Uncle Huang loves me to the bone

When the happy news of Yun Fei and Jiang Jingqiu came, Yao Niang was bringing Xiao Nian'er to the palace for an audience.

The three little treasures like Xiao Nian'er very much. Even the three little treasures are coaxed by Xiao Nian'er.

Several children were having fun in the garden.

It was winter now, and although the weather was not yet so cold that the wind was biting to the bone, there was still a charcoal basin placed where the two of them were sitting and chatting.

Lu Mingyu was roasting chestnuts on the charcoal basin and talking to Yao Niang from time to time: "Nian'er is really smart. Are you ready to find a wife for her?"

Yao Niang shook her head gently: "Currently, I am teaching myself. Although I have been looking for husbands, those wives believe in their hearts that women should obey the three obediences and four virtues. The only things they teach are piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and nvrou. How can they be really good at it? Teach Nian'er to read?"

Lu Mingyu nodded: "If it's just about music, chess, calligraphy, painting and female celebrities, that's really not enough. Reading can make people sensible. Whether they are boys or girls, they should read more."

"Since those masters are not good enough, don't ask them to teach, otherwise they will harm the children. If you don't mind, wait until the three little treasures are enlightened, and let Nian'er study with them in the palace."

"Although the wine sacrifice is pedantic, it doesn't mean that men are better than women. Moreover, the knowledge of wine sacrifice is also very rich. Maybe it can help Nian'er."

"If they don't adapt, we will find another way. We can't let the children be delayed. If we don't lay a good foundation at this time, I'm afraid it will be difficult to learn in the future."

How could Lady Yao refuse to agree? She quickly thanked her and said, "Thank you, Queen!"

Lu Mingyu looked at the children who were playing, and listened to the children's laughter and couldn't help but laugh:

"In the past, I always thought that children should play without worries, but after becoming a mother, I realized that there is no way to let them play without worries."

"I am always afraid that their starting point is not good and their foundation is not strong, but I am also afraid of putting too much pressure on them. In short, it is neither tight nor loose. It is very difficult to make people happy."

Yao Niang thought deeply: "Who says it's not the case? Even Huaijun is anxious. He worries every day that Nian'er will be left unattended and he won't be able to control his temper in the future." Lu Mingyu said: "Now I have one head, two big boys, and five small boys. The treasure needs to be taken care of, and there is still one in the belly.”

"I don't feel comfortable pretending to be in other people's hands. I should deal with many things myself, and I don't have that much energy."

Yao Niang smiled and said: "My queen, I can only advise you now that your children and grandchildren will be blessed."

Lu Mingyu asked her: "Are you just putting off your marriage like this?"

Yao Niang showed a hint of helplessness: "It would be disgraceful for my brother to marry his eldest sister-in-law who is a widow. I'm afraid Huaijun will be gossiped about, so I'm not going to do it."

"It's just a matter of inviting some relatives and friends to have a happy gathering, but as you know, Madam, Huaijun is a stubborn person and insists on handling things properly. We haven't reached a consensus yet."

Lu Mingyu asked her: "Ms. Yao, think about it, does Mr. Gu always rely on you?"

Yao Niang nodded: "It's like this, it's always been like this."

Lu Mingyu asked again: "Then why do you think he is so insistent on your marriage?"

Yaoniang was silent.

Lu Mingyu continued: "After all, he is just afraid of wronging you. In his opinion, he would rather bear other people's gossip than marry you in a sedan chair with all the glory."

"So, the reason why you can't reach a consensus is because you are thinking about him, and he is also thinking about you. In your hearts, you are both thinking about each other. In this case, let's talk about it."

Yao Niang nodded: "Thank you for the explanation, I will talk to him when I get back." (End of Chapter)