Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy

Chapter 2334

Xue Ling shook his head: "I have never been fooled, nor have I ever paid such unjust money."

Cheng Huanran laughed out loud: "Mom, we didn't have these things when we were kids!"

"It only appeared in the past ten years." Xue Heng said angrily: "Your children are older, so they don't need to be bombarded! In the past, Xiaohan's grades were seriously bad, and I was a member of various tutoring classes and various remedial classes. Pick up and drop off. Every time I hear this kind of advertisement, I can’t help but break out in a cold sweat and get nervous.”

Xue Ling asked funnyly: "Is it that exaggerated?"

"Isn't that right!" Xue Heng explained: "At that time, Xiaohan always scored more than ten points in the exam, and he could only pass the best subjects. The teacher always said that the children had to make up for it, otherwise they would not be able to keep up with the class, and they would always drag down the older students in the class. The collective hindrance is not enough. Just imagine, your child is already bad enough, and someone is still saying in your ear from time to time - the child cannot lose at the starting line; your child has already lost, others are making progress during the summer vacation, your child If you don’t advance, you will retreat—can you not be nervous?”

Xue Ling shook his head: "I'm okay, I'm not nervous."

"That's because your children don't let you worry about anything!" Xue Heng concluded: "You can't do it!"

Cheng Huanran gave up: "The main reason is that the education philosophy in China has been too complicated in recent years. There is no other reason. In addition, my mother is the kind of person who says, 'Just do whatever you like.' The concept of "high reading" is imposed on the child's mother. Yangyang used to be very ordinary in reading. She said she wanted to go to a swimming school and go to a sports school, and my mother agreed. The third child wanted to paint, and my mother also supported it. Her correct philosophy determines her success. mentality.”

"It's different!" Xue Heng smiled bitterly: "I only have one daughter, Xiaohan, and your mother has four. Even if half of them are very good at reading, the quantity and quality are enough for her to have a peaceful mind."

Cheng Huanran thought for a while and nodded in agreement.

"That's right. After all, if you only have one child, all your hopes and sustenance will naturally be on that child. If she or he is not good, you will definitely be anxious or worried."

Xue Heng couldn't help but nod: "That's the truth! I was tortured for several years, until I found out that she was really not good at studying, and mentally... she also had some minor problems, so I had to endure it. As long as she is physically Healthy, both physically and mentally, nothing else matters. Anyway, as long as she can grow up safely, I have to look away from everything else."

"What else can you do if you don't look away?" Xue Ling laughed and asked, "Isn't this how other parents come? Otherwise, they would have been forced to death by themselves, right?"

Xue Heng glanced at her and snorted coldly: "Stop talking sarcastically! Your grandchildren are starting to grow up too. If they can't study well, I wonder if you will become anxious when you see them!"

"Pull it down." Xue Ling Youzai leaned back on the chair, "My own children don't want to worry about this, let alone the grandchildren. Their parents love chicken babies and are anxious, so they can worry about it themselves. I can help take care of the grandchildren, but I’m not going to do it all.”

Xue Heng asked in disbelief: "What if they are not top academics? Aren't you worried that one generation is not as good as the other? Are you really not anxious?"

"How is it possible to keep one generation stronger than the next?" Xue Ling asked, "Do you think it is possible? If this is the case, where did the saying 'You can't get rich for three generations' come from? Ancient emperors could gather the best educational resources and resources in the country. Talents teach their children and grandchildren. But do you think which emperor's dynasty can last for thousands of years? Which one? There are a lot of dynasties and emperors at home and abroad - which one can last for thousands of years without declining? Huh?"

Xue Heng knew that he could only shake his head without thinking.

"Then - that's definitely not possible! But if you had the chance, would you give up teaching your grandchildren? You can educate a few children so successfully, but you don't want to teach your grandchildren to be successful as well? Impossible, right? Never thought about it? Really never thought about it? "

"No." Xue Ling explained: "Do your best, don't force too much. There is a saying I have told you hundreds of times, children and grandchildren will have their own children and grandchildren. We are responsible for our sons and daughters, but how can we be responsible for the generations of children and grandchildren? Take on the next generation! People still have to have some self-awareness. No matter how great your ability is, no matter how great your skills are, they are not greater than others. Remember, there are people outside the world, and there is a sky outside the world. Do your best, have a good attitude, be good to yourself, and be good to the people around you. That’s fine.”

Xue Heng was convinced and clasped his fists.

"I hope that the day I become a grandpa, I can have such a good attitude as you."

Xue Ling joked: "You think you can? Maybe your grandson is very smart and talented, and you can't help but give up? Some genes can be inherited from generation to generation, especially excellent genes."

"Don't!" Xue Heng couldn't laugh or cry: "Don't hurt me! I have finally adjusted my mentality, don't tempt me!" Cheng Huanran laughed loudly: "Uncle Heng was scared! What? You don't look forward to it! Will the next generation be better in the future? My mother is not trying to paint a picture for you - intergenerational inheritance is also very powerful, and Xiaohan's descendants may be very, very outstanding."

"I can't control it. I can't control it." Xue Heng quickly surrendered: "I can't even control my daughter, let alone my grandson. I finally figured it out. If the child is outstanding, he will be outstanding without having to worry too much. If he is ordinary, , then there’s no need to force yourself too much. Teach what needs to be taught, learn what needs to be learned, and as for what happens in the future, just leave it to God.”

"Then what are you asking me for?" Xue Ling laughed and scolded: "I think clearly, but you have the nerve to fool me!"

"No, no, no." Xue Heng laughed: "Just chatting! Just chatting!"

At this time, another little baby came running!
She has a thin body, small arms, hands and legs, and is obviously one size smaller than other babies.

Zheng Xin swallowed his saliva and shouted: "Auntie, I want—I want to drink water! I'm hungry."

Xue Ling took out a tissue and gently wiped his sweat.

Then she handed him a glass of water.

The little guy drank it in one gulp and rolled his eyes.

"I'm still hungry - I want a snack!"

Xue Ling chuckled and looked at the time.

"There's still half an hour before we have snack time. You go play with your sisters and brothers first. When the time is up and the snacks are ready, I'll call you to eat them. The snacks are still in the baking box and you can't eat them yet."

The little guy blinked a few times and whispered: "I...I really want to eat it. Auntie, I...I didn't lie to you."

Xue Heng rubbed the little guy's head and said with a smile: "Look at this little guy, how pitiful he is! Why don't we find something to pad his belly first."

Xue Ling looked at his eldest son and reminded: "Go to the big kitchen and see if there are any pastries or pancakes that have been made. If not, go to my room to get some biscuits. There are still a few biscuits baked by the master yesterday. Eat, I put everything on the plate.”

Cheng Huanran glanced at the little guy with a smile and stood up: "Okay, I'll go right away!"

Xue Ling pushed the little guy and suggested: "You go and play first, and I'll call you all to come over and eat together later."

Little Zheng Xin ran away.

Xue Heng couldn't help but ask: "Why didn't you see his mother coming? Did the young couple have an argument?"

Zheng Duoduo moved in with his son, and for several days, he still didn't see Xiao Tong.

Either they were on a business trip or away from home, or the young couple had a quarrel, or I can't think of any other reasons.

(End of this chapter)