Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy
Chapter 1591: Encourage if you can’t persuade
Chapter 1591: Encourage if you can’t persuade
Xue Heng didn't believe it and couldn't help teasing: "That's because you have already climbed your 'Mount Everest', so everything else is just a cloud."
After a pause, he added: "As the old saying goes, don't look at the mountains when you return from the Five Mountains, and don't look at the mountains when you return from Huangshan. You already own many 'Huangshan's, so you can retire without regrets."
"Do you think you will have a lot of regrets if you retire now?" Xue Ling asked: "If that's the case, then you can vote. Don't hesitate!"
Xue Heng asked again: "Don't you invest a share? This project is still worth investing in. Even if you can't do it yourself, you can still leave it to Ranran! Ranran is a medical genius, so it's best to leave it to him."
"No more." Xue Ling shook his head and explained truthfully: "I really can't do it myself. This is a new and unfamiliar industry to me, and I really don't have the energy to study and struggle anymore. However, he is still in the hospital. At work, it is impossible to resign in the short term. He is extremely busy, leaving early and coming back late every day, and he doesn’t even have time to fall in love. I can’t add more projects to him, for fear that he will be too busy in the future. Over there at the pharmaceutical factory The share is enough to keep him busy for most of his life."
"You didn't even ask him, how do you know he doesn't want to?" Xue Heng couldn't help but joke: "Think about how hard you worked when you were working on your own career! You never dote on children, especially boys. What's the matter? Now that the child is older, why don’t you want to let go of the child? It’s too stressful and hard?”
Xue Ling shook his head: "If I couldn't bear to let my child work too hard, I wouldn't support him in this industry. Being a doctor is really, really busy, especially a doctor in a big hospital. I think people have to do what they can, and they can't overdraw themselves. Health and ability. Moreover, today’s young people are different from those of our era.”
"What? Can't you suffer as much as us?" Xue Heng shook his head: "Don't underestimate the children!"
Xue Ling shook his head again: "No, today's young people prefer to pursue spiritual enjoyment, because they do not lack material wealth. In the past, I was busy and left the children to the old man and A Yuan. Today's young people need everything Accompanying each other, pursuing spiritual satisfaction, and taking care of children by yourself are more conducive to the growth of children. The environment is different, social concepts and values are also different, and we cannot impose our own ideas on children. If he himself If he likes it, he can invest and I won’t interfere.”
Xue Heng seemed to understand, and whispered: "Maybe... you are right. So, are you sure you don't want to add one share?"
"No." Xue Ling smiled slightly: "What I mean by 'retirement' is real retirement. It is definitely not just talking about one thing and doing another thing. If Duoduo hadn't strongly asked me to occasionally attend the board of directors' meeting, I would have continued to The group doesn’t want to go there. Since we have complete trust in Duoduo, we should let him go and operate it properly. Don’t stand by his side and put pressure on him, making the young people afraid and unable to stretch their legs.”
"Yeah." Xue Heng smiled in approval, "In the end, you are the best! Of course, you must have a good mentality. If you don't have a good enough mentality, you won't be able to bear it. If it were anyone else, you would have to be trembling for several years."
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes, mentality is really important."
"Next year." Xue Heng discussed: "I cashed out half of my shares, discussed it with Ah Huan, and then started preparing to invest and develop my second career."
Xue Ling answered well and reminded: "Before selling the shares, you must ask the people around you if they want to buy it. Unless your own family doesn't want it, you can't sell it to others at will. I don't want some messy people to appear on the board of directors in the future. I don’t want to make it difficult for Duoduo. He is the boss of the group now, and everything has to be done by him. Only when he says yes can you do it."
"What if he refuses?" Xue Heng couldn't help but smile bitterly: "That guy Duoduo seems to be easy to talk to, but when it comes to official matters, he is like a wild wolf, selfless, even cruel and ruthless." "He refuses. , you can't sell it randomly." Xue Ling advised: "If it doesn't work then, I will buy it for you. If it were me, Duoduo would naturally not say anything. After all, I am the largest shareholder of the group."
"Okay." Xue Heng secretly breathed a sigh of relief and smiled: "Then let's settle it first."
Xue Ling's eyes moved slightly and said: "You are already in your early fifties before you want to develop your second life career. Xiaohan is already so old, why have you never thought about developing your second life marriage? The most important thing in life There is nothing more important than career and marriage. You are pursuing the 'Mount Everest' in your career, why haven't you thought of finding yourself a 'Huangshan' to enjoy the sunset?"
"Forget it." Xue Heng sighed and smiled bitterly: "It's impossible in this life. I've seen it through and taken it lightly."
Xue Ling frowned and asked: "Is it because of Xiaohan? She will grow up in a few years, and you can't guard her for the rest of your life. She has her own life in the future, and you have to live alone for your old age. Try it a little bit.”
Xue Heng pursed his lips helplessly and whispered: "I haven't thought about it, and I don't want to. I don't know why, but since the divorce, the words 'love' and 'marriage' have scared me, and I don't dare to try it at all. At that time, Lawyer He She and I planned to give it a try, but we have already passed the age of passion. Being together is not only dull, but has become a burden in our busy work life. She has to take time to have a meal with me, and I have to take time to escape. Old people and children often can't get along together. There is no feeling of love at all, but they are full of helpless burdens. This feeling frightened her, and it also frightened me. We talked it over with each other, Once each returns to normal, we can feel more at ease.”
"Alas..." Xue Ling couldn't help feeling sorry for him, and whispered: "It's all Fang's fault... I hurt you too badly back then."
Later, their marriage was full of troubles, and all kinds of irritability, anxiety, and quarrels destroyed their last illusions about love and completely ruined their marriage.
The injuries were so serious, they were so disappointed and even despaired that both of them were unable to recover and never dared to get involved in marriage again.
Xue Heng was slightly embarrassed and his eyes dodged a few times.
"It's been so many years, how can there be any injuries... In fact, in this marriage, Xiaohan was hurt the most, not us. So the person we feel most guilty and distressed for each other is Xiaohan. Maybe because of this , A Fang and I both cherish her and dote on her even more. Too much is too much, and too much love will do no good. For example, today's incident is the best negative teaching material. "
"Okay, okay, that's it. Why are you saying these useless words?" Xue Ling stopped and said, "Hurry up to the cram school and wait for arrest."
(End of this chapter)
Xue Heng didn't believe it and couldn't help teasing: "That's because you have already climbed your 'Mount Everest', so everything else is just a cloud."
After a pause, he added: "As the old saying goes, don't look at the mountains when you return from the Five Mountains, and don't look at the mountains when you return from Huangshan. You already own many 'Huangshan's, so you can retire without regrets."
"Do you think you will have a lot of regrets if you retire now?" Xue Ling asked: "If that's the case, then you can vote. Don't hesitate!"
Xue Heng asked again: "Don't you invest a share? This project is still worth investing in. Even if you can't do it yourself, you can still leave it to Ranran! Ranran is a medical genius, so it's best to leave it to him."
"No more." Xue Ling shook his head and explained truthfully: "I really can't do it myself. This is a new and unfamiliar industry to me, and I really don't have the energy to study and struggle anymore. However, he is still in the hospital. At work, it is impossible to resign in the short term. He is extremely busy, leaving early and coming back late every day, and he doesn’t even have time to fall in love. I can’t add more projects to him, for fear that he will be too busy in the future. Over there at the pharmaceutical factory The share is enough to keep him busy for most of his life."
"You didn't even ask him, how do you know he doesn't want to?" Xue Heng couldn't help but joke: "Think about how hard you worked when you were working on your own career! You never dote on children, especially boys. What's the matter? Now that the child is older, why don’t you want to let go of the child? It’s too stressful and hard?”
Xue Ling shook his head: "If I couldn't bear to let my child work too hard, I wouldn't support him in this industry. Being a doctor is really, really busy, especially a doctor in a big hospital. I think people have to do what they can, and they can't overdraw themselves. Health and ability. Moreover, today’s young people are different from those of our era.”
"What? Can't you suffer as much as us?" Xue Heng shook his head: "Don't underestimate the children!"
Xue Ling shook his head again: "No, today's young people prefer to pursue spiritual enjoyment, because they do not lack material wealth. In the past, I was busy and left the children to the old man and A Yuan. Today's young people need everything Accompanying each other, pursuing spiritual satisfaction, and taking care of children by yourself are more conducive to the growth of children. The environment is different, social concepts and values are also different, and we cannot impose our own ideas on children. If he himself If he likes it, he can invest and I won’t interfere.”
Xue Heng seemed to understand, and whispered: "Maybe... you are right. So, are you sure you don't want to add one share?"
"No." Xue Ling smiled slightly: "What I mean by 'retirement' is real retirement. It is definitely not just talking about one thing and doing another thing. If Duoduo hadn't strongly asked me to occasionally attend the board of directors' meeting, I would have continued to The group doesn’t want to go there. Since we have complete trust in Duoduo, we should let him go and operate it properly. Don’t stand by his side and put pressure on him, making the young people afraid and unable to stretch their legs.”
"Yeah." Xue Heng smiled in approval, "In the end, you are the best! Of course, you must have a good mentality. If you don't have a good enough mentality, you won't be able to bear it. If it were anyone else, you would have to be trembling for several years."
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes, mentality is really important."
"Next year." Xue Heng discussed: "I cashed out half of my shares, discussed it with Ah Huan, and then started preparing to invest and develop my second career."
Xue Ling answered well and reminded: "Before selling the shares, you must ask the people around you if they want to buy it. Unless your own family doesn't want it, you can't sell it to others at will. I don't want some messy people to appear on the board of directors in the future. I don’t want to make it difficult for Duoduo. He is the boss of the group now, and everything has to be done by him. Only when he says yes can you do it."
"What if he refuses?" Xue Heng couldn't help but smile bitterly: "That guy Duoduo seems to be easy to talk to, but when it comes to official matters, he is like a wild wolf, selfless, even cruel and ruthless." "He refuses. , you can't sell it randomly." Xue Ling advised: "If it doesn't work then, I will buy it for you. If it were me, Duoduo would naturally not say anything. After all, I am the largest shareholder of the group."
"Okay." Xue Heng secretly breathed a sigh of relief and smiled: "Then let's settle it first."
Xue Ling's eyes moved slightly and said: "You are already in your early fifties before you want to develop your second life career. Xiaohan is already so old, why have you never thought about developing your second life marriage? The most important thing in life There is nothing more important than career and marriage. You are pursuing the 'Mount Everest' in your career, why haven't you thought of finding yourself a 'Huangshan' to enjoy the sunset?"
"Forget it." Xue Heng sighed and smiled bitterly: "It's impossible in this life. I've seen it through and taken it lightly."
Xue Ling frowned and asked: "Is it because of Xiaohan? She will grow up in a few years, and you can't guard her for the rest of your life. She has her own life in the future, and you have to live alone for your old age. Try it a little bit.”
Xue Heng pursed his lips helplessly and whispered: "I haven't thought about it, and I don't want to. I don't know why, but since the divorce, the words 'love' and 'marriage' have scared me, and I don't dare to try it at all. At that time, Lawyer He She and I planned to give it a try, but we have already passed the age of passion. Being together is not only dull, but has become a burden in our busy work life. She has to take time to have a meal with me, and I have to take time to escape. Old people and children often can't get along together. There is no feeling of love at all, but they are full of helpless burdens. This feeling frightened her, and it also frightened me. We talked it over with each other, Once each returns to normal, we can feel more at ease.”
"Alas..." Xue Ling couldn't help feeling sorry for him, and whispered: "It's all Fang's fault... I hurt you too badly back then."
Later, their marriage was full of troubles, and all kinds of irritability, anxiety, and quarrels destroyed their last illusions about love and completely ruined their marriage.
The injuries were so serious, they were so disappointed and even despaired that both of them were unable to recover and never dared to get involved in marriage again.
Xue Heng was slightly embarrassed and his eyes dodged a few times.
"It's been so many years, how can there be any injuries... In fact, in this marriage, Xiaohan was hurt the most, not us. So the person we feel most guilty and distressed for each other is Xiaohan. Maybe because of this , A Fang and I both cherish her and dote on her even more. Too much is too much, and too much love will do no good. For example, today's incident is the best negative teaching material. "
"Okay, okay, that's it. Why are you saying these useless words?" Xue Ling stopped and said, "Hurry up to the cram school and wait for arrest."
(End of this chapter)
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