rich concubine

Chapter 1650: It’s still unclear whether I can let it go
Lost?

This word and this feeling don't seem to be strong at all.

It would be false to say that there was no such thing. After all, the intentions between the two families were so obvious. She had also seriously thought that it would be extremely beautiful if she spent the rest of her life with such a man. It was just that it had been a long time. , only to slowly discover that this person is not his beloved. Out of appreciation for a person's character, disappointment is inevitable, but more of a feeling of relief.

The relationship is originally one of non-delay and non-arrears. If because of this matter, we are forced to have some involvement and create any misunderstanding, that would be unfair.

She shook her head and said, "Sister-in-law, don't you know me yet? The arrangements my family has made for me must be very trustworthy, but only I know whether there are feelings or not. Not everyone can get married like my eldest brother and sister-in-law." After that, they identified with each other and lived happily ever after. Who can guarantee that the person they marry will definitely fall in love with them? Fortunately, they didn’t fall in love too deeply. Fortunately, they didn’t get to know each other too well. Now everything is just right, and we can’t even talk about it. Can you let it go?"

Yan Di showed a relaxed expression and just sighed when she heard her say again: "It's just that if this marriage doesn't work out, I wonder if my father and mother will have a headache. Although I am a woman, there are many things that my father and mother cannot do." It’s too much to explain to me, but I also know that when they selected the Qin family, they definitely didn’t just choose Mr. Qin’s character.”

Hearing what she said, Yan Di's eyes flickered slightly, she put down the spoon, picked up the water on the side and rinsed her mouth, then said: "If you really don't want to, your parents will not force you. Besides, even if you and I There is no such fate between Mr. Qin, but it does not mean that there is no possibility of good relations between the Qin and Xie families."

At that time, Xie Lianyi thought these were her sister-in-law's words to comfort her and did not delve into its meaning. It was only later, when something had happened, that she realized what her sister-in-law meant by these words.

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Qin Yugang expressed his feelings to his mother on the other side, and Xie Lianyi here did not delay. Although some words between the two people were not stated clearly, many things did not have to be said clearly to achieve a result. .

Rather than being left out in the cold by the Qin family when the time comes, it would be better for him to make it clear to his mother early in the morning to avoid being embarrassed later.

Xie Lianyi has always been well-behaved and sensible, and never made her family worry about anything. This time she expressed her unwillingness, but it didn't cause an uproar, but doubts were inevitable.

Mrs. Xie frowned and said, "Why is it so sudden? Mr. Qin also came to your Ribao banquet. What did he tell you?"

Xie Lianyi shook his head and said: "It has nothing to do with others. These days, Mr. Qin and I have been getting along intentionally or unintentionally. Ruoniang wants to hear her daughter's true wishes. The daughter is not satisfied with the marriage. The reason lies with the daughter herself. Don’t worry about him.”

"But... there has to be a reason, right? I asked you before, and you said we could look at each other. I guessed that you were a kid with ideas, so I started making preparations. Now, since you said you don't want to , but what’s the reason?”

Xie Lianyi's expression did not change. She breathed a sigh of relief and said, "I am a woman, but I have a lot of books to read. My parents taught me to have my own opinions since I was a child, so I speak out what I think."

"In terms of character, Mr. Qin is undoubtedly the best candidate. His current status is beyond the reach of many young masters from aristocratic families. He was born into a noble family, but he never relied on his parents or the glory of his family. He has done very well every step of the way. Solid, such talents are what Meng needs now, not to mention his family background. As the only son of Duke Qin, he will have a bright future. He was born to stand at the top. It is a bit stressful to stand side by side with someone like him. I am not I don’t mean to belittle myself, I am certainly not bad. Among the noble girls in the capital, I won’t say how good I am, but at least I won’t lose the face of my parents when I go out. He and I may look down upon each other in the eyes of others. We are a match made in heaven, a golden boy and a beautiful girl. Fortunately, if you don't like someone, only you can feel it. No matter how good he is, it is impossible for me and him to have love between a man and a woman. Maybe, there is no such fate." After that, She smiled slightly and said, "Mom, I still want to like each other and really have this feeling of love. If it's not troublesome, I'd better not mention it again when dealing with the Qin family in the future."

After hearing what her daughter said, Mrs. In your family, you can't let yourself do whatever you want when it comes to marriage, but both your father and mother respect your opinions. My daughter will be no worse than anyone else when she goes out. If you can't even find a satisfactory marriage, then It’s the parents’ fault.”

There are very few such families and such cheerful parents. Parents raise their children for their health and happiness, and they also need their interests when necessary. Their sons and daughters are not raised in vain, but they are truly willing to give up their interests, just for their own benefit. Children really have very little consideration.

But a truly aristocratic family, when the family is at its peak, does not need marriage to consolidate its status. When it has enough confidence, it can not overthink anything.

Xie Lianyi breathed a sigh of relief. She knew that as long as she raised this matter, her mother would not embarrass her too much. Now, nothing will happen again, and she has one less thing to worry about.

But Mrs. Xie was worried. Although she had no intention of using her children's marriage to achieve some purpose, when she first fell in love with the Qin family, she also took a fancy to Qin Yun's character. For the daughter she raised, then There is nothing wrong with Qin Yun. His family tradition is very strict. Even now, there are no concubines serving in the backyard. If a man like this is married, his daughter will be valued equally. At least he will not have to suffer from disputes in the back house. .

Secondly, it was to get the best of both worlds, but now that there is no follow-up, it really gives her a headache.

Seeing that her daughter is well-behaved and sensible, she can't bear to force her child on this matter. Even if she can guarantee that her daughter will be the mistress of the house after she gets married, she will not be wronged in the slightest, but how can she eat up her children's feelings with just a guarantee? Which one is accurate?

No one who is married and has children knows better what it is like to spend a lifetime with a man you don't love.

Even if the Xie family does not form this family relationship, it does not mean that they will fall tomorrow and lose the favor of the Holy Family. Even so, there is no need to delay the important matters of their children.

Besides, she knew her daughter well. If it was really just because of ruthlessness, she would not have shunned the marriage so quickly. Maybe there were other reasons. She didn't say it, so she couldn't be too ignorant. Feel free to ask.

As children get older, they all have their own worries. If parents blindly interfere, it will only be counterproductive.

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(End of this chapter)