part is for parents; some is for family and loved ones; some is for study, work, friends, colleagues, etc... The kind of 'I give all my heart' on TV and in novels You! You are the only one in my heart! My love is given to you alone! I only love you in this life!' Words like this are just words of love and cannot be repeated."

"When you are at an age when you long for love, of course you feel that love is all you have. But is it realistically possible? You still have to study hard to follow up, and you still have family members to accompany you, classmates, teachers, etc. Love is just a part of our relationship. It’s just one kind, not everything. In real life, there aren’t many situations where you can’t live without your partner.”

"It's very sweet when you're in love, and it's extremely painful when you're falling out of love. But most people can't turn their first love into marriage. Many people will fall out of love, suffer in pain for a while, and then find someone else to fall in love with, until they finally get married. Get married. Finally, if the marriage is not happy and the family is not harmonious, many people will get divorced. From these two perspectives, the person we love is not our only one, nor is it everything to us."

"For you now, maybe your age and impulsiveness have given you full confidence. You feel that the other person must love you and pamper you, and his whole heart is filled with you, otherwise he doesn't love you enough. If he does other things, he will not be in your crisis. When he stays with you, you may feel that he doesn’t pay enough attention to you and doesn’t put you first, which means he doesn’t love you enough. But you really can’t be the only one in his world.”

"There are so many people in the world, and he has to deal with many people every day. It is impossible for him to revolve around you all day long. The earth revolves around the sun, but it has to autobiography, right? He also has to have his own things to do. He also has relatives and friends to take care of, right? There are many kinds of feelings, and love is just one of them. In the field of love, you are the first, maybe you are the only one, and everything. But you have to allow him There are other realms, aren’t there?”

"The human heart is inherently very complicated. Your heart contains many people, including parents, brothers, grandmothers, grandmothers, etc. His heart cannot be just you, right? If you want to learn and play chess, he He has to work, socialize, travel domestically and abroad, and accompany you to take care of you and make you happy. How much have you done for him, and what can you do for him, why should you ask him to put you first? "

After hearing this, Xiaoxin's pretty face turned slightly red, but she was still stubborn.

"Mom, why are you getting involved with me again...what does it have to do with me? I-I'm not as unreasonable as you said."

Xue Ling smiled and shrugged: "There is no best. At your age, it is normal to have such thoughts. No one will blame you, but the people who love you will be a little tired. We are just reminding you that love is good, But I really can’t drink enough water.”

Xiaoxin glanced at Cheng Tianyuan and muttered: "Didn't you say that when you married your father, he was still poor? The family didn't even have a decent house and was still in debt." "Yes." Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Then At that time, my family only had two adobe houses, not even a dilapidated bicycle. We owed a lot of money and still couldn't pay it back. Old debts had not been repaid, and we had new debts, so we were really poor."

Xiaoxin said in a muffled voice: "Mom, at that time...were you thinking that 'love can make you drink enough'?"

"No." Xue Ling shook his head.

Cheng Tianyuan glared at his daughter and explained: "Your mother married me with 2000 yuan and a lot of dowry given by your grandfather. On the third day of the wedding, she went out with me to the city to find a job and make money. You and I No matter how affectionate my mother is, she still has to make money. Otherwise, how can she have a relationship if she can’t fill her belly? The family’s debts don’t have to be repaid? The parents don’t need to be supported? "

Xiaoxin buried her head and murmured: "I... misunderstood."

Xue Ling wiped her mouth and stood up: "Okay, just know that you are wrong. You guys, don't think that you are all right. Girls are not so easy to coax. Work hard to make money and give others stability and strength. Arms and a warm family are the best ways to love a girl."

"Know it!"

"Mom, I know!"

"I haven't had such troubles..."

……

That night, Zhu Achun brought Zheng Duoduo over to pay New Year greetings.

Zheng Duoduo gave each of the elderly a big red envelope, and also secretly gave one to each of Xiaoxin and Xiao Chong.

"Don't say anything. You are all adults and you don't have any points. But you are the youngest and are not financially independent yet, so you can secretly give me some."

Xiao Xin and Xiao Chong jumped up and down with joy, threw themselves into his arms, and laughed happily.

"Shhhhh!" Zheng Duoduo suppressed a smile: "You two little ancestors, please be quiet! Spare me, your eldest and second brothers will see you soon and they will chase my wallet!"

"Thank you, Brother Duoduo!" Xiaoxin stood on tiptoes and kissed him.

Zheng Duoduo couldn't stop laughing and joked: "Don't let Tietou know, otherwise he will stare at me to death."

Xiaoxin blushed and snorted, then ran away.

Xiao Chong punched him and hugged his arm: "Let's go! Let's play games!"

Zheng Duoduo turned his head and raised his voice: "Auntie, I'm going to play with my third child! Call me when you have to leave later!"

(End of this chapter)