rich concubine

Chapter 1875
It is true that more respectable families will not feed their children themselves. That is what the people below can do well. As a mother and a woman, the most important thing is to take good care of your body first and be a good woman. stop.

Of course He Zhiyuan didn't have the chance to experience it, so he was curious after hearing the words, and said: "Don't tell me yet, I have the same idea as you on this point. I have never been able to have a child, so I have been thinking, if one day, I have one I won’t feed my own child myself, I will feed it myself, but...how difficult can it be? I’ve also seen wet nurses feed their children, and it doesn’t seem difficult.”

After hearing this, Rong Yi shook her head and said, "Wet nurses are very good at it. Besides, they have more experience in feeding children than we do. Breastfeeding for the first time is like being sucked to pieces." , No matter how painful it is, you can’t hide. If you hide, the child will have nothing to eat and will make trouble and cry. But if you don’t hide, you will be the one who suffers.”

Hearing this, He Zhiyuan's face changed slightly and she said "Ah" as if she felt the pain. She said, "How could it be like this?"

There was no one here, so Rong Yi had a good analysis with her. After she listened, He Zhiyuan exhaled and said, "It doesn't matter, I'll feed it for a while and then give it to the wet nurse. the same."

Rong Yi smiled, picked up the tea cup and took a sip, then said: "Then you should take it easy. Some children are born to only accept breast milk and will not drink it from anyone except their mother. In other words, he drinks it." The first mouthful I take is the only one I take from now on, and I don’t recognize anyone else’s. If you want to take this thing in your belly, and you’re used to drinking your breast milk, it’s probably not easy to suddenly hand it over to someone else.”

He Zhiyuan became unsure about what she said, and said: "The way you put it, I can't even think about it. It's really not easy to have and raise children..."

Yes, how can it be easy to bear a new life?Just raising a child is not a difficult task, but educating him well is not so easy.

As a mother, everything is fine when you look at your child, but if you are a little more rational, you will worry when you see him making mistakes. You are afraid that he will have such a bad temper from now on, and he will slowly grow longer and crooked, afraid. When he grows up, not only will he be unable to contribute to his family and country, but he will also become a troublemaker.

I am even more afraid that I have the ability to bring him into this world, but I cannot teach him how to love this world. There are many unsatisfactory things in people's lives. Even I can't say with a smile that this world must be good, no. There will be dark places, and there will be no places that make you sad.

How many parents educate their children in a step-by-step, step-by-step manner.

No one can imagine what a child will grow up to be, or what kind of things he will experience in the future. Others say that the greatest people in the world are parents, but even great parents cannot protect their children. Weather the wind and rain for a lifetime.

Even if they want to, when the child grows up, when his horizons are broader and his steps are farther, he will go to a place where his parents cannot take care of him. He may be very good. This is the best result. .

There are always endless topics surrounding children, which can’t be finished in a short while.

...At night, the two of them cuddled together. Rong Yi looked at the candlelight standing on the candlestick outside, sighed softly, and said: "Today, I looked at Yuan Niang, and she was much better. It seemed that she really didn't have any problems at all. She has been sad and troubled about the past. Now, the most important thing in her heart is her children. In fact, it is quite strange. For a lady from a famous family like her, her tutor is the most strict, and she has been taught knowledge since she was a child. Da Li is gentle and elegant. During the years of her marriage, she had never been as free and open-minded as she is now. On the contrary, now, she seems to have changed her gender all of a sudden. The matter of reconciliation is so big that she can just let it go. People really can’t tell, I don’t know when I’ll be able to figure it out.”

Jiang Shunxiao said: "That's not to say. Her change is indeed very fast from your mouth, but there are traces to follow. You said before that she had almost no friends in the past few years, and almost all the people around her She is the type of person who loves to watch the excitement and make sarcastic remarks. If a person stays in such an environment for a long time, his temper will become more and more depressed and he will have self-doubt. However, since you have been in contact with her, you have interacted with her more often. She has learned a lot, and she has slowly faded out of her previous circle, or in other words, she has slowly found people who can help her. With you by her side, at least she will receive much less cold treatment and bad words. "

Rong Yi thought for a while, nodded, and said, "That's true, people are really realistic. Even if she is the wife of the minister, as long as there is something that can be said, her reputation will be bad."

Jiang Shunxiao glanced at her and was about to say something when Rong Yi suddenly asked: "She has been unhappy because she has not had children for so many years. If I didn't have children back then..."

At this point, she looked up at Jiang Shunxiao and asked, "What will it be like for you and me?"

Jiang Shunxiao sneered and said: "It is what it should be, and it is still the same as it is now. Although I did not expect that you would be pregnant with the child, it is also reasonable. To be honest, they came at the right time." It's the right time, just like your good friend is suddenly pregnant now, it's just the right time."

Rong Yi asked again: "If, I mean if, if you and I are destined to be together, can we still go on?"

Jiang Shunxiao did not deny it immediately, but thought about it seriously before saying: "This hypothesis is not easy to think about, because now we have children and daughters, and life is happy, but if it was said that I was It’s not because of the children that I’m with you, that’s definitely not the case.”

Hearing this answer, Rong Yi didn't know whether to laugh or remain silent. He seemed to have answered, but he seemed not to have answered.

It is true that such an answer is not easy to get from a successful man. It has nothing to do with the question of love or not. No matter how much a man loves himself, he cannot fully achieve that. If he wants to have a lasting relationship, how can he? Can you act arbitrarily?
So if... he really couldn't give birth, would he find another woman and let someone else give him a child?
Thinking of this possibility, Rong Yi suddenly felt depressed and couldn't say anything else. Her eyes slowly sank, she looked at one place steadily and sighed softly.

I can only calm down and tell myself, don’t think too much, it’s nothing, and thinking about it is just to scare yourself and punish yourself with things that don’t exist.

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(End of this chapter)