rich concubine

Chapter 1729 I am not such a man
After that, he glanced at Jiang Shunxiao, sighed, and said with a guilty conscience: "This is someone else's business. As an outsider, it's inconvenient for me to say more or ask more questions, but... you didn't see her look like that at that time. It's really hateful to look at. Sister Baili treats me like my own sister. She knows everything about her family. It's not convenient for me as an outsider to listen to her talk about things like this at home, but she is willing to talk to me, so I think so. I was so aggrieved that I was eager to find a place to vent it out, but there was no other way. I was a dignified wife, but I was forced to lose my footing by the concubine below. I had to think for a long time about saying a word, for fear of something wrong... I once I have also been a concubine, and I know that it is not easy to be a concubine, but as long as you keep your duty, the hard things will be given by others. You must not forget to be proportional, otherwise you will be asking for trouble."

Jiang Shunxiao glanced at her, frowned slightly, and said, "Their backyard is indeed not peaceful, but how can you say such a thing? You know that I have never treated you as a concubine."

Rong Yi pursed her lips, knowing that she had made a mistake, and said: "Of course I know that you have not treated me poorly. I know it in my heart. It's just that a person has ambition and self-awareness. I can grow up like this because of my own self-awareness." How I write and how others treat me are other people's business. However, if I can't keep my duty, I will deserve whatever fate I have in the future."

After that, she sighed, leaned on his chest, and said: "It's not easy for women. Whether they are the mistress of the house or a concubine, they all have their own rules and decency. But if you can't keep it, don't blame me. Others have said it, the aunt who gave birth to a son is indeed a credit to the Yu family, but no matter how much credit you have, if you are eating a bowl of rice from someone else, it is best not to take credit and be arrogant, otherwise, even if you have credit, you will not be able to do it in the future. If you make a mistake, no matter where you sit, you should clean yourself up."

Jiang Shunxiao: "You remember these things clearly, but we can't control what other people do. As far as you are concerned, since you have followed me, no matter what your identity is, I promise you to be proud. After all, what you say in your mouth is The reason why Aunt Duan is so domineering and arrogant is because she has support. She relies not only on her son, but also on the governor. The governor is affectionate for her, so she is fearless. The trouble caused by destroying the wife is that the mistress of the house is the master of the house no matter what. No matter how favored a concubine is, once she gets to the top of the mistress due to her favor, she will lose her rules and propriety."

Hearing this, Rong Yi was stunned for a moment, looked up at him, and said with a smile: "It's rare to hear this from a man. Since ancient times, there have been more than one man who favored his concubines and killed his wife. However, he is willing to admit that There are not many of them. Men always stand up for their concubines in the name of true love. When something goes wrong, they blame the mistress for being inattentive and restraining people. Anyway, no matter what you say, men are reasonable, and no matter what you say, they will become women, right? , the concubine is unlucky to meet a man who only cares about the funeral, and shirks responsibility when something goes wrong. The mistress is even more unlucky, she just takes the title of a decent lady, and will never have any problems with her husband in this life. When the relationship comes, he still has to take care of the affairs of his little wife in the backyard. It’s unfair anyway, it’s really difficult for women.”

Jiang Shunxiao touched her face, chuckled, and said: "These words can knock over a whole boat of men with one stroke. Most of the men you mentioned are irresponsible and only want to be happy and do not want to be responsible. people."

Then he added: "Anyway, I'm not such a man."

Rong Yi smiled and said, "Why are you like this? I thought you were belittling others, but you are actually promoting yourself. Then tell me, if you become the governor, how will you run the family?"

Jiang Shunxiao said bluntly: "You don't need to think about this matter, I can give you the answer. A man has both a wife and a concubine in the backyard, so he should distinguish the priorities. The governor originally wanted to marry Mrs. Baili, but next time After a lot of hard work, I made several promises in front of my mother, and several promises in front of my mother-in-law, and then I married Mrs. Baili. I don’t know if there is love between them, but since they went to such great lengths to marry her, Yes, even if there is no love, you should respect it. If you really love the concubine below, take her back to the house, give her a title, give her affection, allow her to have children, and allow her to educate her personally, but also She should be made to know that the wife is the one who has the final say in the backyard. She has given her all this dignity and dignity. Then she should know who owns the backyard. If she is pampered and arrogant, the one who is caught in the middle and cannot be a good person must be the governor, no matter how noble she is. In terms of decency, a concubine is a concubine, but in terms of status, she is still a step below, and she cannot get past my wife no matter what."

Hearing this, Rong Yi nodded secretly, said softly "Yeah", and said: "So, when I knew my identity at the beginning, I never thought about getting rich and powerful or becoming a concubine for the young master. I only thought about it. If you marry an ordinary family, no matter how wealthy you are, you must at least be diligent and progressive. No matter what, it is better to be the wife of a good family than to be the concubine of a public servant. Sometimes it is said that men are emotional and dote on concubines and destroy their wives. However, sometimes men are The most rational one, no matter how much she loves her in her heart, she will never lose her dignity as the wife of the house. If she has a true relationship with my concubine, then there will definitely be someone wronged in this backyard, either her or me. If so, It's better to find an ordinary family and be a decent, upright lady. When you go out in the future, you can have a straight back, and you don't have to be despised or disgusted by others. After all, no matter how good a concubine is, she will never be on the stage."

As soon as he finished speaking, his shoulder was pinched by him, and he said: "You little heartless boy, you are trying to criticize me with these words. Although I didn't give you a glamorous identity when I was with you at the beginning. You were short for a while, but at that time I protected you so well that no one else could see you, and they had to be respectful when they saw you. At that time, you acted like a serious lady in Changliu Hang, and you never treated me badly. you."

Rong Yi smiled and said: "You are overthinking it, right? When did I try to criticize you? How could I not know that you treated me well at that time and everything you did to me was beyond the rules? It's just that I was still young at that time, so many changes happened at once, and my mind was always unable to turn around. I always felt that I had to stick to my duty, and I must not be deceived by your sweet words. If I wait until you marry a real woman, I will still You have to behave obediently, and don't get in the eyes of the main lady."

He said: "Silly, when I was with you, I never thought about marrying a wife to overwhelm you. How could I let you be a lowly person in front of others?"

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(End of this chapter)