rich concubine

Chapter 2209: You need to be calm in life
When the love is strong, we swear to each other and we will never leave each other in life or death.

But people can't compete with life and death. Life and death have destiny, even if the power is overwhelming, whether they live like ants, whether they live or die, they are not in their own minds.

Even though the oath of eternal love when we are in love is beautiful, we cannot resist God or fate.

Rong Yi felt depressed, but she still had to say these words.

"You are not alone. You are the eldest son of the Xie family. The parents above you have expectations for you and want you to pass on to the family. Below you are your own flesh and blood. If you become disheartened from now on and just live your life, wouldn't you be called a The old Marquis is worried about what will happen to the child under your influence, have you ever thought about it?"

Xie Yun looked at her blankly, feeling uncomfortable listening to what she said. He took a sip of wine and said, "I didn't do my duty as a son. In those years, I ignored my parents for Yan Di's illness. , regardless of the Xie family, insisting on going his own way, as the eldest son, I have indeed failed."

Rong Yi kept these words in his heart and did not say them out, because he felt that saying them was too harsh and would hurt him, but he said it himself.

He has never been ashamed of his wife and children, but as the eldest son of the Xie family, he has lost his status and is ashamed of his family. Every family has high hopes for their eldest son and cultivates them carefully, hoping to teach him the civil and military skills. To have both worlds and be the sole leader is not just for him to indulge in love one day and forget about his family's expectations.

Mr. Xie and Mrs. Xie are kind people. Their child's marriage is not going well and their daughter-in-law has been lingering on the bed for many years. They have pity in their hearts, so even though their eldest son was wasted for several years, they did not give their child too much. Pressure, this is the love and tolerance of parents for their children, but the Xie family is not just Mr. Xie, Mrs. Xie, and their two children. The Xie family's elders, those are not decorations...

Perhaps even Xie Yun himself didn't know how much pressure his parents had shielded him from during those years, and how much pressure he had endured because of it.

The power of the Xie family in Beijing should not be underestimated, but since Emperor Meng ascended the throne, the old ministers sighed and hoped that the Xie family could come forward. The Xie family has always held a wait-and-see attitude. If the Xie family fanned the flames, they might not be able to take Emperor Meng's seat now. So stable.

But the Xie family didn't. In the court, no matter how many times the old and new ministers' ideas clashed, the Xie family never did anything. Others didn't know why, but the Xie family themselves knew that in addition to various reasons, there was also the fact that in the Xie family The next generation has yet to know what it will look like in the future.

If their children are unable to bear the burden and have a hard time walking on this road, how can they bear to destroy their own roads and leave their children with a mess a hundred years later?
It’s not that they want to rebel. Since ancient times, how many ministers who have opposed the emperor have ended well?If you become the leader just because of the conflict of interests between the old and the new ministers, then in the future when the chickens are killed and the monkeys are sacrificed, your own family will be the one who suffers the most. Who will you ask to reason with?

The Xie family defended rather than attacked, mostly because of their children.

When some large families choose wives for their children, they only hope to choose a daughter-in-law who is dignified, good at housekeeping, and helpful to the family. Even if they hope that they will be harmonious after marriage, they definitely do not want their children to delay too much in love. Too much time, too much wasted effort.

The Xie family is not harsh on their children, and it is this lack of harshness that has caused the Xie family to stagnate in the past few years without any excitement.

Raising children in this way is undoubtedly a failure for the family.

In the past, I wasted a lot of time because of love. After experiencing regret again, even if I was hit, it was time to cheer up.

Rong Yi feels uncomfortable seeing him like this, but she always feels uncomfortable in her heart. You still have to say what you need to say.

"I'm not saying this to make you feel uncomfortable, but to make you face it. You can't escape anymore. If you continue to escape, who will clean up the mess for you? I don't need to tell you."

Jiang Shunxiao interrupted her at the right time: "Rong Yi." His eyes darkened slightly, indicating that it was enough to stop.These words are indeed true and should not be said by outsiders. Rong Yi stopped talking and took a deep breath.

Xie Yun looked at Jiang Shunxiao and said, "Ask her to tell you. What she tells is the truth. No one will tell me these words except you two."

After that, he looked at Rong Yi again, with a calm expression, and said from the bottom of his heart: "I know that ordinary people would never say these words. There are too many scruples and too many considerations. You said these words to me today. , you regard me as a friend, I am very grateful to you."

Rong Yi breathed a sigh of relief. She was worried that she had spoken too much just now and hurt her feelings. Seeing his magnanimous expression and what he said made her feel relieved, she said, "I don't ask for your thanks. I just want to express my gratitude to you." I hope you won’t restrict yourself anymore, don’t trap yourself with the feelings you mentioned in the past, and prove that the only way to love is if you don’t marry or don’t have feelings.”

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Speaking of this, Rong Yi smiled and said: "I used to think that it would be a very romantic thing for a powerful man to never marry and not be tempted by a woman for the rest of his life. This shows what longevity means. Love, what is infatuation, but when this kind of thing really happens to the people around you, you will think, it shouldn't be like this, you shouldn't bury yourself in the ruins from now on, no longer struggling, no longer looking forward to the light."

The words "heart as gray as death" sound dull and boring, but only those who have experienced it know that it feels like the nose is full of dust, and every breath is torture.

Who knows how difficult and difficult this kind of life is?

At least there needs to be someone who can open up around you. At least you won't be so lonely and closed-off. Only if you open your heart can it last a long time.

"Nowadays, all attachments are beautiful. When you think back to Yan Di, you are still reluctant to leave her. How can you be so sure when she has such a long way to go? In the future, you will miss one after another that makes your heart move and is so suitable. Will you really not blame her in the future?"

When the heart is calm, there are not many needs, and naturally there are many good things to do, but life is not just about this journey. Who knows that in the future, when life is difficult, you will not regret it?
The words I am trying to persuade him now are all hoping that he will open up and not be trapped in a lifetime and become depressed in the future.

After all the words were said, the atmosphere could not remain dull. Jiang Shunxiao raised his glass and said with a smile: "My wife has been enlightening you for so long, and you are so silent. You really don't give me any face."

Xie Yun smiled and held the wine glass: "It's my fault. I'll drink this to you. Listening to these words has relieved my troubles. I should thank you."

Rong Yi took a deep breath, smiled, picked up the cup, and the three of them drank together.

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