Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy

Chapter 2131 Marriage Expectations
Cheng Huanran lowered his eyes and whispered: "He...may still need time. Maybe he will want to remarry if he has the opportunity to meet the right person in the future."

There are no absolutes in anything, and some things are hard to say too early.

Before he met An An, he had no interest in getting married and was not even interested in falling in love.

When the person in your life appears, everything falls into place.

Xue Yang, however, had no confidence and explained: "Once a person passes that age, his heart changes. As a man, forty is still a flower, but when you reach 56, it's a different story."

Cheng Huanran was very optimistic and said, "It would be nice to find a partner to live with by then!"

"Hopefully." Xue Yang curled his lips: "Anyway, he already has two sons. He is not afraid of being alone in his life, and he is not afraid of having no one to see him when he dies."

"Go, go, go!" Cheng Huanran laughed and scolded: "Can you say something nice? Can you hope that he will be well?!"

Xue Yang smiled helplessly: "No! What's wrong with what I just said? What's wrong? Old people with descendants won't be too miserable, especially rich old men. After his club is built, his worth will It won’t be low. When the child grows up, he won’t be old. He will be free and easy, have money and leisure, and there is nothing wrong with that.”

"That's right." Cheng Huanran chuckled dumbly: "Little Huzi loves to be lively and has a smart mind. He will not make his life miserable."

Xue Yang nodded in agreement and said: "If he didn't have children, he would probably remarry and have children. But he already has two sons. He is busy making money and taking care of his sons. He is already extremely busy. How can he have time and energy to go there again? Do something else. For some people, marriage is a pit. Once you fall into it and it’s hard to climb out, how can you be stupid enough to get rid of it one more time? If you’re stupid once, then you’re stupid again? Huh?”

"It depends on the person." Cheng Huanran lowered his voice: "Our family still believes in love."

Xue Yang shook his head: "Most people no longer believe in love after getting married. To be honest, most of my friends said they regretted getting married after getting married, but few said they were very happy and regretted not getting married earlier."

"Marriage is different from love." Cheng Huanran analyzed: "Love is the sweet relationship between two people, and marriage will add many other elements. The families of both parties, children, trivial matters of work and family, etc. You can't have too much emphasis on marriage. Have high expectations, otherwise it’s easy to be disappointed.”

Xue Yang didn't understand what he heard and asked, "What do you mean? Don't you look forward to marriage?"

"How is that possible?" Cheng Huanran explained: "People who want to get married will naturally have expectations, but the content of expectations varies from person to person. I look forward to growing old together with my beloved woman, raising our children well, and spending a lifetime together. . Some people are looking forward to transcending classes and achieving financial freedom. For example, the friend’s sister I just mentioned, she just wants to use marriage to get a higher level of wealth. If her partner disappoints her in the future, she will naturally You will be disappointed in your marriage.”

"Yes." Xue Yang said: "People who are looking forward to love may not be satisfied. Marriage is not as passionate as falling in love. Age, work, children and various trivial things will distract the attention. How can the passion last for decades? For Right? So, the majority of people regret it.”

Cheng Huanran smiled slightly and shook his head: "Actually, the worst thing is that many people habitually place their expectations on other people. If you place your hopes on others, you are more likely to be disappointed." "Yes, yes. "!" I want a divorce.”

Cheng Huanran said warmly: "Set some goals for yourself and demand less from others, so that you can live a happier life. To put it more elegantly, it means tolerating the loved ones around you, working more and complaining less, so that you can live a happy life. Don't give, expect. Others pay, or you just pay blindly, while others sit back and enjoy the gains. Sooner or later, various problems will arise, and the marriage will be riddled with holes, so how can it be possible to be happy."

"Yes." Xue Yang said very confidently: "I have no requirements for Xiaoxiao, and she has no requirements or conditions for me. I understand that it is not easy for her to raise children, and she understands that it is hard for me to make money. I pay, and she pays, too. You don’t have to compare to be happy!”

Cheng Huanran nodded: "Yes, An An and I will learn from you in the future."

Xue Yang laughed.

Cheng Huanran said happily: "Don't think I'm joking, I'm serious. You got married a few years earlier than us, and you have a lot of experience worth learning from. There is no happy family for no reason, right? Every family has its own happiness. The way. You and Xiaoxiao are considerate and tolerant of each other—it’s worth learning from us!”

"Mom and dad are more worthy of your study." Xue Yang raised his fingers and counted: "They belong to the type of mutual support. Grandpa and grandma are the type of mutual love and respect. Uncle Ahu and the others are the type of strong men and soft women - there are many!"

Cheng Huanran nodded in approval: "Study hard and make progress every day. We will learn one by one."

"The type of parents is the most worthy of recognition!" Xue Yang explained: "Xiaoxiao and I need to learn from our parents. Not only in terms of how to get along as a husband and wife, but also in terms of teaching children."

"Oh?" Cheng Huanran asked funnyly: "Which aspect should you teach your children? Give your children enough space and freedom? Or the aspect of marriage choice?"

Xue Yang laughed loudly and said: "To be honest, our family is a breath of fresh air among wealthy families. It doesn't matter what kind of marriage between wealthy families, whether you don't like how rich people end up getting married, it's all up to you to like it. That's all. A little is very rare.”

"That's right." Cheng Huanran said with a smile: "The main reason is that our parents have laid a good foundation for us, giving us the right to choose and giving us enough space to choose freely. For our parents, it doesn't matter what kind of marriage we use. Consolidate the family business and continue to do it if you can do it well. Making money is not just about making more money. Parents are not greedy people. Knowing the love of their children is the best foundation for marriage and family."

Xue Yang patted his chest and said: "To be honest, I am very grateful to my parents. Not trading my marriage gave me the biggest choice in my life."

"You want to be a sports student, didn't your parents finally agree?" Cheng Huanran chuckled: "Your grades were not too bad back then, so you don't have to take the sports student route. One book is out of reach, but the second book is still It's very possible. But in the end, your parents still follow your own ideas and let you choose the sport you love most."

"That's right." Xue Yang laughed loudly, "I chose my career and love myself - I have no regrets in this life."

(End of this chapter)