Reborn 1980: Good Wife Gets Rich and Busy

Chapter 2500 Uncertain

After playing for a while, the children were all sent to bed, leaving only a group of young people gathered around Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan to continue chatting.

"Old man, please keep the same tone. If they want to video chat with the third child, Qing, you have to remind him quietly."

Lin Qingzhi smiled and nodded: "No problem."

Cheng Huanchong also made an "OK" gesture.

Xue Yang raised his eyebrows and asked, "Are Huzi and the two children going there? You haven't decided yet? The plane will take off tomorrow!"

Cheng Tianyuan looked at Xiao Huzi and asked doubtfully: "It's Chinese New Year, why don't you take your two children to accompany your parents? Isn't that bad?"

Xiao Huzi couldn't laugh or cry, and explained: "It's not that I don't want to, it's just that I don't care at all. Xiaoyun and her best friend are going on vacation, and the club can only have five days off. There is a very important game on the Lantern Festival, and you have to be quick on the fifth day of the Lunar New Year. Urging my teammates to train harder. I want to go too, but this... I can’t leave!”

The most helpless and anxious thing for adults is like this: taking care of the young and not taking care of the old, plus the work dilemma that is physically and mentally exhausting.

Xue Ling said distressedly: "Xiaoyun is usually so busy. It's rare for her to have a long holiday during the New Year. She really needs to have fun. However, I haven't seen your parents for such a long time. They really miss you. Why don't we go for a few days? Well, just a few days as long as you can."

"No." Cheng Huanran refused: "The children are still young. Unless they live for ten and a half days, they will easily get sick if they fly around. Moreover, they have to be quarantined for half a month when they come back to school. I'm afraid they won't be able to make it in time for the school to start."

"Yes!" Xiao Huzi explained: "That's what I'm most worried about! I'll be quarantined for more than half a month, not a day and a half, and I might not be able to make it in time for the start of school."

Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "Then I can only explain it carefully to your parents and video chat with them when you have time."

Xue Yang on the side couldn't help but suggest: "How about - let Xiaoyun and her best friends go on vacation together, and stay with Uncle Hu and Auntie by the way."

"I don't dare to go." Xiao Huzi suppressed a smile: "Xiaoyun also misses my parents, but she is even more afraid of being forced to get married! She is scared to death!"

Everyone laughed.

"Because of this? What are you afraid of! It's not the first day!"

"Today's young people are not afraid of anything, but they are afraid of being forced to marry, and they are even more afraid of getting married."

"Not only that! I'm also afraid of having a baby!"

Xiao Huzi explained: "It doesn't matter whether I get married or not. Anyway, I already have two sons. But my sister is different! My mother said that what worries her most is that she gets married too late and misses the age of childbearing."

"Yes." Cheng Huanran said truthfully: "If you are too old to have a baby, not only is the risk of miscarriage high, but the child is also more likely to get sick. Elderly mothers should try to avoid it unless it is absolutely necessary."

Xiao Huzi shrugged: "I told my mother, I don't know where the partner is, so why rush to have a baby!"

"Give birth by yourself." Zheng Duoduo looked up from the phone screen and said, "Now that science and technology are so advanced, as long as you are willing to pay, there is no shortage of good sperm?"

Xue Yang asked doubtfully: "Isn't it? Leave the father and leave the son?" "It's not 'go'." Zheng Duoduo explained: "It's possible that he doesn't even have the concept of 'father'."

Xiao Huzi couldn't laugh or cry: "Have Xiaoyun talked to you? How did you guess it? Xiaoyun said that she was considering whether to freeze her eggs, so as not to meet the conditions when she wants to have a baby."

"No." Others said in unison.

Xue Yang squinted and thought: "I haven't seen Xiaoyun for a while. By the way, last time she went to the hospital to visit the third child, I glanced at her in a hurry and didn't even have time to chat. What? She didn't either Want to do this? No! Unless she is married, domestic laws do not allow it."

"Yes." Cheng Huanran was most familiar with the medical regulations in this area and explained: "It can only be married status."

Xiao Huzi smiled bitterly and shook his head: "This is the most difficult thing for her now. She said that if she has found a partner and is married, there is no need to do all this. It is because she has no partner and is not married that she needs to make these preparations in advance to avoid missing out. At her childbearing age, it will be too late to regret it in the future. But she refused! So, she and her best friend decided to go abroad to get it. In addition to vacation, this overseas vacation also has this purpose. "

Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan were speechless for a while and didn't know how to evaluate it.

"Now that technology has advanced, there are a lot of fancy words. We, sometimes, can't even understand them."

"Technology has advanced, and there are more choices. If there are no laws to regulate it, trouble may occur. Look at Xiaoyun, she wants to be a mother, but she doesn't know where to find a father for her child. She doesn't want a father for her child yet, but I want a child. But for a father who doesn’t have a child, where will the child come from? It’s a tongue twister.”

Everyone laughed.

"Mom, you don't understand this! You can keep the child without the father. This is the recently popular practice of 'removing the father and leaving the child'!"

"Yes! This word is quite popular recently!"

"Many women just want a child of their own and don't want a burdensome 'husband' to drag them down."

Cheng Tianyuan's thinking has always been traditional, and he can't accept it.

"If you don't want a husband, then when the child is born, won't he have no biological father? How could Xiao Yun'er want to be a 'single mother'? What does she think? Didn't you stop her? Single mothers are very hard. Yes, how can she! Besides, how can she bear it when the child is born without a 'dad'? The child will always grow up and discover his own specialness, which will be very harmful to the child."

"Not necessarily." Zheng Duoduo shook his head: "Brother Ayuan, times have changed. The divorce rate is very high now, especially in big cities like the Imperial Capital. The divorce rate is high, and the chance of being single is also high. Nowadays, single mothers and single fathers are very Generally speaking, the acceptance rate will be higher and higher.”

"Whether you accept it or not, it doesn't matter." Xue Ling disagreed, "We are in a diversified society, and acceptance is getting higher and more tolerant. Whether others accept it or not, it doesn't actually matter. Big. The key is that it’s very hard to raise a baby alone, and it doesn’t help the healthy growth of the child.”

Xiao Huzi laughed dumbly: "She said she had considered it. It was just a second choice, not a necessary choice. She said that if she was not lonely after retirement, she would not even want a child. She said that it was too annoying to take care of the child every day. She won’t be able to stand it.”

"You can consider it." Xue Ling nodded: "But if you really want to have a baby, it is better to make the decision earlier while you are young. If you don't like children, there is no need to force yourself."

"Yes." Chen Xinzhi interrupted: "Since you are determined to have a baby, it is better to solve it as soon as possible. If you are not sure that you will like the child and you are not sure that you can take care of the child, then it is better not to give up and avoid regrets in the future."

(End of this chapter)