Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy

Chapter 2069 Misguided
Ahu couldn't help but frown and asked, "Not all of them?"

"No!" Chen Min smiled bitterly: "The eldest brother is almost the same as Yang Yang from Ayuan's family, but Yang Yang is already the father of four children! None of the three have a partner, and they still refuse to look for one - I'm worried to death!"

Ahu also had a look of disbelief: "At their age, if I could get a fixed salary a month, I would definitely find a partner! When I was in my twenties, my heart was burning with passion every day, no matter what the obstacles were. Don’t live like that!”

Everyone laughed.

Cheng Tianyuan said: "We were different back then. We were not as rich in materials as we are now. They were very simple. You were lucky enough to be able to barely fill your stomach. At that time, weddings were simple, with wedding candies and formal clothes. Wearing a red flower and a happy word on the clothes is considered a wedding. For families with a better financial situation, it is grand enough to put a few dishes on the table and invite friends to get together."

"That's right!" Ahu said with a smile: "If the employer can pay you 30 yuan in salary, then you are the top class! So I don't understand the young people nowadays. They have everything and their life is so good. Why? Don’t you want to get married or find a partner?”

"Influence." Chen Min frowned and explained: "My daughter loves to watch TV dramas on TV and mobile phones all day long. She always tells me that the divorce rate is so high now. If she will eventually get divorced, why should she get married? The partner can make money, and she can make money. When you get married, the woman must bear and take care of the children, and she must do housework. What can you get from working so hard? In the end, if you get tired of life, you must divorce. After divorce, the child How pitiful, she has to work and take care of her children, so where can she find the energy to make money and live a good life? She is neither good nor left, anyway, she is afraid of marriage and childbearing. She also said that unless she can marry a rich and beautiful CEO like her cousin, I’d rather be single for the rest of my life.”

"Little Tong?" Ahu asked, "Duoduo's wife? Right?"

Chen Min nodded: "Among all my sisters, my younger sister, Xiao Tong, is the best to marry. She is beautiful and has good academic performance. If she stays in the imperial capital after graduation, she can still find someone as good and as rich as she is. My husband is the envy of all my relatives. Young girls think that others can marry well, so why can't she? So they find all kinds of dislikes, and their vision is too high. That's how my daughter is treated It’s having an impact.”

"How come there are so many CEOs!" Ahu laughed: "With so many companies and groups in the imperial capital, how many unmarried young CEOs can there be? Ten fingers are enough to count them, right?"

"Yes!" Chen Min stopped and said, "Everyone has to be chosen well. With such high standards, how can you find so many outstanding CEOs to marry, right?"

Cheng Tianyuan said with a smile: "Little Tong is not necessarily that happy. She has to study and take care of her family and children, which is quite hard. Besides, Duoduo is a workaholic, putting work first and working overtime every three days. The couple Everyone is so busy that I’m afraid I can’t even get together more on weekends. It looks very beautiful and looks good, but how many people can understand the hard work and bitterness involved?”

"Look!" Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Xiao Tong also has Xiao Tong's depression!"

Wang Qing's hands trembled and trembled, and she whispered: "Mindset...it's all a matter of mentality and outlook on things."

Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "It is indeed a matter of mentality."

"But I don't know how to persuade them." Chen Min shook his head: "I can't persuade them, and I don't know how to persuade them. Say a few more words, they think I'm nagging. I won't say anything, and it doesn't seem right. . As a parent, how can you be willing to let your children live alone without finding a partner, right?"

Ahu patted his shoulder and sighed: "Brother, don't think too much. There are really not many things we can control. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. If they think it's good, then let them do it."

"There's nothing you can do if you don't follow." Chen Min chuckled and said, "They can do whatever they want, I don't care. I ended up getting divorced myself, so I have no qualifications to teach children how to organize a family and take care of it. Family." "You can't say that." Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "There are still many things that we can't do! Is it possible that we are not qualified to care about our children? Right?"

Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Parents are role models for their children. If I can't do that well, the children... are quite disappointed in their marriage and family. They are afraid of marriage and childbearing, and this is also the reason why their parents' marriage failed."

"I can't blame you." Ahu comforted: "You have always been a good father, and they all know it in their hearts. Now that they are close to you and are very filial to you, that's enough."

Chen Min's eyes turned slightly red and he whispered: "If my family was harmonious and beautiful, why would the children be like this? Look at A Yuan's family, he and his sister-in-law have always been very loving, and the children are all very good. Even if it's too late, Some are looking for a partner, but they will eventually find one. They will not be afraid of getting married, let alone insist on not getting married and having children. Family and parents are the main influencing factors... I know."

"It's up to them to figure it out." Cheng Tianyuan reassured: "There will be some influence, but not all. The main reason is that the current media propaganda concepts are not very correct. All the hedonistic and optimistic consumption concepts are incorrect. That kind of thing Life is short, love yourself more, buy all kinds of luxuries, spend too much, etc., everything is wrong."

Ahu frowned and shook his head: "It's all wrong! It's harmful to people!"

Cheng Tianyuan continued to explain: "Some young people spend their money and even use credit cards to buy luxury goods - these will harm the younger generation. How much they earn can be spent, and their parents and families don't have to bear the burden? Even if they don't have to bear the burden for the time being, they don't have to plan for the future. Making plans? We, the older generation, are all afraid of not having any savings. If we don’t have money around us, we will feel unsure and have all kinds of panic and uneasiness. Young people must taste the pain and panic of not having any savings before they finally wake up. Some wrong ideas It spreads too fast, and the impact is very bad. It sounds reasonable. Young people are easy to make mistakes due to all kinds of cajoling and temptation, and in the end they pay a heavy price."

"Young people have soft ears and little social experience, so they are easily deceived!"

"That's right! Recently there has been a lot of propaganda about favoring boys over girls, which has made family relationships indifferent and caused all kinds of conflicts with parents. My little Yun'er can't help but get angry every time she sees it! Girls are also born to their parents. How could a person who was raised by parents occasionally engage in antagonism and confrontation because of their different treatment? Family relationships are getting worse and worse because of all kinds of messy TV series and media videos. Fortunately, Xiao Yun'er has grown up and understands Decide what’s right and what’s wrong.”

"Not necessarily. One generation was lucky enough to escape. Isn't there another generation? Don't let your children see those messes. We should promote correct values ​​​​and family values ​​to avoid being taught bad things indiscriminately!"

Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyes and unconsciously realized that the sunset had already set, and quickly got up.

"We can't rest anymore. Let's quickly go back and wash the river clams. If we continue talking, there will be no dinner left!"

"Haha! Come back, come back."

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(End of this chapter)