rich concubine

Chapter 2110 She doesn’t want her children to have too much contact with her own children

Rong Yi was silent for a long time, running through several words in her mind, and finally just smiled and said: "Adults are all busy with things, and we can't get together all the time. When the time came, I met my cousin and cousin Ningning. , be polite."

Just a few words of avoiding the important and taking the easy way out, and the children will know not to ask any more questions. Who says children don’t understand?They also understand.

Not responding directly is the best response.

Jia Yun said: "Mom, please don't worry. When the time comes, Ayuan will come with his cousin, and my daughter will have fun with her cousin and won't make her feel uncomfortable."

Rong Yi smiled, looked at her daughter, and said: "Your cousin Ning Ning has a similar personality to yours. I think you can play together. I have to remind you that your cousin Ning Ning has a more reserved personality. You two When you play with her, you should take more care of her, and don’t ask any questions, you know?"

This made the children confused for a moment.

If you can’t ask, which ones do you mean?

When the two children went to study and Ling'er was playing wildly in the yard outside, drinking and playing in the cold wind, Granny Bai said to the madam: "Actually, the eldest young master and the second young lady are already grown up, so the madam said to them To be honest, they can understand, why not tell them about the past with the county lord?"

Rong Yi hesitated for a moment: "How should I tell them this? Those things in the past are not something their children can understand. I want to tell them that their cousin once married their father and then disappeared. Chengcheng and Jia Yun and Yun are both smart children, and they will definitely know what the problem is. Besides, rumors can never be eradicated. I wonder if one day these two children will learn the secrets of the past from outsiders. I really don’t want to Let children be exposed to these things at a young age, and they should not have to bear the burden of right and wrong."

If there is any discord between the elders, it is their business. Rong Yi does not want her children to know about the past. No matter whether it is right or wrong, reasonable or unreasonable, young children should not be allowed to go distinguish.

Granny Bai sighed softly and said: "It is precisely because the two masters are smart and precocious that they are also sensitive to these things. It is not that they would not know about the past things if the lady did not mention them. The old slave feels that If the madam can bring it up to them frankly, perhaps their perception of right and wrong will be different. The two young masters have read books and will be able to distinguish between them. However, the old slave also feels that those too There is indeed no need for the young masters to come into contact with complicated matters so quickly, but Madam, don’t shy away from mentioning it.”

They have read books, and they are indeed sharper and smarter than ordinary children. Granny Bai said something that touched Rong Yi's heart. They have read books, and they will know what is right and wrong. It is not like I can hide it from them for a while now. Just hide it for a while, that's not the best thing to do.

Parents are always afraid that their children will get caught in the rain. Whenever they go out, they will tell their children to bring an umbrella, but they forget to teach their children how to protect themselves in the face of a storm, and how to identify what is raining. Is it a sunny day or a rainy day? This is what matters.

Rong Yi fell silent and was speechless for a while. At this time, Granny Bai did not bother her to say anything more. Not only children can tell the difference, but parents can also tell the difference naturally. Some words can help It's enough to say it out. It doesn't have to be practical and clear to be useful.

...After Jiang Shunxiao came back, Rong Yi told him about meeting Qin Dailong.

After hearing this, he just said: "If you ask me what I think, I don't really hope that our child will have too much contact with her daughter."

Rong Yi probably understood what he was concerned about. After all, he was a respectable man, not an ordinary pawn. He was born with nobility, and it was indeed his ability and ability that brought him to this position all the way. His previous marriage brought What he felt was humiliation. Even if he had no feelings for Qin Dailong, after all, they had once been husband and wife. Did Qin Dailong do more than just hurt his face back then?It's just that he didn't care at that time. If he had cared, many things wouldn't be ok.

Qin Dailong's daughter is the evidence that the marriage failed. Rong Yi can understand the rejection in his heart.

She just sighed softly and said: "But, I have already agreed to her. According to her wishes, Ning Ning, a child, rarely goes out and has no friends. She wants Ning Ning to develop a relationship with A Yuan, but she knows , Ayuan gets closer to our children, and she went around in such a circle to find me, but she doesn’t know how embarrassing it would be if she came to us directly."

Speaking of this, Rong Yi hesitated and said: "However, if you really don't want to, just think that I didn't respond to this matter. She must know why in her heart. The relationship between the two families is due to the past. We have become a lot less affectionate once. Now, the best state is not to owe each other. It is best to ignore it. Don't blame me. I just pity the child and am a little soft-hearted. I didn't consider your feelings this time. I’m not thinking clearly.”

Jiang Shunxiao didn't feel right about what she heard. She thought that she didn't want her children to have contact with Qin Dailong's daughter, just because of her own mood and dignity?

"Rongyi, it's not what you think. I have nothing to say to Qin Dailong for a long time. Even though she was young and ignorant back then, she also paid the price for her actions. I have no hatred for her and no Anger, towards the Qin family and my aunt, I can be regarded as the most benevolent and righteous person. I don't want them to come into contact. It's just for the benefit of our children. Our two daughters are pure and kind. I'm a little worried that they will Being led astray.”

What he said is no longer obscure, it is very clear and clear, telling his dissatisfaction with Qin Dailong. This is not a man's dissatisfaction with a woman, but as a father, he has a deep understanding of a person's behavior and psychology. negation.

He is a man, and he has never spoken out loud about many things, nor does he want to be like a bitch, saying them all in gibberish.

But he always has a mirror in his heart. When he puts a person in it and takes a look, that is all her views and interpretations of this person.

Back then, he got married to Qin Dailong naturally, but he never thought about betraying her. At that time, he really wanted to start a good family. It is fundamental for a man to have a family and establish a career. There is nothing to doubt about this. Although Qin Dailong has never had a relationship between a man and a woman, he does have a relationship between a cousin and a cousin. He thought that after the two got married, they would naturally become a family. Besides, they had never heard of it before they got married. She didn't want to.

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(End of this chapter)