rich concubine

Chapter 2211 Raising children is really troublesome

Rong Yi didn't like hearing what he said, so she raised her head and looked at him seriously, trying to find any trace of joking on his face.

But no, he said this casually and seriously. He really meant it without any hesitation.

Rong Yi said: "I think that training children to be self-reliant, independent, perseverant, and brave from an early age starts with every little thing. But emotions are such complex things that sometimes adults can't treat them rationally, but you have to let them Is it a bit radical for a child to undergo these tests?"

At least taking myself as an example, children who grow up in an environment lacking love have a very low sense of happiness and are easily confused by some so-called illusions of warmth. Such children are either too cruel or too kind. No matter which one it is, it is definitely not a good performance.

And the child Ayuan is the embodiment of the latter. He is too gentle and kind. He always looks at everything with the best attitude. Kindness is not a bad thing, but in the complex world of people, too much Being kind will also cause you a lot of troubles.

Jiang Shunxiao said: "Time will dilute everything. Now it is a pain in his flesh and blood, but as time goes by, he becomes older and older, and there are more and more people and things in his life that need his attention. By then, everything will Priorities will be rearranged, and he will not always live in the past, nor will he always be sad. I also came through this way at the beginning, and now, I still marry a wife, have children, and build a career."

Rong Yi took a deep breath and disagreed with what he said.

"I don't know how many people are going through this kind of experience, but not everyone is Jiang Shunxiao. You have come through and come out because you have strong willpower and you know what you want. What you should give has a lot to do with your own personality, but Ayuan, Ayuan is such a kind and sincere child, how could you know that he would be like you after experiencing all this? "

Jiang Shunxiao frowned. In the minds of men like them, the eldest son in a family has to go through some trials and hardships before he can grow up. From a logical point of view, his idea is not wrong.

Seeing his frown, Rong Yi added, "Ayuan is not your biological child, so you can calmly analyze his affairs from the perspective of a bystander, but what about your biological child? Where is Chengcheng? Is this the way you want him to grow up?”

Jiang Shunxiao's heart cheered up, no, of course he didn't want to...

His eyes flickered for a while, Jiang Shunxiao looked at Rong Yi, and after a while he said, "If you say that, then I am being narrow-minded."

Rong Yi took a deep breath. The couple were not arguing about anything, nor were they trying to win. This was a conflict of ideas about their children and some things. Rong Yi would not shy away from telling him her true inner thoughts. .

Leaning back on his shoulder, Rong Yi said: "That child is now completely based on other people's preferences. I asked him if he would like Qin Dailong to be his stepmother, but he just smiled and told me that as long as his father is happy , it is enough for people around him to be happy. Maybe others will think he is sensible after listening to his words, but as a mother hearing these words, I just feel distressed. Ayuan's mother raised him very well, but such a Even good things can hurt people, especially themselves."

As she said that, Rong Yi raised her hand and looked at her fingers with light eyes, but the words she spoke were of great significance. She said: "Through Ayuan, I have thought about too many things. As parents, we always Mainly based on our own ideas, we want to give our children better things and teach them to be perfect. We have taught our children to be generous, kind, and benevolent, but we have not taught them how to be selfish and please others. "

This term is very unique. Selfishness is never a good word, but when it comes to being a selfish person who wants to please people, it sounds a little different.

Jiang Shunxiao smiled deliberately and said: "Whoever teaches children will want to teach them these qualities."

Rong Yi also smiled and said, "Yes, these qualities are not good, but they can protect us in many cases. They are so young, so it is definitely unrealistic to teach them these. I'm afraid if the teaching method is not good, they will still be able to protect us." Let them learn and get worse, but if we don't teach them, I'm afraid that our children will be too naive and will be bullied by others in the future."

At this point, Rong Yi covered her face and wailed, "What should I do, husband? Raising children is really troublesome."

She suddenly called her "husband", which made Jiang Shunxiao feel hot in his heart. He also understood the entanglement and meaning in her words, and only said: "Don't be afraid, leave the children's affairs to me, to the husband, and I will keep them for you to teach them well."

As soon as I drank the wine, I felt a little dizzy. Sometimes I felt melancholy, and sometimes I was happy. Rong Yi smiled, raised her eyes and looked at him seductively, suddenly reached out to pinch his nose, and then Looking at his gentle eyes, she said very delicately: "I can rest assured if I leave it to you, sir, but if I leave it to you... I'm really afraid that you will teach the child bad things." Jiang Shunxiao exhaled, and his hot breath was sprayed on her hand. I saw him laughing and saying, "With a mother like you, how could they be taught bad things?"

It's a hot place, the road is long, and there's snow.

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When a person is relaxed, a sip of sake can make her drunk. Rong Yi is in a good mood today, and the wine she has consumed makes her a little unable to bear it. As soon as Chang Liu returns, she puts herself on the bed safely. He took a deep breath, hugged the pillow on the other side and fell asleep.

Seeing her unsightly sleeping posture, Jiang Shunxiao smiled, reached out and patted her buttocks, and said, "How can I sleep if you take away the pillow?"

Rong Yi closed her eyes and muttered: "Go sleep outside, don't... don't talk to me."

Seeing that she was really sleepy and unwilling to say a word, Jiang Shunxiao smiled, gently took the pillow from her arms, sent her inside, took off her outer clothes, and covered her with a quilt. He brought her close to his arms and let her hug him. Seeing that she didn't frown, he smiled and said in her ear: "Hold me, it's not much more comfortable than holding a pillow."

Rong Yi didn't even hum this time, as if she really fell asleep.

During this sleep, she also had a dream. The person in the dream was unexpected, but it appeared very reasonable.

Rong Yi couldn't see her face clearly, it was a little blurry, but she just sat there and smiled at him, and Rong Yi knew who she was.

She came to look for herself in a dream. Does she have something to say?

Rong Yi saw herself sitting next to her, talking to her gently, and heard her say: "Rong Yi, thank you, I feel relieved when you and your wife are here."

Rong Yi didn't know what she said, but she heard her say again: "If he continues to slump, continue to scold him and wake him up, I won't feel bad."

Rong Yi saw that she was smiling.

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