rich concubine

Chapter 1737 Education
There was a cool breeze blowing outside, and the autumn clothes were already closed. Rong Yi was wearing a lake blue pleated Ruyi Fangfei skirt. Due to the change in status, she naturally did not tie her hair into a bun. She is wearing pink and white, her earlobes are slightly rounded with lake blue heart drop earrings, and she has a pair of chrysanthemum-patterned silk gaiters. As soon as she enters the hall, her face is filled with the breeze.

Mrs. Baili's eyes lit up, she quickly stood up and stepped forward to greet her, saying, "My sister is so beautiful like this."

Rong Yi touched her ears in embarrassment and said with a smile, "Thanks to my sister for giving me this dress. It fits me very well."

Thinking that she would come here in a hurry, but fearing that she would not bring many clothes that are suitable for the season, Mrs. Baili sent someone to the ready-to-wear pavilion to buy a few pieces according to her size to make it easier for her.

Mrs. Baili said: "My sister is beautiful, and she wears the clothes in a small place like ours very beautifully. The old saying goes that people rely on their clothes, but there is nothing new about this dress. It's just that my sister made this dress a perfect match." It’s priceless.”

Rong Yi blushed and said, "Sister, please stop saying that. I blushed. It's obviously because the clothes are good and I look good in them."

The two laughed and joked for a while. After watching and having tea, Rong Yi said, "Today's news is really well-informed."

Mrs. Baili knew what she was talking about as soon as she heard it. She shook her head with a smile and said, "They are all nonsense, and they are really annoying."

"How can it be a waste of time? My sister wants to congratulate my sister. She has truly gained the power."

Mrs. Baili sighed and said, "It seems like a good thing, but it doesn't seem like a good thing at all. I just hope that they can all be quiet, and everything will be easy for me."

Then he said: "Although I don't have close contact with that child, I talked to him for a while today. Without his mother by his side, he is much less courageous. Although he has not established any rules, he is a person who can listen. If you go in, I have a clue in my heart, and I will feel more at ease. As long as you are not a stubborn person, everything will be easy to talk about." Rong Yi took a sip of tea, put down the lid of the cup, and made a slight clinking sound. He said: "There are no completely bad children in this world. As long as they are taught well, they can be good. It is a good thing for the child to be sent to his sister at such an age."

Mrs. Baili sighed again, feeling helpless. She said: "Actually, I don't have to hold everyone firmly in my hand before I give up. If Aunt Duan can raise her children well, I will never give up." There will be more of this, but my sister also saw it yesterday. Aunt Duan has always been lacking in educating her children. She mostly shelters and indulges her children. When she makes mistakes, she refuses to punish or tell them. She always puts the blame on others. If she raises her children in this way, when the children make irreparable mistakes and make mistakes that cannot be ended, she, as a mother, will never really take the blame for her children."

Rong Yi also calmed down and said: "Children's upbringing is nothing to play with. Children are like a piece of white paper. Whatever adults draw on it, they will get it. If adults teach them to be good, they will be good. Teach him evil, and he will become evil. There is nothing wrong with doting on children. If you blindly favor or indulge, then you are appeasing and fostering adultery and harming your children."

Mrs. Baili knew that although she looked at Xiaoqian, she was actually the mother of the child. Seeing that she was so concerned about the child's upbringing, she nodded in agreement and said, "It's really disrespectful for my sister to say this. I am now It’s because I’m getting older and I can’t chat with the younger generation anymore. Maybe our generation is very strict in raising children, so I don’t see people being overly indulgent to their children nowadays. Having a child is a treasure, I can’t say. I can’t touch you, I feel distressed even if I cry, I really don’t know how to raise a child well like this, but after listening to my sister’s words today, I think my sister will definitely not be like this.”

A mother is naturally more considerate in all aspects. It is not like Rong Yi has never seen a family that pampers their children to such an extent that they only have to live in a house. Such children grow up and live a smooth life relying on their parents' savings. , I have never seen any ups and downs. If something happens to me, I don’t know how to deal with it. There is always no big future.

Her eyes moved slightly, her eyes were firm, and she said in a deep voice: "According to my thoughts, I don't ask for anything special for my child. If I can do it for her, I will definitely try my best to do it for him. Fight for him, but after all, in this world, you can live a safe life without others standing in your way. When children are young, they can follow their parents and relatives, but when they grow up, they must face the world by themselves. If If he can't bear to taste even the slightest bit of bitterness, how can he look at all the changes in the world calmly? If an adult makes a mistake, he must be punished, but if a child does something wrong, how can he just brush it off and pretend that it didn't happen at all? ? As long as the child can understand the words, it is not too young. He can listen to the principles and learn the lessons. I only want my child to grow up safely, not how broad and clear his future is. , I don’t ask him to earn any achievements, I just ask him to be a person who understands the truth and knows right and wrong, so that I don’t give birth to him in vain, nor does he come to this world in vain.”

After hearing what she said, Mrs. Baili was greatly moved. If the place was not suitable at this moment, she would have picked up the wine cup and offered her a toast. Mrs. Baili said: "Okay, okay, my sister and I are really in love." , every word my sister said touched my heart. My sister’s identity, and...heh, in short, it is very valuable for me as a sister to have these thoughts. I have met some ordinary people, The educated son was admitted as a scholar at a young age, and then as a Jinshi. Although he did not achieve much in the future, these two things alone were enough for the couple to be glorious for the rest of their lives. They also met some well-established people. People, what the couple earns in a lifetime is enough for the next generation to live a carefree and carefree life. It is obvious that their starting points are different and they could have a better future, but the children they teach are really unbearable, unwilling to make progress, and domineering. He doesn't respect his elders, and often keeps the old couple at home for days at a time. He is addicted to gambling at a young age and beats ordinary people wantonly. The money was settled. In short, the reputation was really bad. In the end, someone was killed and they were sued to the governor's office. At that time, the old couple also paid a lot of money to protect their son, but the master only said one sentence, you guys My son is very valuable, but other people’s sons can spend their lives herding cows and sheep, but they can’t even earn enough money for their lives... Alas, when that kid was going to be executed, I took my son to see the execution.”

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(End of this chapter)