Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy

Chapter 2315 How to choose
Mother Xue was not surprised at all, and said: "The idea of ​​relying on the mother-in-law is not right. If there are no brothers or sisters in the mother's family, she is the only daughter, and everyone will definitely help her. If there are brothers, then the son must be taken care of first."

The older generation prefers that their daughters return to their husband's family after marriage, and Xue's mother is no exception.If she had a son, she would naturally stay with him instead of her daughter.

"And you have to take care of your wife." Father Xue explained: "I heard that his father-in-law has not been in good health in recent years."

Xue Ling was very surprised and asked: "Tongzi? Really? He used to - he looked quite healthy before."

"I don't know." Father Xue shook his head: "From what Duoduo said, it seems that it is a hereditary skin disease in the family, which is somewhat difficult to treat. When you get older, you have to take medicine from time to time. Decorating a new house at home and marrying a daughter-in-law is a big deal. I also need to take care of my wife’s health. Besides, with such a long distance, there is no way I can take care of my grandson.”

"Yes!" Mother Xue said with deep emotion: "If we live together, no matter how busy we are, we can still help more or less. We are so far away, and even if my grandparents want to help, they are unable to do so. .”

Xue Ling couldn't help but tell the truth: "In the final analysis, we still have to rely on them to be parents. How can a nanny take care of the children as well as one's own family members. Just like Yangyang's ones, they are all nannies plus one's own family members. How dare they all take care of the children?" I really don’t feel at ease leaving it to the nanny to take care of.”

At that time, several of her children were raised by their parents-in-law, who took care of them.Later, Sister Achun was also a good neighbor who lived next door, so she didn't have to worry too much.

Nowadays, the world is in a bad state, and news of various nannies abusing children and the elderly are flying all over the sky, so we have to be cautious.

Even if you have to hire someone to help take care of the children, you have to have your own people involved, otherwise you can't rest assured.

The child is still young and cannot speak, and even if he can speak, he may not be able to speak clearly.Once the damage is done, it can be a lifetime of major trauma.

Because of this, you cannot leave your child to a nanny with full authority, and you must have parents or close relatives to help watch over you.

"The young couple both leave early and come back late." Xue's father shook his head: "How can we care about the little one! Unless the child is sick, he will not ask for leave. Xiao Tong is very dedicated to work, and it is impossible for Duo Duo not to work. Speaking of which, It’s still the same thing – it’s not easy!”

Mother Xue was a little confused. After all, there were many sisters of her generation who were housewives.

"Can't you wait until your children are older before you go to work? If you don't take advantage of your youth to have one or two more children, why do you have to work so hard and embarrass yourself? Some people make money to support the family, and some people take care of the elderly and children. Only one family can be complete. They also If you’re not short of money, then what are you going to do?”

At this point, she couldn't help but glare at her daughter.

Xue Ling shrugged innocently: "I have not cared about the group's affairs for many years, and I have given full power to Duoduo for a long time. I often do not attend board meetings, giving him enough freedom and trust as the president."

She never limits the rights that employees should have.When she was in charge of the company, she always acted in accordance with laws and regulations.Overtime work is never forced, and overtime work will be compensated. Those who can work harder will get more.

"It's all that - that - wolf corporate culture is bad!" Xue's father sighed and shook his head: "All kinds of vicious competition, all kinds of overtime and all kinds of papers, it makes people have a headache just hearing it. Duoduo loves that one. , and now I’m also tied up tightly by that set.”

"Yes!" Xue Ling explained: "I have reminded him many times, and he has restrained himself a little, but it doesn't change the medicine. Fortunately, it is only for young people now, and old employees do not need to join such a supervision mechanism. Otherwise, my mobile phone The number must have been blown up by the old employees." Mother Xue disagreed: "If you ask me, it is still too greedy! With so many shares and assets, it must be worth more than one billion, right? Maybe it has been more than that for a long time. That’s it. You already have so much money. You can make money by yourself and be lazy at home raising and raising your children. If you save a little money and spend it, it will be enough for several lifetimes, let alone this life. Why do you have to do it? Are you tormenting yourself? You can’t take care of your family or your children.”

"I said the same thing." Xue's father agreed.

"You don't understand." Xue Ling explained: "After Xiao Tong graduated, he started his own business and made himself very embarrassed. He had different opinions with Duoduo, and their relationship was in crisis. Later, they even suffered from depression. Duoduo secretly gave her A very relaxed position was arranged, but she still worked very hard, fighting for everything and not daring to fall behind. There was a reason why Duoduo didn't dare to suggest that she resign, because she was afraid that she might be depressed again while taking care of the baby at home. .”

Mother Xue frowned when she heard this: "Why are there so many of these things now! Why haven't you heard of them before?"

"It must have existed before." Xue Ling shook his head: "It's just not named, so even if you hear it, you may not recognize it, so I don't care."

"Are you okay now?" Mother Xue asked, "I think I heard you say it before, but I forgot about it again. I'm getting older and I really can't remember things."

"Okay." Xue Ling replied: "It's just a slight, not serious. Adjust it slowly by yourself, and add the company of your relatives and a relaxed living atmosphere and pace, and you'll be fine in a few months."

"Fortunately, it's not postpartum depression." Xue's mother sighed: "Otherwise, the young man would definitely not dare to have a second child in the future."

Xue Ling couldn't help but said: "We only have one child now. Without Sister Achun, they can't take care of it at all. How can they have a second child? Some things can't be solved with more money. No matter how much money you have, they can't buy it." The child’s health.”

"That's right." Mother Xue shook her head: "You can't buy too many things! Children are the most important thing. No matter what, take care of the children first. When the children are older and in better health, then start a career."

Xue Ling disagreed, and whispered: "Young people think differently now. They pay more attention to themselves. In addition, they are also afraid of missing the best age to start a career."

Mother Xue was speechless and asked, "Don't you just ignore the child?"

"I'll definitely take care of it." Xue Ling replied, "But maybe I can't be that detailed."

Xue's father felt very sorry for the child and sighed: "The little guy is smaller than other children of the same age and has a poor appetite. He was already thin, but he couldn't eat a lot of things, which made him even thinner - it's a vicious cycle."

"It's uncomfortable to hear!" Mother Xue looked at her daughter: "When you get to the imperial capital, remember to contact Duoduo and ask him to find a way. He can't drag it out like this. The healthy growth of the child is the most important, and nothing else can compare with it. .”

Xue Ling was slightly embarrassed and whispered: "Parents can work more for their children, but they cannot live for their children all their lives. They must have their own pursuits. I would advise them to raise their children well first and change the pace of life. When the children grow up, If your immunity is strong, you should get better gradually."

(End of this chapter)